I ve liked a guy for 10 years, he s about to get married, should I give up?

In my opinion, although you have loved this person for ten years, as you said, he has been through your ten years, and you have been all about him in your youth, but what can you do? He loves another person, even if you know him before that person, even if you love him for a long, long time. <>

Love is so unreasonable, although many people will say that the order of appearance in life is very important, but whether that person loves you is the most critical, even if it appears in his life earlier than others, he still will not stop, but continue to look for his her.

Although, ten years is a long time, but even if you like him has become a habit and a part of your life, but, knowing that there is no result of paying, it is good to exist in the young and frivolous years, and continue to insist will only let yourself live in pain, so that you and him are in an embarrassing situation, since he has someone he likes, and is going to get married, even if he can't smile and wish him happiness, he should learn to let go and let go.

Because they love each other deeply, it is impossible for two people to be friends, because they can't face him calmly like friends, and they still can't suppress the sadness in their hearts when they meet, but, dear girl, after ten years, you should also learn to grow up and understand who is really worthy of your cherishment, rather than being trapped in the emotional whirlpool alone.

What's more, it's not easy to have someone who loves you so much, you do this, even if he doesn't say it, but I think his heart is also very sad, just because he loves you, so he chooses not to say it and tolerate, don't hurt a person who really loves you for a person who is no longer possible, it's not easy to have a person who loves you, you have to know how to cherish it.

It should have been given up a long time ago, and if you continue to toss, it is not only you who will be hurt, but also your current boyfriend. First of all, I admire your perseverance and persistence very much, I feel that I am a flowery person, I can't imagine liking someone for ten years. But at the same time, I feel very sorry for you, take ten years to like a boy, and a boy who is destined to have no results, what a painful thing, what a long decade that decade is, and how many decades of your youth are there?

In life, there are some things that you can get by persevering, and some things that you can't get no matter how hard you try, your first love is someone you won't get again no matter how hard you try. <>

In fact, have you ever thought that maybe you don't like your first love so much, just because you still have a trace of fantasy about him, and you still know him in the past. Maybe you have persisted for so long, and you don't really care about him so much, but you are haunted by your relationship and have regrets. Like you said, what you miss is yourself at that time, clean and pure, miss the years at that time, maybe you won't have that kind of love anymore, but people should look forward, your current is so good to you and so good, why do you still cling to the past and refuse to open your heart to accept him?

You didn't make it to the end with your first love, you are unwilling, but what can you do if you are unwilling? People are about to get married now, and you also have your own boyfriend, why can't you turn your unwillingness into a blessing to him? Just let your past stay in the best of times.

Everyone has a past, but it's precisely because of the past that we are different. In the past youth, we couldn't be together, so we let that memory turn into a memory and stay in our minds. At the same time, I have to tell you a simple fact, the years are a knife to kill pigs, knives and knives urge people to get old, people will change, are you sure that he is still the same as before?

Grasp the happiness you have now, and what you can hold in your hands is the real one.

It is recommended that you take a trip to find your life goal, what exactly are you pursuing? Let go of the obsession in your heart, and then consider whether your current boyfriend is really suitable for you, if yes, live a good life, why not let him go as soon as possible, and let him find happiness that belongs to others. You are a good boy who doesn't want to hurt others, are you willing to let yourself bear these sins?

You have to know that there is no right or wrong in love, what you need to do is to find the true lover who belongs to you, and then stay with him for the rest of your life.

In fact, I really think that people will always be unwilling, this is the essence of human beings. A man has such two women all his life, at least two. married a red rose, after a long time, the red one became a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright moonlight in front of the window".

When you marry a white rose, the white one becomes a grain of rice sticky on your clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on your heart. The most classic sentence of red roses and white roses If you lose your lover and are still with your original wife, then this original wife will become a rice dregs and always stick to your body, and your lover is the unforgettable cinnabar mole in your heart. Actually, I think women are the same, everyone will have one or two people in their lives, so there will always be regrets, but you can't want both, live the moment.

You reminded me of the people I liked, the people I liked from my childhood all the way to the present. At that time, I was very persistent, and I tried my best to go to the same junior high school and high school as him, but I couldn't get into his university. Later, he also went to the United States to study and found a girlfriend who was a top student side by side with him.

We grew up in a yard, but no one knows to this day that I like him. I used to want to be better, and when I first entered college, I always felt that I wasn't beautiful enough to deserve him. Because in high school, I was very simple, with short hair, and I didn't dress up.

So later I learned to make up ** to keep my hair and make myself better. But when I became confident enough, I realized that I didn't have a chance. Maybe I couldn't keep up with him, so I never bothered him.

There will be a shadow of someone in everyone's heart to a greater or lesser extent, and if there is a good result, of course it is good. Don't be sad even if it doesn't end well, pack yourself up and wait for the right person to show up. There are many good things in life, and since the best is no longer available, then the rest must be grasped well.

Make yourself happy so that you can smile when you think of him once in a while. <>

When I was in high school, I also had a girl I liked very much, and I felt that she liked me too. She smiles sweetly at me every time, even though I keep a straight face, but I just don't chase her. We were in the next class in the third year of high school, and I remember that on Valentine's Day in the last semester, I met her twice on the stairs, holding a lover's bracelet in her hand, and she already wore one on her wrist.

Both times she wanted to say something and stopped, but I didn't wait, nodded and left in a hurry. I know it's going to hurt her, and I'm very uncomfortable, but, I'm sorry dear, I'm just a small high school student, and my family is just an ordinary working family, and I don't even dare to grasp my own fate, let alone this young love. Because I love you too much, I'm afraid that if I love each other but will eventually separate, I won't be able to stand it, I don't have much ability to give you a future, because I don't know my own future.

I'm afraid I'll feel guilty if I can't give you happiness, it's because I'm too selfish. If we could get into the same university, I would definitely chase you to the death, but it turned out to be a pity. I'm sorry again, I will always bless you, I know that you now have a very lovely child, have a happy home, am very happy for you, love you, and hope to have the opportunity to be with you in the next life.

After reading your love story, I chose to be silent for three minutes, and there are many similar experiences like yours. Whether it's a boy or a girl, people are like this, obviously the things around you are the best, but you don't know how to cherish them, and you regret them when you lose them. Now that you have a boyfriend and a home for him, do you know why you're uncomfortable?

It's because you didn't simply cut off these bonds. Ten years is not short, it is not long, it is a blink of an eye. You also said that it was your best time, but your first love was also early enough, and you started falling in love at the age of thirteen.

This is the age of ignorance, maybe what you think is good will expand at this age, and now you still have the choice to do something, and you have to be prepared to suffer the consequences. Find a suitable time to ask him out to talk alone, and tell him what you think in your heart, and you can get it back. If you can't get it back, you will die as soon as possible, cut off all contact, and let time dilute your thoughts about him.

If you're together, your actions hurt two people, your partner and his partner, they may like each other as much as you do, and how painful it can be to watch the other person lose from your face, are you sure you want to be so selfish? You said it, you are still not together, you blessed him and then cut off contact, there is a longer road waiting for you.

He has already used up ten years of your youth, do you want to waste another ten years? When you think of him like this, do you think you are worthy of the boyfriend by your side now? You also said that he was very good to you, do you have to lose what you want to do to be willing?

You already have the answer in your heart, why do you have to look at this matter with the idea of luck, can you give yourself some courage to forget about him and start a new life that belongs to you, be responsible for yourself, and be responsible for the people who are still around you.

After more than ten years of marriage, I found that he liked a man for more than ten years. It means that he admires this man very much, so he likes it, but he is married to you, if his feelings for you are very single-minded, then you should allow your lover to like another man. When men and women are in love, they must establish correct love ideas and values, communicate with each other sincerely, do not hide it, and fool each other and deceive each other, these are all undesirable love behaviors.

As the saying goes, "lies will eventually be exposed one day", everyone must pay attention, especially in the early stages of a relationship, and be honest with each other to introduce their true situation. In order not to say that you cheated on him (her) in the future, you will also break up because of this, even if the other party thinks that your conditions are not good or so on, it doesn't matter, at least it won't waste time and energy. The most important thing during the love period between men and women is not to be half-hearted, and to have the idea of going forward and twilight, which is a taboo for blind men and women to fall in love.

At the same time, after determining the relationship between men and women, they must know how to keep some distance from colleagues of the opposite sex or ordinary friends of the opposite sex, because any feelings are selfish, and it is easy to be jealous and quarrel, which affects everyone's emotional development. I hope you will pay attention to this important point. The third most important point of love is to know how to care and be considerate of the love object, especially in life, to care about each other, to use practical actions to help each other, such as when the girlfriend is inconvenient, but also to take care of each other, to make some delicious nutritious meals for each other, love breakfast and other rental codes.

As a boy, you must understand that girls often need to be cared for and cared for, and boys should take the initiative to put themselves in the shoes of girls to do more practical things. Especially when it is inconvenient for girls, they really want their boyfriends to be by their side. Everyone must pay attention to and don't ignore these key details.

Thinking of her like this, she has never loved you Chi Chong, why should you be her licking dog? You should divorce her quietly, and then start a new life (

People are actually tired, and many of them break up after practicing for a long time, a little lower than me, because they have been in a different place for a long time, they are slowly defeated by their younger brothers, or they are defeated by the distance, so they break up slowly, then there is a second point and a second point, that is, we often say economic problems, economic problems will also cause them to break up, after all, this thing is also slowly appearing, because these things will also have a third to serve them, and after defeating their parents, they are in a hurry to urge them to get married, What they said made them just hurry up to find someone, someone else to get married, so it's normal, and work, work, such as those who have been in love for a long time, but finally broke up, the main reason is economic problems, the economy is the foundation, and the economic base determines the superstructure. The economy can't keep up with the mind, and it can no longer keep pace with the times. There is often friction in thoughts, and after a long time, they will break up.

If you have the same ideas and opinions, you can stick to it. That won't happen. In fact, life is a long road.

If it is firmly maintained. There will be turning points in life, and you should not only look at the immediate benefits. That's the old age, you just um, like that person and say then try to be together, if you just can't be together to flirt with her, then it's the normal separation, don't be like that, it's a harm to both people, so if you should, you can be together, try to be together, if you can't be together, they try to be separated, after all, they are adults, and they can't waste his time.