What can a big man do if he doesn t work for a long time?

What is the mentality of a man who doesn't work, he is too playful and lazy.

Many men don't like to work, this kind of man is really disgusting, in the eyes of women, men don't work and look useless, nothing. So what do men think about work? Do you know what kind of mentality men have when they don't work?

Play big. There are many human natures, and the innate character is even more difficult to change, some people are playful by nature, and they take a lazy attitude different from laziness to work, even if you let him work, his mind can not focus on work, so he maintains a shunned attitude towards work.

The work pressure is too much to bear. Some brain-burning work requires brief days and nights of hard meditation and hard work, which is very exhausting; Some jobs may require high performance requirements, and if you don't do a good job, you may be fired immediately, which can make a man feel unsustainable and gradually give up.

Lazy. There are many people with lazy psychology, this kind of people generally like to eat and be lazy, and they are bored with work, so they want to live in the past, and this kind of laziness is generally because there is no goal to pursue or there is a negative attitude towards the future of life.

With a small amount of money, you can also have time to enjoy.

Narrow-minded, careless about everything, and don't know the truth of being tolerant. In the unit, if you encounter a colleague who is praised by the leader or someone else's work performance is better than your own, you will immediately become mean, although you do not have absolute malice, but you will still be unable to control behind his back to say bad things about him.

laughed at his past troubles, in order to seek psychological balance. I often have conflicts with others at work and live a hard life.

I just want to indulge, I'm too tired, I feel that going to work on time every day like this every day is really boring, and I can't reflect my own values, so I want to give up and re-seek my goal and choose a new platform.

Because of emotional wounds, I can't work hard to put myself into work. If it is true that the work belief collapses because of emotional wounds, then the best way to heal the wounds is to find a relaxing activity that can leave you without any psychological pressure, and let yourself release it.

Why women are reluctant to "raise" men.

Men can accept that women don't work and are willing to "raise" women, and women are happy to be "raised", and even women will be moved for a long time because of a man's sentence "I support you". Women, on the other hand, absolutely cannot tolerate men not working, regardless of their wealth. No matter how rich she is, she doesn't like the feeling of "raising" men.

Women can tolerate men earning less than they do, but they must not allow men to do nothing.

Since ancient times, there has been a natural division of labor between men and women. To this day, it is still the model of "male dominant, female dominant" mostly. And women are born with a dependency mentality, which leads to the fact that no matter how powerful a woman is, she is eager to find a stronger man to rely on, and she simply can't tolerate a man not working.

What happens if a person doesn't go to work for a long time? Most people will definitely think that it should be more negative and decadent, and there will be many factors that make a person not work for a long time, first of all, internal factors, because they don't want to work, don't want to be bound by work, or they can't endure hardship and are abandoned by society; There are also external factors, no skills, no special skills, can not find a job that they are satisfied with; So what will be the result of not going to work for a long time? Let's see what psychologists have to say!

First, it will become a gnawing old family, the formation of gnawing the old family is also the result of too much doting parents, this kind of people after graduation because the work is too hard, or other reasons, will not want to work, just stay at home, eat their parents', drink their parents', this kind of people will slowly dare not go out, become very introverted and decadent, for a long time, it is easy to waste!

second, to become a family nanny; After giving birth to a child, many girls will choose to take care of the child and be a full-time wife, so that every day is around the family, for a long time, they pay too much, how hard the housework is, will be naturally ignored, will think that this is what they should do; And the full-time wife will slowly become a yellow-faced woman, who only knows pots and pans, and is not self-motivated and enterprising, and it will be difficult to integrate into the society again;

Men who work for a long time will lose the joy of life, and they will not be interested in anything, well, and then um, there is no economy in all aspects of life, and it will also be affected, and then there is a 30-year-old man, if he has a family and children, and his wife does not work, it will lead to the breakdown of the family, and the family's economic conditions cannot keep up, and the wife and children will leave you Well, let you be single, so a 30-year-old man has been caused by a long time, and there are many bad places, and it is possible to lose the family, It is possible to lose one's own, the joy of life, etc., as long as people do not work for a long time, well, there are no economic **, there are many disadvantages, well, there are many consequences, can not be estimated, so you must go out to find a job, so as to keep the family, to ensure their quality of life, men and women, no matter how old they are, doctors must work, they can be self-sufficient, so it is also the joy of life in every person's life.

What happens to a man who doesn't work all his life, this is not good, work is just a defined category, if eating, walking, even talking, and meeting others can be paid accordingly, it is also a kind of work.

It's just that if men don't want to make progress, don't work, and move, they will age much faster, both mentally and physically. Because the process of labor is also a time to come into contact with new things, otherwise you will be depressed and depressed for a long time psychologically all day long, and the body's metabolism will be normal and beneficial when you move. If you don't work all the time, you won't have an economy**, and no one can support you all the time.

Parents will also grow old one day, and they will lose their financial ** and spend their lives in poverty.

If you don't work, you will be out of touch with society, you will be empty and bored, and after a long time, you will doubt yourself, feel that you have no value to society, and you will be very depressed, and the more reluctant you will be to look for a job. Vicious circle.

People who don't work are lazy and lazy, and poor people must be hateful, and they will not be treated by the people around them, and everyone will avoid you like a plague god.

If you don't work for a long time, it will lead to mental decadence and low self-esteem. Some men's self-esteem is relatively strong, and if he does not work for a long time, he will feel that he is a waste and useless, so it will cause mental decadence.

The second is that not working for a long time will also lead others to gossip about him, which is also a depression on his spirit.

If a big man does not work for a long time, he will be depressed and decadent, he will be out of touch with society, and he will have less and less courage to enter society and work again.

It will lead to his lack of responsibility, the ability to take responsibility, and the ability to work, which will be difficult in life in the future.

If a big man does not work for a long time, he will directly lose his economic **, which will affect his normal life, and will also lose his fighting spirit. If you have children in the family, there is definitely no way to continue your married life, so it will affect your future, which is a very terrible thing.

There is no money to live, and when I don't say anything, I will become lazy, which is true, and become idle.

If a man doesn't work for a long time, others will think that he is a slump and won't work for a long time. More and more lazy.

If a person does not work for a long time, he will be derailed from the world, because he can no longer keep up with the world. The major can only be qualified for some simple work, and he may not be able to keep up with complex work.

A large man who does not work for a long time can lead to a lot of debt, with a few exceptions. There are some big men who don't need to work at all. You can still live well.

Not working for a long time will suffocate a person to death, because if he does not work there is no monetary income, he will become decadent.

Staying out of work for a long time can lead to a disconnection from society, making it more difficult to integrate into society and even being reluctant to socialize with others.

A big man who does not work for a long time will lead to family discord and no financial means to support himself.

Here's how freelancing is, too.

The nirvana of otaku is to be a freelancer.

Everyone has everyone's ideals, if this person's ideal is not to work and go to work, he chooses to start his own business, choose to complete his dream by himself, this is also okay, if you just stay and play games, waste time, such a person is not advisable, and eventually lead to playthings lose their minds.

It is definitely not okay for an adult man not to work for a long time, what about the parents at home. If you get married and have children, it's even worse.

Not working for a long time will cause the person to be unwilling to work, live a lazy life, and gradually become unable to take care of himself.

1. To the family:

1. If you don't work, you can't create visible income for the family, so that family members gradually ignore or despise it (poor family presence);

2. Because they can't create visible income, they subconsciously have an inferiority complex, and they become more and more cautious in doing things, but they can't even do some daily things well or don't meet the requirements of the main members of the family.

3. Because they don't work, they have relatively abundant time, and these spare time will often be used to overcare about the various living habits and social activities of family members, resulting in conflicts and disagreements, and even leading to family breakdown.

2. To yourself:

1. Due to not working, there is a lot of free time, in order to fill a lot of free time, it is inevitable to find ways to enrich yourself (such as: playing cards, surfing the Internet, playing games), so that the original excess time is very tight, resulting in the delay or mistake of daily housework, social and other things that should be done, which is also an important source of conflict with family members;

2. Entertainment activities (such as playing cards, surfing the Internet, etc.) that are looking for because they do not have a job are often prone to deformed feelings of hyper-friendship (both men and women), and the results of such things are obvious, needless to say.

3. Summary: As a human being in the new era, in the modern era full of various modern elements, everyone (regardless of gender) must have their own direction of life (such as: adult work, children's study, social circle of the elderly, etc.). , you must not allow yourself to have too much free time (unless you: born idle and have no pursuit + family wealth billions have a 50% chance of being able to do it casually), otherwise 90% will become: too much time to become bad or too much time to let others treat you badly.

What will a 30-year-old man who does not work for a long time and is lazy all day long? I have seen a lot of freelancers and side hustles, and they are much more lively and enthusiastic than those who work every day.

But if you are neither entrepreneur nor freelance nor side hustle, and do not work for a long time + do not work for a long time, your life is very likely to fall into disorder, collapse, and disorder.

1. Many people can't maintain regular living habits after getting rid of the mandatory rhythm of commuting. It is even more unthinkable that you will not be able to eat, wake up, and go to bed on time for four or five days of vacation, and that you will not be able to work at home for a long time.

2. Most people's spiritual world is extremely barren, they don't go to work, don't earn money, and can't find other ways to enrich their spiritual world and sense of value, they will only fall into endless boredom, be shrouded and swallowed by a sense of meaninglessness, and increase the risk of depression.

3. The feeling of not working for a long time is definitely uncomfortable, but the sweetness of laziness will make people lose more and more motivation to act. The longer you don't work, the harder it is to restart your work.

4. If you don't work for a long time, your brain and ability will deteriorate, and your thinking ability and sharpness will decline. If the elderly lack mental activity, it directly increases the risk of Alzheimer's disease.

Although moving bricks is very hard, we have to admit that labor is a necessary part of our lives. We derive a sense of value, meaning, and economic income from our labor. Stopping work will greatly reduce a person's vitality, and will make people's mind, brain and even body go into decline.

Men who don't work are irresponsible.

If you don't work, you don't have an economy, you can't even support yourself, you can only reach out to your parents for money, as the saying goes, a manly husband, you have to have an economic foundation in order to give yourself, your wife and children, and your family a better life.

The vast majority of people can only rely on themselves most of the time, have no background, have not met any nobles, and have not studied in any good schools, which is not in the way.

The performance of the man who is not productive:

1. Hesitation.

In the face of opportunities, once you hesitate, it is easy to take measures in vain, and in the end you will not even have the qualifications to fail, and you can only sigh with regret. It is difficult for a person who dares not dare to try to succeed.

2. Procrastination. A lot of things that are on the agenda are finally given up because of their own procrastination. Procrastination is a cancer on the road to success, but it is a common trait of unproductive people.

3. Three-minute heat.

There are a lot of people who are hot for three minutes, and 80% of failures in this world are due to giving up halfway. People who are not productive tend to be very interested at first, but when they encounter a little difficulty, they will start to complain, their enthusiasm will plummet, and they will start to retreat.

4. Fear of rejection.

Many people say that they don't dare to try it because they love face and are afraid of rejection. No one likes to be rejected, but learn to accept it. You know, on the road to success, your face is not worth any money.

5. Self-limiting.

Self-limiting, self-doubt, this is the worst enemy of success: boredom. Therefore, people who have no interest will ask: Can I do it? After thinking about it a few times, I came up with the answer: forget it.