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There will be no price drops! Divorce or not is personal freedom, if you are not doing well in your marriage and feel that divorce is better for you, then leave it, and the most important thing is to live comfortably. Besides, the phenomenon of divorce is very common now, and few people care about this very much, and if the future partner minds the divorce, then it means that the two of you are not particularly suitable, and then find someone else.
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After the divorce, the price will definitely drop, because once you are divorced and have a history of marriage, then, in the eyes of others, you are already a woman with an imperfect mentality, so in addition to being embarrassed, you should be more cautious.
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Those women who have been divorced but can still live confidently and independently, will not lose the price, they have lost their marriage, but they have not lost themselves. Divorced cannot be the standard for judging whether a person is cheap, and a divorced woman will never be "worthless".
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No, you don't care too much about what outsiders think, you should think about your own feelings, whether you feel that you have no feelings for this marriage, think about it yourself, and respect your own heart.
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Under normal circumstances, divorce is also a person's freedom, if you don't have a good time, you can choose to divorce, don't care about other people's eyes, otherwise you will definitely live a very tired life.
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If your love life is not happy, I think you can choose to divorce. After all, being ashamed is worthless compared to your own happiness.
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If you don't have a good life, you choose to divorce, I think it's because you're not in that kind of unhappy marriage, it will definitely be uncomfortable.
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The so-called rather demolishing a temple than destroying a marriage, many people think that divorce is not good, and it cannot be easily divorced. Most of them are considering that they are still primitive couples when they get married and live, and the two are the happiest. If you really can't live with each other, you will choose to divorce, and on the issue of divorce, both husband and wife should not have impulsive thoughts.
You can't choose divorce easily, which is not beneficial for the couple or the children. After the divorce, if the husband and wife have feelings for each other, they will still think of each other's goodness. <>
Especially in rural areas, people with traditional rural beliefs believe that as long as young people are divorced, most of them will consider divorce because they are unhappy in their marriages. For today's young people, the reason why the divorce rate is so high is because young people are too hasty in their thinking about issues. When I was thinking about getting married, I didn't think about whether I could live in old age, but when I divorced, I divorced the other party because of anger.
After the divorce, in short, you will suffer from the fingers of rural people behind your back. <>
The word divorce cannot be easily mentioned in marriage, and once the husband and wife file for divorce, there will be a certain gap in their hearts. Every couple hopes that the relationship between two people can go on for a long time, even if there is no way to live with each other, most of them will choose to continue to live together because of the problem of children. In order to give children a healthy and happy childhood, but also to let children live in a happy environment.
Parents can't easily consider divorce, after all, the responsibility for the sake of their children is very heavy. <>
In life, most couples fight for custody of their children after divorce. If the custody of the child is handed over to the father's side, and the child's father is welcoming the second marriage, and the child lives with the stepmother, this will be seriously harmful to the child. No stepmother will treat the child sincerely, so it will feel very pitiful for the child, but the mother is not able to take care of the child after the divorce.
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Many people are not in a particularly good mood after divorce, and it is difficult to start a new life in a short period of time, which has a greater impact on children.
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Because it is very difficult to find a partner after divorce, you may only be able to settle with others, and it is impossible to achieve true happiness.
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There is no shame in divorce. The two made do with each other, and in the end they didn't live a good life before they were ashamed. In other words, divorce is no longer a big deal, and the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, indicating that society has accepted this phenomenon.
First of all, do you want a divorce?
The main purpose of marriage is to live a better and better life through the integration of two people and two families. If, after getting married, both parties do not feel happy, and the families of both parties do not improve, such a marriage is, at best, just a life together.
Family life after marriage can't afford any "wind and grass", and once there is a conflict, they eventually part ways. So, at the beginning of your marriage, be sure to think it through. A marriage full of love and water is ultimately not worth firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
Second, the impact of divorce.
There is no dress rehearsal in life, and marriage is actually possible. In marriage, there is an unladylike person, or the family conflict is too large. Divorce, on the contrary, is the best option.
Husband and wife go hand in hand through thick and thin, built on a rich emotional foundation. An inappropriate marriage is like wearing shoes that don't fit. Your body and soul are not properly placed.
The impact of divorce is often not the same. There is nothing wrong or right in the divorce itself, it is the outsiders who impose a lot of personal emotions on it. Life is your own, and your own grievances cannot be shared by others, so why bother to live because of the world's vision.
Finally, divorce does not affect the pursuit of happiness and is full of hope for the future.
Divorce is a frustrating affair, both men and women. Some people are slumped because of divorce, and some people are reborn because of divorce. To put it simply, divorce is to give yourself a better choice and give yourself one more chance to remedy your life.
In this life, decades of time, whether you choose to waste the years, or decisively give up the pursuit of a better tomorrow, every man and woman on the verge of divorce has their own little abacus. One step forward is not necessarily happiness; Taking a step back is doomed to misfortune. Are you still hesitating?
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There is no shame in divorce, divorce is only because it is not suitable for two people to live together, and separation is the best choice, it is just a choice.
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Why is divorce a shame, it is not ashamed. Divorce means that my love life at this moment is not my ideal state, and it is even impossible to maintain, so I choose divorce to liberate myself and embrace a new life. So it's not a shame, it's an act of courage.
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There is no shame in divorce. Divorce is an individual's choice of his or her own lifestyle, and it is his or her own right. If the marriage is not happy, there is no shame in choosing a divorce.
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I don't think divorce is a shameful thing, two people find that it is not suitable to be together after getting married, and divorce is responsible for the feelings of two people.
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The man does not want to divorce, the two parties cannot reach a consensus, can not agree to divorce, can only be divorced through litigation, the court **mediation fails, will **review, in line with the statutory divorce requirements of the judgment divorce, if it does not meet the substantive requirements of divorce, one party resolutely disagrees with the divorce, the court will not rule to grant divorce. Article 1079 of the Civil Code stipulates that if one of the spouses requests a divorce, he or she may postpone mediation by the relevant organization or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.
Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:
1) bigamy or living with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.
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My cousin's daughter celebrated her 5th birthday, and our old cousins got together again. Another year has passed, and it has been almost half a year since my cousin divorced.
Regarding the divorce, my cousin was in pain for a while, she lost her home, and her daughter was given to her ex-husband, and she suddenly felt that she had nothing in her life.
For her divorce, for onlookers, she really raised her hands and feet in favor, but her cousin was unwilling and uneasy, unwilling to end the 10 years of mutual support in this way, and did not worry that her daughter would grow up in a single-parent family.
The breakdown of my cousin's marriage, like a long-lasting puncture, is not an overnight thing. It's just that in the past two years, the fetus has cracked so much that even a one-year-old child can feel it.
They quarreled, fought, and coldly fought, and every time the children came to our house, they spoke cautiously and babbling, and there was something in their eyes, but they just didn't say it, and they always cried inexplicably. Once, the experience of a mother and daughter crying in a restaurant is still vivid in my mind, as if I couldn't pull it out.
That day, my cousin, who was crying, still had the scars of the fight with her ex-husband the night before, and as soon as she saw me, she started to spit out the feast and complained frantically, pointing to the scars on her hands and legs ......I talked for a long time, and I wanted to cry while talking. Children who have always been obedient begin to be restless when they hear their mothers speak, and adults don't listen to anything. She didn't listen to good words, she shouldn't scare her, she wanted everything when she saw it, and everyone who finally got together didn't know what to do.
My cousin was so angry that she slapped her face, and the child's face changed color, and suddenly the mother and daughter cried in the restaurant, and I was stunned for a while.
Since then, the pain of marriage has added another shadow to my heart. I looked at my cousin, and I was in pain and hate.
This party, the children after the divorce, bouncing, mischievous, talking loudly and laughing. Cousin, every day the Gongxiang Bureau worked, studied, and started again. She started hiking, learning to swim, and drinking and chatting with friends.
They are all good when they start over.
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Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.
Here's why:
First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.
You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.
Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.
Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.
The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!
When you meet someone who is destined, love boldly! Enjoy life!
In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!
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