Is it okay for girls to be too thrifty, and how about girls who are saving

It's not good, too much thrift will be bad for your health, you should eat, drink, and take care of your body in order to make money.

Some time ago, I saw such a scene at a party, a boy teased his girlfriend: My girlfriend is really very easy to raise, she can buy it from head to foot for a hundred yuan, the girl is obviously dissatisfied with the ridicule of her boyfriend, and she countered it: "What's the matter, I spent a hundred yuan to buy so many things, and they look good and wear, and I saved a lot of money!"

The crowd around us was amazed! I was speechless! Is this kind of almost harsh frugality really good?

When a girl has been close to harsh frugality, it may be the influence of family education concepts, of course, it is not said that thrift is not good! It is very difficult for such a person to change the concept of consumption, and when she enters the marriage with such a concept of consumption, the problem will appear. I think her married life must be as dull as boiled water, not to mention surprise and romance.

I once saw an article that said that people who are overly thrifty have social phobia, just imagine that in such a society now, there is no communication ability, no social ability, I really can't think of being able to do things to explain things, people with social phobia generally grew up at home from a young age, like this person who grew up in a closed environment, will be very poor in dealing with interpersonal relationships, after getting married, she is not facing you alone, what mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, relatives and other relationships are not handled well, You're really busy! How can such a person have the ability to manage a marriage?

If a woman, in an impetuous and boring society, can make a poem about the process of life, then your family must be surrounded by happiness, but living with an overly frugal person, then your family life will be boring, especially the impact on the next generation is also far-reaching.

People who are overly frugal will not be able to live. Maybe they will be a little selfish, they don't want to believe that tomorrow's life will be better, they are always worried about tomorrow's changes, this is a sign of extreme lack of self-confidence, marriage is a major event in life, if you have such an overly frugal person around you, maybe you should re-examine your relationship!

You are right, you are very sensible, diligence and thrift are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and parents should be very happy to have children like you.

It's the group you are in that has a problem, they compare themselves to each other, they are extravagant, they are wasteful, they squander their parents' money. Don't worry about them, just find your own group.

1.Treat feelings wholeheartedly.

In today's society, it is rare for women to be single-minded about their feelings, either for your money, or for your car and house, and few people pay their true feelings. But there is also a kind of woman who is more single-minded in her feelings, as long as you are good to her, he will be wholeheartedly devoted to you. No matter where you go, you will be reported to your whereabouts.

In short, it makes you feel very safe. When you meet such a woman, you have to cherish it, it's really rare!

2.Know how to run a house.

It is not worth mentioning that a woman can spend money, but there is a kind of woman who is very good at financial management, almost every daily expenses she will be careful to calculate, and she will be particularly economical, the money that should not be spent will not be spent, and the remaining money also knows how to invest.

3.Know how to read words and colors.

If you are looking for a girlfriend, you must find someone who knows the general idea. A woman who loves you will not embarrass you, no matter what the occasion, she knows how to give a man face. She clearly knows that if a man loses face, it means that the man can't get along in this circle, and there will be no good career and opportunities waiting for him in the future.

If you meet a good woman who is observant, please know how to cherish it!

There is guilt in spending money.

There are some moonlight people in society who spend money lavishly, and their salaries are not very high, but they are very willing to spend money, and this kind of person is a world of difference compared to those thrifty girls. There are also some people who are not willing to spend money on food and clothing in their daily life, and they are eager to break one dollar into two flowers. And when they buy something, the first thing they do is basically ask**, and they are very reasonable about their property planning.

Spend less and save more.

Most frugal girls have a desire in their hearts to save more money, and for them, having money means having a sense of security. And the thing that makes them happy is to earn money, and it couldn't be happier for them to see that their savings are getting more and more.

Worry about not having a job.

Thrifty girls not only arrange their property reasonably, but such people are basically financially independent. They often worry about not having a job, because without a job there is no economy**, and if they are unemployed, they can even feel guilty about playing at home.

In this era when everyone is prone to "anxiety", financial management courses are rushing to ordinary people like wave after wave.

One of the chapters in the financial management course is frugality.

It doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl, your financial teacher will tell you to be frugal. On top of that, the financial management teacher also proudly emphasized that "if you marry someone, you must marry a boy who knows how to manage money".

After class, I have been making up a picture in my mind, that is, a girl who is married to "a girl who is very good at budgeting, from the house to the trivial accounts".

Many years later, the girl is old, and the beautiful face of the past is no longer there. In a man's eyes, what can never be removed is a woman's beautiful face and slender figure.

Girls who enter marriage do not have to wait for "seven years to stop itching", and under the multiple pressures of family, children, work, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they will soon feel that they are aging quickly.

So, is it good to marry a man who is particularly good at budgeting?

I think that women, at all times, should remember to love themselves and rely on themselves, and talking about everything else is a floating cloud.

My aunt, retirement salary of 10,000, saving to the incredible, go to her house to eat this meal to ask you to eat a few cakes, eat a few to make a few, not one more, only eat two meals a day, never buy clothes, do not go out to travel, the means of transportation is a bicycle, the rest of the food is not willing to throw away, socks are made up and mended. Do not eat chicken, duck and fish.

lived in a house without an elevator for 30 years, on the sixth floor, and her relatives persuaded her to change to a house with an elevator, but she said that she climbed the stairs to exercise, never entered a beauty salon in her life, did not go to a barber shop, and did not go to square dancing, because she said that she had to give money to the teacher who led the dance every once in a while watching those dancing, and it was better to watch TV and dance at home, and never get free eggs. It's harder to get money out of her pocket than it is to get it to the sky!

The TV at home is still more than 20 years ago, the washing machine is also old-fashioned, the water dispenser is almost not turned on, the house is changed to each room for separate heating, only one room is opened in winter, the lights are turned off on time at 10 o'clock in the evening, and the next day at 5 o'clock on time to get up and go downstairs to walk around the river, she said quickly: just for the retirement salary of 10,000 yuan, I also have to live to 100 years old!

I guess you've never seen a woman more frugal than my aunt in your life, right?

One of the most frugal women I've ever seen is that she wore her cotton slippery limb clothes for three years and washed them only once. By believing in the world, she could smell it. She said that she bought 50 cotton clothes, and she couldn't always wash them, and she would wash them.

There's nothing wrong with saving, saving doesn't mean respecting the cover and picking the door, the place where the stove flowers should be lit, try not to spend if you don't particularly need it, and don't go to the stuffy flowers if it's not necessary, this is called saving, this kind of girl is very good, isn't it?

Accept the girl's good, yes, thrifty housekeeping.

Very good, such a girl is very suitable to be a wife, and she should be married home.

Women are overly frugal, but they can't raise ambitious men.