My friend gave me an old dress, do I need to return it?

No, if you don't feel well, you can ask a friend to go out for afternoon tea.

If you can't wear your friend's clothes, you can take them and give them to your friends, this is to reuse, not to waste resources, I don't think you need to invite each other to dinner, but it depends on your personal thoughts.

Friends treat you as a true friend, and they will share their things with you if they think that they have a better relationship with you, and good friends don't need to care so much.

I think in this case, it may be that the other party feels that this dress is a pity, and if you throw it casually, it may be given to you, and there is no other malicious advice or don't make trouble for the other party.

It's possible that your friend needs to use the old clothes, and there is no other meaning, you just give it back to your friend!

It's also possible that your friend thinks it's too bad to give you an old dress and wants to come back and give you a brand new one!

Old clothes are generally treated like this:

1. Give it away. There are some clothes that you don't want to wear, but they are branded, of good quality, and well maintained, so a simple way to do that is to give them to relatives and friends.

For you, disposing of old clothes is also an "extra gift" for your friends, saving them a lot of clothing costs, environmental protection and saving, killing two birds with one stone.

2. Donation. It is also a good way to donate your unwanted old clothes to charities such as the Red Cross and various charities, and it is also a good deed to help others.

Now there are some spontaneous public welfare organizations on the Internet that can also make donations, you can check it on the Internet.

Be careful to make sure that the clothes you donate can be worn and that they are best washed and cleaned before donating.

What does it mean that the old clothes that my friend gave me before are now going back? In fact, in this case, there are two reasons, first of all, the first friend gave you clothes before, and then he may think that you are friends, and then it doesn't matter if one of his old clothes is given to you, and then then he may find that the two of you can't be friends, or if you deal with one of you in a certain aspect, he feels very sad, so he wants to go back the clothes, and the second possibility is because the friend gave the old clothes at the time, but the family or friend told you, told him, and then gave you the old clothes is not right, then she may just ask for the clothes back, he will feel that as a friend, his father will give you a pair. This is impolite.

The old clothes that my friend gave me before, now I have to go back. You can ask her about this. I said that when you return the clothes to him, she will definitely explain it to you.

This one might have some special significance, he gave it to you. And then I have to go back, it's not that I'm reluctant, it's that there is something special and special, otherwise, she wouldn't have given it to you. It's just an anomaly.

It's not that he's reluctant, but that's it. There are indeed some special circumstances, it may be bought by boyfriend and girlfriend, or it may be bought by parents or other important people, or it may be bought when participating in some activities, which is commemorative. Of course, the last one may be that you didn't pay attention to protection, and your friend felt that you didn't take the clothes she gave you seriously, and let you break them.

She felt that the dress had a reason for her, and she sent it wrong, and she should keep it for herself, so she was going back again, in fact, she was also very embarrassed in her heart, please don't mind too much, she wants to keep it as a souvenir!

Two days ago, I rode the back seat of a donkey to lunch with a female colleague during my lunch break, and suddenly she said to me very affectionately: "Xiaoni, let me tell you something, you must not be angry." “

Me: "What's the matter?" ”

Big sister: "I have a piece of clothing, I bought it before, I like it a lot, but I can't wear it, I'll bring it to you tomorrow to try?" ”

I'm actually a little resistant to listening, I'm a person who loves to buy clothes too much, there are so many clothes in the wardrobe that I can't stuff it, and this sister should have a four-sedan imitation five-year-old gap with me, and she is already a 6-year-old doll's mother, although she is very beautiful, but looking at her usual dressing, our style gap is still quite large. Her clothes are very mature and the color palette is a dark color that I wouldn't try. Although there are quite a lot of styles of my clothes, most of them are casual, loose and fresh, whether it is a sweatshirt or a chiffon skirt, they are all fresh and comfortable.

Once I wore my favorite linen all-white suit, and my big sister said that she couldn't wear this kind of clothes, and between the lines she didn't like it, then I knew that we had a bad aesthetic of clothes. But my soft character in heart couldn't resist the kindness of others for a while, and blurted out: "Okay."

From the very beginning, I didn't have any intention of refusing.

For the next two days, she reminded me every day to bring it to me, and I just responded with a "yes, yes".

Yesterday, she finally brought it and asked me to go to the bathroom to try it on for her, and when I held it in my hand, I felt the sense of history and maturity of this dress, and I took it back to Bianzi's house after hastily trying it on. Another opportunity to refuse.

When she got home in the evening, her roommate heard about it, and she was extremely excited and angry. "I really don't understand what these people think, this dress is old like this, what do I think of the style? Even my mom doesn't want to wear it!

I can't understand what these people think anyway, why don't you know how to refuse, you have to close your mind and take on a favor if you don't like it. "In the dim light, I saw the dense balls on the clothes, and I instantly felt that the clothes couldn't even make pajamas and loungewear. I remembered that I donated a large box of clothes a few days ago, and many of the clothes were still new and unworn, but now I took such a piece of clothing for idle use for no reason, and I felt a little bored.

A piece of clothing becomes a sweet burden. When I told my boyfriend about it, he thought it was a bit strange to give away old clothes at first, but when I think about it, it was a kindness from others. In the end, I was thrown a sentence: "Find a way to solve it yourself." ”

Since it is a burden of good intentions, this dress is not suitable for me. My roommate is right, I remembered the scene in "Funny Family" that I used to brush on Douyin in which Hae-mi dealt with the old clothes sent by her family for her mother-in-law to wear. Haimei said:

Hello, we have tried on the clothes you sent, but they really don't fit, how can Mrs. Dean wear such clothes? "Taking advantage of this TB, I live in a room with my big sister, and I will return it to her on the grounds that I don't feel like my style is idle when I go back to try it on, and I hope she won't give me clothes again in the future, although we have a good relationship.