Why is it more difficult for many honest boys to find a girlfriend?

Updated on society 2024-07-12
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think so, because the times are different, honest, duty, kind people often have poor language skills, low emotional intelligence, and they all know that this kind of person is suitable for life, but when you really interact with this kind of person, you will feel bored, have no vitality, and make people feel very depressed. will not coax women to be happy and will not say what women like to hear, everything is serious and follow the rules. Won't be flexible.

    In fact, women like to listen to sweet words, especially the kind of humorous and flamboyant man is very likable, and when you interact with him, a few words from him can make you feel happy and comfortable to listen to. It will feel especially easy to associate with this kind of man.

    One of the things that people often say is that men are not bad, but women are not loved, and that's probably what they say. The bad here refers to the fact that the boy will flirt with his sister and will use all kinds of means to make his girlfriend happy. With the improvement of material conditions, many people begin to pay attention to spiritual pursuits, especially between husband and wife, and taste is very important.

    And a dull person, where does the interest come from, it is difficult for him to speak if a woman likes to listen, let alone make a woman happy.

    Most girls like to be pampered, cared for, and protected. And whether it is rhetoric or intrigues, in the eyes of girls, they may all be sweet words and romance. A good girl is afraid of pestering, and the girl has been entangled for a long time, and she slowly has the position of the boy in her heart, and she has a domineering president.

    Fall in love with my illusion, and thus turn into love.

    An honest and kind man is a pot of old wine, which needs to be tasted slowly, and the more you drink, the more fragrant it becomes. It's a pity that this is a fast era, and people don't have time to get to know good men slowly, they would rather have a bottle of Jiang Xiaobai.

    The most important point is that honest and kind men do not cater to social trends. The current social trend is that when girls reach their adolescence, their favorite is the rich second generation who has money, a house and a car, or a flamboyant tongue who has enough time and energy to accompany them shopping, chatting and drinking.

    Therefore, honest, duty, and kind people need to practice their eloquence more and understand more about what women like to hear. You must also learn to praise women, and it is easy to get a woman's favor by praising women more. Women like to listen to sweet words, and you have to say more about the things that women like to hear.

    As long as you make certain changes, it is easy to get the favor of women.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because this kind of boy is too boring. Girls don't have the desire to communicate with them, so naturally they can't find a girlfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Many honest boys have a hard time finding a girlfriend because their personalities tend to be boring. When they are with girls, they often need girls to take the initiative to find topics before they know how to pick them up, so that girls will think that it will be boring to be with this type of boy. At the same time, honest boys are also more direct in their speech, and if they don't master the wording of their words when chatting with girls, it is easy to make girls feel uncomfortable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because of such honest boys, their emotional intelligence is very low, and they will not be willing to spend money on the woman, when the two go out to play and eat, he will have his own calculations, so it will be more difficult for these boys to find a girlfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because honest boys and girls don't have romance in the process of getting along, and they don't understand girls' thoughts, it's hard to find a girlfriend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's because they're too honest to flirt with girls. There is no interest in life in life, and it can't arouse the hearts of girls.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because these boys don't make girls happy. And these boys are too realistic, and it is difficult to leave a good impression on girls.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because guys like this never take the initiative, they don't take the initiative to pursue the person they like, and it's especially difficult to find a girlfriend.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because they don't speak very well, they annoy girls, and they don't understand girls' minds.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's because most of these guys are too boring, so it's harder for them to find a girlfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In normal times, to say that a person is honest is to praise his state. ......A person who is loyal and honest is a very good character.

    However, when it comes to finding a girlfriend on a blind date, it seems that honest boys are not popular......It seems that girls don't like honest guys.

    But in fact, the above statement is incorrect.

    The reason why the above statement is incorrect is that such people misunderstand the concept of "honesty".

    These people think that honesty is incompetence and a nest, so these people think that honest boys can't find a girlfriend.

    And if a boy is neither capable nor very cowardly, he really can't get the approval of the girl, and he really can't find a girlfriend.

    However, this is not the case with regard to the definition of "honest".

    The true definition of honesty refers to a person who is sincere, kind, loyal, and honest.

    The above qualities are very good qualities, if a boy has the above qualities, the girl should appreciate it very much, and welcome him very much.

    Therefore, in fact, it should be very easy for honest guys to find a girlfriend.

    Therefore, the argument that an honest boy can't find a girlfriend is untenable.

    The correct situation should be that honest boys are very popular with girls, and it is very easy for such boys to find girlfriends.

    Of course, if an honest boy wants to find a girlfriend, there is another very important premise, that is, he must have outstanding professional skills and achieve something in his career.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not that honest guys can't find a girlfriend in life, but it's hard to find a girlfriend. Under the same conditions, outgoing boys are more likely to be appreciated by girls than honest boys, and they can also seize the opportunity to confess to girls in a timely manner and win the hearts of girls.

    The so-called honest boys are not good at expressing themselves. , without a strong desire to conquer and a sense of control. In front of the girls you like, you will behave submissively.,No courage.,Most of these boys are not liked by girls.。

    Of course, if the boy has a good appearance, good family conditions, and a degree will also be chased by the girl, in this case it is very rare, it is an individual case. In general, honest boys do have a hard time dealing with emotional problems.

    Honest boys are introverts and rarely have access to girls, even if the opportunity comes, they can't seize it because they are introverted. To put it bluntly, a girl draws a line and asks the boy not to cross this line, and is not allowed to kiss her and hug her, otherwise she will get angry. Honest boys will follow this principle.

    This is not what girls want, but extroverted boys have the courage to face girls' hints, bravely kiss and hug, and show the wildness of men.

    Therefore, in general, honest boys are really not rich in feelings, it is very difficult to find a girlfriend, there is not too much room for choice, even the girls around them will not be able to catch it, and they will not slip away easily.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That's what it is, there are more men than women, and now many men are stepping on a few boats. It has created a trend that there are fewer women with vacancies! Hehe.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't be discouraged and anxious, it is true that there are leftover men and women to find a partner, but the term of marriage and love is still long for men, and it is more difficult for women to marry after their youth, but men are just the opposite, such as wine will be sublimated and more popular, and men choose a mate with a large age span, and women are generally difficult to accept smaller than themselves, so we men have an advantage, women can't wait, so get married early and fall in love early.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is said that there are more men and fewer women now, why didn't I find that there were more men when I was in love? My mother said that it was not good to choose the age of the old, so I got married in a hurry, and now I regret dying, and I want to die.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Dude, haven't you heard a sentence Men chase women across the mountain women chase men in the yarn That's why.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I can only say that the current MM has its own capital, and we have it, and that's the difference.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is said that scarcity is expensive, and the imbalance between men and women is indeed an important reason.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Actually, it's not difficult, it's just that fate hasn't arrived, good luck remember to adopt.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't be too picky, there are also girls who are distressed, maybe it will be easier for people to be content

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The answer to this question varies from person to person, and there is no fixed answer. However, some people may choose to fall in love with someone who is less educated than themselves, and here are some possible reasons.

    First, education level is not the only criterion for judging whether a person is suitable for love. A person's level of education and knowledge is not directly related to his personality, character and other characteristics. Therefore, many people may pay more attention to the matching degree of the other person's personality, interests, hobbies, values, etc., rather than the other person's cultural level.

    Second, some people believe that education is not the only measure of a person's ability and wisdom. For certain professions and lifestyles, there may be a greater emphasis on practical experience and skills rather than academic qualifications and knowledge levels on paper. As a result, some people may prefer to choose those who have demonstrated competence and wisdom in practice, rather than judging each other based solely on their academic qualifications.

    Third, some people may be more willing to choose those who are less educated than themselves, because they feel that it will be easier to control and dominate. In a relationship, some people may prefer to take the lead, and choosing someone who is less educated than themselves may make it easier for them to control and take the lead.

    Finally, some people may choose someone who is less educated than themselves, because they think it will be easier to gain the trust and dependence of the other person. Trust and dependence are very important factors in a relationship, and some people may feel that choosing someone with a lower level of education than themselves can make it easier to gain the trust and dependence of the other party.

    In general, it is a personal choice to choose someone with a lower education level than you to fall in love, and many people's choices may be different for various reasons. However, no matter who you choose as your love partner, you should pay attention to the character and character traits of the other person's repentance, respect and support each other, and manage a healthy and stable relationship together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why is it that the more honest the boy, the more he can't find a girlfriend? The honest man who heard the beauty pierced his heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. Be honest and be a good person, but you can't be too introverted, and you have the right girls to be brave enough to pursue.

    2. Boys must have a stable income, be responsible, have good taste, and be able to coax girls. Talking can make girls happy, etc.

    3. Feelings can't wait, you have to act to get something.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes、It's hard to find girls if you're too honest.、Nowadays, a lot of girls like boys who can talk and coax boys、Either you're very attractive、Yes

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