Why is life always unsatisfactory?

It is said that life can not be as good as it should be, and I found that maybe there is a power in the dark, which is to make people deliberately unsatisfactory.

Why fish is delicious, but there are many spines;

Why snacks are delicious and drinks are delicious, but they are not good for people's health and make people easy to gain weight;

Why is it that good medicine is good for disease, good advice is good for action, and why are good things always grinding?

Why do people know that they can't change the past, but they still can't help but regret and regret again and again, wasting time in the present;

Why do people just don't know how to cherish, they like the new and hate the old, and always think that what they can't get is the best.

See, life is just so contradictory and incredible that people don't get all the benefits.

Also, if life is too smooth, it will make people feel bored, and if people are too perfect, it will make people feel bored.

The five flavors of life, sweet and sour, bitter and salty.

People like to eat sour, sweet and spicy food in life, and they have to eat salty food every day, but they don't like to eat bitter things, but life makes people suffer countless hardships, how much hardship, pain and love and hatred.

In our lives, what we like to eat the most is sweetness, the most inseparable thing is salty, and the most delicious is bitter.

It turns out that everything is relative, and there is no sweetness without bitterness; There can be no happiness without pain; There is no cold, there is no warmth, there is no unsatisfactory, and there are all kinds of tastes.

If you eat too much bitterness, you will be given something sweet, and when you are tired of the sweetness, you will be given some bitterness, so that you can feel that life is delicious.

It's a pity that God always doesn't have a good grasp of the weight of distribution, and it is much more bitter for some people and sweeter for others, so there is a human tragedy and comedy.

Think about it, is it deliberately done by God to make people deliberately unsatisfactory.

Perhaps it is this unsatisfactory that makes life more interesting and interesting.

Life is struggle and harvest, life is short, life should have a suitable goal, people always have to be a little spiritual, no matter what they do, they always have to make a difference. Life should be colorful. It should be:

Constant searching, constant pursuit, continuous struggle, although there is sweat on the way forward, there may be tears, but there will be happiness and enjoyment in success.

Time will make you mature. Self-confidence is important for a person, appropriate and correct choices are needed, and endurance for the process is necessary. Self-psychological adjustment must be frequent, and the struggle for success requires unremitting efforts. Happiness and joy are gained in constant success.

Too big a temper to control your emotions.

Many people have emotional problems because they are stressed in life or work.

But in fact, the more stressful you are, the more important it is to control your emotions.

Many times, no matter whether the starting point is good or bad, as long as the bad mood comes to the fore, reason loses half of it.

When people get along with each other, contradictions and estrangements cannot be avoided.

But they also face problems, some people speak softly, which makes people feel like a spring breeze; And some people are thunderous and aggressive, which is unacceptable.

A person lives with emotions every day, and it is easy to project negative feelings onto the people around him, get angry with people, and have a bad attitude, which leads to further deterioration of things, and the pressure becomes greater, and eventually overwhelms himself in turn.

Too big a temper to control your emotions.

Many people have emotional problems because they are stressed in life or work.

But in fact, the more stressful you are, the more important it is to control your emotions.

Many times, no matter whether the starting point is good or bad, as long as the bad mood comes to the fore, reason loses half of it.

When people get along with each other, contradictions and estrangements cannot be avoided.

But they also face problems, some people speak softly, which makes people feel like a spring breeze; And some people are thunderous and aggressive, which is unacceptable.

A person lives with emotions every day, and it is easy to project negative feelings onto the people around him, get angry with people, and have a bad attitude, which leads to further deterioration of things, and the pressure becomes greater, and eventually overwhelms himself in turn.

Hello dear, life is always unsatisfactory is if someone tells you that life is really difficult, life is always unsatisfactory, he wants to say that it is too difficult to survive in this world, we are in a life that has not been able to obey our hearts, every day has to suffer a lot of losses, I don't know how to end such a day, every time I think of this, I feel particularly distressed, I don't know what to do. If you are satisfied with my service, please give it a thumbs up! I wish you all the best!

On the Weibo hot search list, you can often see the words "resignation of the post-90s", "post-90s love freedom", "young people can't stand the grievances" and so on, as if our generation is a pampered flower raised in the greenhouse in the eyes of the parents and the older generation, and cannot withstand the slightest beating and polishing of life.

But is that really the case?

The changes that our generation has experienced are far from being quick to describe, and it is no exaggeration to say that they are simply earth-shaking.

When we were kids, five cents could buy a lot of snacks, such as two spicy sticks and a pack of soda; If you happen to have a few bucks, you can call it a "rich man" among us.

What about parents? Twenty years ago, we were suffering from poverty, so we were taught from an early age: you can't spend money indiscriminately, snacks are junk food, they are not clean and unhygienic, and eating them will hurt your stomach, you must know that it is not easy for parents to make money, and grandparents used to have insufficient food and clothing.

The implication of this is that you have to be sensible, you can't spend money that shouldn't be spent, and you have to learn to endure hardships, after all, the elders have come from hard times.

Even if we don't want to study at school, we think of our parents' education and force us to study with peace of mind.

As we grow up, life quietly moves in a beautiful direction.

However, our parents still used the "bitter" theory many years ago to educate us, and we lived up to expectations, and the subtle influence of our parents on us was obvious.

We reveal the "bitter taste" from the inside out, to put it a little cheesy, it may be that we exude a poor sour smell and can't be put on the table.

So, we frantically want to get rid of the clutches of our parents, and choose those who work far away from home and eat the opposite. We began to go against our parents' wishes and stop blindly following the arrangements they gave us.

As adults, we seek freedom and want to live happily to make up for the misery of the first twenty years.

We are in our youth to become the mainstream of society, our generation began to become the main force, one after another excellent benchmarks among us appear in the public's field of vision, "post-90s female doctors", "post-90s graduate counselors", "post-90s account for most of the number of people in the industry", people understand us through various descriptions, followed by "a large number of post-90s resignations" and so on, but most of these are floating on the surface.

End our generation has never eaten bitter, has the skills to endure hardship, and will not run away because of small things as big as sesame seeds.

In the final analysis, it is just that after we have made a lot of efforts, we still can't get results, so we choose to stop losses in time.

If a job doesn't go well, we can change it, it's a big deal to start all over again, and we're not afraid, anyway, the housekeeping ability that can endure hardships is still there, we just want to have fun in the bitterness.

The growth of the first half of our lives makes us understand: "Only when you suffer hardship can you become a superior person";

Later, my own values told us: "Sometimes going back is also an advanced choice". ”

People are born unlucky, and it is the choice of our generation to turn misfortune into happiness.