Why is life always so cruel

Ideals are not the same as reality.

Every time I think about seeing you, I always think that I will give you a big hug in a way that I haven't seen for a long time, life is always busy, the pace of the city is too fast, and I always can't breathe, and when I stop a little, I find that I have lost a lot of things, and I am tired and exhausted, for example, you have been in Xi'an for a few years, and I suddenly found that I have never met.

Life is always cruel, what you gain will always lose something, now you leave the city only to find that "you did leave", from school to now there is never a shortage of friends or lovers around you, every time I chat with you, I find that you are no longer the same you used to be, I am not the same me as before, ......

Some things always want to be told to you in one breath, but it turns out that there seems to be no way to say, we will all say that we haven't seen each other for a long time, we must meet but you still haven't had a good chat, sometimes I really can't believe that I am destroyed by life, so heavy friendship I have no one to contact, and in the end there are a few dead friends who complain when they encounter something wrong; In the past, the red line of love would not be touched no matter what, because I always felt that if love was not managed well, it might not even be able to be a friend, but friends are different, it is a lifetime.

But now I still feel like I've lost you, although I have a lot of friends now but I can't make friends, the pressure of life is always so ruthless and won't consider your feelings, I'm happy to see you happy, I remember always saying that I was not suitable for falling in love, there was always no suitable, maybe this spell really can't be solved after so many years!

I've been running without stopping, and now I feel exhausted at this age, which shouldn't be borne by my age, sometimes I still need to slow down and rest, and I'm always afraid that I will be surpassed by others if I am not careful, because people who are better than you work harder than you, so remember to be kind to yourself while working hard!

Don't sing anything anymore for the rest of your life.

You don't work hard to make money, you don't want to spend money.

For the rest of your life, you will be the one who takes care of the children.

For the rest of your life, you'll be the one who does the laundry.

For the rest of your life, it must be you who will be disliked.

A very heart-wrenching sentence:

There is always a generation of three generations to work hard, either you suffer hardship, or your children suffer at a young age! Besides, your parents have to work hard when they are old! Work hard for parents and children not to be closed!

Life is meant to be balanced, and if you don't work hard to make money, you have to worry about saving money. This is not chicken soup is a reality, although the appearance of trying to make money looks a little embarrassing, but, I think it is extremely beautiful!

If your life is at a low point, then go boldly, because whatever you go is up. Believe - after hard work, flowers will emerge!

However, if you want to make money, you must make yourself valuable first, learn more things and complain less, and stick to one path, it is difficult to become successful.

There is no unearned harvest in life, and there is no sitting back and enjoying its success, If you are more greedy than others, please be more attentive than others! No pain, no gain! Don't seek to compare with others, but seek to break through yourself.

You must know that real good luck comes from the combination of hard work, ability, courage, etc., and real good luck is just hidden in hard work!

Nothing is a reason to tie up your career, people who are 100 times better than you are often 100 times harder than you.

This is the best era, is the era of equivalent exchange, any situation, situation, change stupid code, should make you become a better version of yourself, continuous improvement is fundamental, solid self-containment will only regress.

Working hard is not only for how much money you want to make, but more often for a kind of dignity, a kind of responsibility, a kind of mission, and to make your life stronger, more independent, and more complete. It seems to be the pursuit of material wealth, but in fact it is the pursuit of self-growth. After going through a while, I found that when the heart is strong, cultivated, and loving enough, making money is only a incidental thing, and success is a matter of time!

Maturity is more important than success! Being a valuable person is more important than being a rich person.

Working hard to make money, but also so that we can say a word in the future:

It's nice to have money!

And not to say helplessly:

If only there was money, it would be good....

And don't forget our original instinct - what we really want, we will stand on tiptoe and try to get it ourselves. So don't do nothing, want everything.

Harm, maybe I've been irritable lately, and I've been driven crazy by life to say these words! Haha [covering which face], good night! [yawns].

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Because everyone's heart has the kind of zhi they want to live

Life, when just from school into the society.

Version of the graduate students to say right, lack of a lot of experience, a lot of things are not what they imagined, so we have to take it seriously, don't give up easily, because the cruel reality makes us understand a lot, so we want to pursue the life we want to live, so everyone works hard.

Reality and fantasy are not.

There will be a lot of ups and downs in real life, and there will be a lot of backs in dao.

When it's going well! Reality is balanced, and nothing is absolute. When everyone's heart is different, the reality will be different, some people will complain about the social injustice, and some people will take it as a kind of training, lesson, and feel life.

Life in the world itself is virtuous and bad, there is no absolute gain or loss, it is all in your own hands!!

Life is an accident.

Death is an inevitability!

The process of being alive.

That's life!

Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

I just hope that every step I take is without regrets.

Life is enough!

Find the value of your existence while you are alive!

Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life!

If you can't find the value of your own existence.

Just think about it. Myself.

Give yourself an account.

To parents. Friend.

The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her!

Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself.

Meaning is working towards one's own goals. Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy.

On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Rich people are very independent at all times, so because they don't want to let others control their own destiny, they are the masters of their own destiny. They know that if they can't swing their horses forward, someone else's whip will be on their backs.

Rich people take the initiative because they are independent, and they can take the initiative to discover and get what they want to eat. The things you make yourself are always hygienic, fresh, and nutritious, so that you will not get rickets and anemia, so that you will always be full of combat effectiveness.

The poor are accustomed to dependence, and they are also accustomed to basing their gains on the gifts and charities of others, and to pinning their destiny completely on the joys, sorrows, and sorrows of others, and to look at the faces of others to determine their actions. Because the poor are always in a passive position, no matter how much they get, they are only a few percent or a few thousandths of what others get.

The poor can only beg for food from other people's rice bowls, so what they get is what is left over from other people's eating, or what others have discarded. These things definitely have no nutrition at all, and after eating them, not only will you get sick, but you may also suffer from incurable diseases.

Did you encounter any problems, life is so cruel but you have to go on, don't be knocked down by a little setback, when life suppresses you to the end, it is also the time for you to be promoted.

There are not many friends, but you are walking through the wind and rain. No matter how long the love is, the important thing is to respond to the request, the so-called love is true: as long as you want, as long as I have it; As long as you need, as long as I can.

The so-called righteousness: not the rhetoric when you are proud, but the hand that pulls you at the critical moment! Yesterday's things will be turned over, don't look forward to tomorrow's things, do today's things well, and there will be no regrets!

People's hearts are fickle, so let yourself follow your fate. Don't entangle the people who leave, don't be nostalgic for the feelings that are separated, and I cherish the ones who have never left. All human troubles come from attachment.

What we cling to, we will be deceived by something. Whoever we cling to, we will be hurt by whomever we are. Therefore, we must learn to let go, look down on everything, do not care, do not care, and it doesn't matter what is right or wrong.

Whatever you lose, don't lose your good mood. The heart is a painter, grasp your own heart, let the mood be pure, white and quiet! People will encounter countless encounters in their lives, and some people are landscapes that you have seen and forgotten.

Some people take root in your heart. Those feelings that cannot be interpreted are all fate for no reason, and the fate is deep and shallow, and it has long been known. After that, no matter how you and I practice, we can't change the way we first looked.