Is divorce humiliating? Is it true that a divorced woman can no longer find happiness?

Thank you for the invitation Divorce, no shame, but if you feel ashamed yourself.

Aren't others even more so? If you don't think so, you won't care so much about what other people say <>

To tell you the truth, I think the divorce is a failed experience, at most it proves that you don't know people clearly, or you meet people who are not ladylike, or your personality is not compatible, but then again, you chose it yourself, you were not cautious, and you did not manage it well This is a lesson

Of course, you can find your happiness again, and there are a lot of people who are very happy when they remarry, because they will know how to cherish more, know how to run a family, and know how to love people.

But be careful to choose carefully, don't just get out of a pit and fall into another pit, thank you.

Divorced women can find happiness, it depends on your own requirements, meet the right person, don't be too harsh, treat each other with sincerity, happiness depends on your own grasp.

In fact, there is no way to generalize this, and it should be decided according to a series of issues such as the age of the divorce, the reason for the divorce, and the financial situation at the time of the divorce.

Consider it from the age of divorce:

If the divorce is made shortly after marriage, it will not have much impact on the marriage outlook of both parties, which means that the possibility of living happily after divorce is still very high.

Because everyone stopped the loss in time, they did not suffer too much emotional damage, and they still have longing and expectations for their feelings.

On the contrary, if two people stumble for a long time, divorce when they are very old, and the possibility of finding the other half is reduced, which has a great impact on the quality of life, and they will not feel happy.

Consider the reasons for divorce:

If the divorce is due to the betrayal of the marriage by one party, then there may not be so many expectations for the relationship after the divorce, and the betrayed party will also increase the psychological pressure because of his behavior, that is, he may be silent for a period of time, and the happiness index will probably be less.

If two people break up peacefully and do not leave too much bad impression on each other, then there is a great possibility of a happy life after divorce.

Consider it in terms of the financial situation at the time of the divorce:

If you leave the house or have nothing, as a divorcee, you may not feel happy, because you have no money and money, and you may even doubt your marriage.

If a marriage consumes a lot of manpower and financial resources, then after the divorce, you may no longer believe in the marriage, and your happiness will be relatively reduced.

Of course, in addition to these factors, whether two people have children, about the child's rearing, the ability to accept between themselves and their family, etc., will affect a person's happiness.

Personally, I think it's half and half, not only depending on which aspects of the above, but also on the individual's personality.

The possibilities are still very high. For many people, divorce is not the end, marriage is not the end of life, divorce is just a choice, that's all. An unhappy marriage, if you want to be happy, so choose to leave.

We must find our own goal and establish our own consciousness, and life will be very exciting, and it will be the same if we leave anyone. Divorce isn't really scary.

A failed marriage is a very heavy blow to most people, so when choosing happiness again, what we need is to find a suitable person for us, preferably away from those circumstances that have hurt us, only in this way can we avoid the harm caused by memories as much as possible.

After the divorce, we can enter another relationship again, at this time we can once again find the right person for ourselves, this time, we must polish our eyes to find the right person for ourselves, therefore, we can still get happiness after the divorce. Of course, not everyone must find the other half after the divorce, in fact, after the divorce may see through the essence of marriage, they don't want to remarry, if they can support themselves, and give themselves a good life, in fact, marriage is not so important, life in the world, the most important thing is to make yourself happy, the most important thing is to make yourself happy Therefore, the possibility of living happily after divorce is still very great.

Of course, a divorced woman can still find happiness, as long as she meets the right person.

There will always be unsatisfactory in life, in fact, everyone hopes that their voice can live well, live happily, everyone expects their life to be better, but there is no way, they are divorced, and in the face of the future life, there will be hope to work hard to practice, so that their future life will be better, there is a destiny not to divorce, and they will know how to manage their future life in the future, if you just blindly complain about the sky, the attitude towards life is extremely negative, and you are always immersed in the sadness of divorce and are unwilling to come out. Then the possibility of you being happy is too small, because your three views, that is, the world's outlook on life and values, have collapsed because of a divorce, so you will be extremely unhappy, because you have lost the pursuit of happiness, and the blow of divorce will overwhelm you.

On the contrary, if you see this divorce as just a small episode in your life, no big deal, and a new life after the divorce, and pursue happiness with a positive and optimistic attitude, you will continue to reap happiness.

Therefore, there is no need to regard divorce as so important, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.

We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high, why are we stagnating in one place when the road of life is so long. If you have been stagnant, you will miss out on other scenery on the road of life, and there are better people and better things waiting for you ahead. As long as you can continue to change yourself, make yourself stronger and more independent, I believe that in the future life, even if you are divorced, happiness depends on your own efforts, and you will live a good life, and you must have the confidence to face the future life, and happiness belongs to you.

In modern society, the main reason for the high divorce rate is that no one is willing to accommodate anyone, just pass if it is suitable, break up if it is not suitable, and no one should be mistaken for anyone. No matter what you do, the first step is the most difficult to take, as long as you take the first step, then it is easy to take the second step, and the same is true for marriage. For a woman, she will cherish her first marriage, unless she meets a person who likes to be idle all day long, likes to drink and gamble, and after experiencing many times of ineffective dissuasion, she will completely die and the idea of divorce will arise, because that kind of life can be said to be dark, and continuing to live with him will only be more painful.

As long as a woman who has been divorced once, she will look at marriage very lightly, and she will have a kind of gambling psychology. If she can meet someone who knows her cold and hot, who is strict with her, and who really loves her, she will have that feeling, she will have that feeling, she will be lucky to meet me, she can't meet my name, she can pass it, and she will continue to divorce. My concubine, this is such a person, before she married my uncle, she married a person who was idle all day long, and liked to steal chickens and dogs, and finally they divorced, after my uncle died in a car accident, she remarried many times, she said that her life was not good, because a fortune teller said that she had to eat enough water from nine families, which means that she had to go through the tribulations of nine marriages.

Conclusion: Under normal circumstances, no one will divorce without nothing, whether it is their own face or the face of their parents, they must take into account, and consider the situation of their children. As for this kind of woman who has been married and divorced many times, it is not that she is a bad person, but she has to overcome her fate and go through many hardships before she can meet the right person at the right time and live a happy life from now on.

Let's do it and cherish it!!

Of course, this is possible, it is the same for both men and women, and the most important thing is to recognize yourself, so that you can find happiness.