Those who take their feelings very seriously usually end up with nothing

It is precisely because people have feelings that we can experience warmth, feelings let us know how to cherish, let us understand the meaning of life, and let us have the courage and motivation to live. Therefore, without feelings, the world will be gloomy, and in the gloomy world, our life will also be gloomy. But sometimes the affection we give will not reciprocate us, but it can also cause us harm.

But that doesn't mean we have to give up.

Next, I will talk about the two endings that people who value their feelings very much.

First of all, people who value feelings will be rewarded with affection. Most of the time, we give our affection and we get it in return. Because people are emotional animals, you respect others and let others feel your sincerity, so you will give you a sincere return.

In this way, the feelings we give will make us feel worthwhile, will make us feel warm, and feel the rewards of giving feelings. Therefore, we are more willing to give our feelings to others, because we know that as long as we give our feelings, we can get something in return. And if you get the reward, your mood will be good, and you will feel happy in your heart.

This is the best ending for people who are emotional. This is also the emotional reward that all people want to get.

Second, people who value feelings can also be taken advantage of and hurt. But sometimes the feelings we pay are not reciprocated, but the feelings we pay have become a tool used by others, and in the end we may make ourselves scarred, making ourselves feel that the emotional effort is not worth it, so we come to the conclusion that there is no good end to heavy feelings. In fact, this understanding is wrong, because there is no return for paying, being hurt is only an individual situation, and we can't stop believing in feelings because we have been hurt once or twice, what we have to do is to have more eyes and feel with our hearts, because in this society, some people are worth paying, and some people are really not worth it.

We will pay what is worth paying, and we should not blindly pay what is not worth paying. We must understand the principle that the heart of defense is indispensable. And it's not our fault that we are used and hurt, we have no regrets as long as we are worthy of our conscience, the result is not important, sometimes the process is the most important.

It is a good thing to value feelings, but we must also distinguish what kind of people are worthy of our giving, and what kind of people are not worth our giving. But don't deny the benefits of heavy feelings just because you have been hurt to a certain extent, because not everyone understands feelings. After all, being born with feelings will make your life full of warmth, and with feelings will our world be colorful.

Therefore, feelings are the bond that we maintain in life, don't regard feelings as a burden, and don't treat hurt as a resistance, because sometimes emotional hurt can make us see a thing clearly, see a person clearly, and it is not necessarily a bad thing for us.

I think the fate of these people is to be betrayed by their friends, and in the end they also lose what they think is very important feelings, because many people who regard feelings as very important now usually treat others unconditionally and well, but in the end they will be betrayed.

If you meet the right person, they will end well, and if you meet the wrong person, it will be very painful and hurt yourself, so you must treat your feelings correctly.

Those who take their feelings very seriously are often the ones who hurt the most in the end because they give too much. It was a particularly sad thing to be abandoned at the end.

If the relationship does not have a good outcome, then these people are likely to fall into a relatively negative mood and are very vulnerable to injury.

It's all a tragic end, because such people are vulnerable to being hurt by others.

In the end, they are usually hurt by others, and no one sympathizes with them. Such people are very pitiful.

People who are too emotionally attached to life will often be very tired, because many times they will care about other people's feelings, or consider problems from other people's perspectives, and their fate will not be particularly good.

People who attach too much importance to their feelings in life often suffer because they give a lot but cannot get anything in return, which will always make the other party feel that his efforts are particularly cheap.

I think people who attach too much importance to feelings in life, if they meet the right person, they will usher in happiness, because no one does not like to be cherished, but if you meet those bad people, it is difficult to get happiness.

People who are too emotionally sensitive are very sensitive and easily hurt. If you have any grievances, you will bear them yourself, and you will be too concerned about the feelings of others and ignore yourself.

It can be said that he is betrayed and separated, and his fate will be very ugly, and his life will be very lonely, with no friends and no family affection.

People who are too emotionally attached are generally not very happy.

Let's just say that people who value feelings generally don't end well, although in our opinion, people who value feelings seem to deserve better results, but in reality this is not the case.

If a person attaches too much importance to feelings, then it is best not to be emotional for the rest of his life, because once he is emotional, then he may really suffer a lot, because he values feelings, he is affectionate, but the person he loves may not be affectionate, and the person he loves may not be emotional, so in the end, only he suffers.

Let's take an example, a boy who attaches great importance to feelings, he has been plain for 20 years, he has never been moved by others, if he doesn't really like it, he generally won't tease others, of course, this type of person, it is generally others who tease him. So later he met a person who played the world, this person probably just thought he was funny, looked like a simple fool, and she wanted to try what it was like to be in love with such a person.

So she got close to that person, and then the boy liked her, but she was not used to staying, she wanted to quit after getting it, after experiencing the feeling of being with him, and this boy he didn't want to, he couldn't let go of this relationship, he wanted to be with this girl, because he took his feelings very seriously, and he always felt that love should be for life, not like a game.

So he can't let go of that person, he loves that person, maybe he is so unwilling to live a lifetime, and then he may return to the indifferent self he once was, no longer accept anyone's love, and be a person who ignores love, calm on the surface, but often cries alone in private.

It is also possible that because of that relationship, he changed, he became a prodigal son of a game man, he began to stop talking about love, only about sex, he no longer believed in love, because of the emotional injury he suffered, he hated girls, so he wanted to take revenge on girls, so he became a scumbag prodigal. But he is not happy, because he loved that person so much in the past, and he may never love anyone again in this life.

I think it's right, because your heavy feelings may only be one-sided, and others don't care at all, so it hurts you, and you have to bear more.

I don't think this sentence is right, valuing feelings is a good behavior, treating others sincerely, and you will definitely get the respect of others.

This sentence is wrong, you still have to pay more attention to feelings in life, so that you can also make a lot of friends.

This sentence is quite right, it is true that people who value feelings will never end well. Because they care too much about other people's emotions and rarely care about themselves.

No, it's not that there is no good end, it's just that I haven't met the right person yet, and time will tell.

Because emotional people value their relationships very much. Smiling happily, but when they are alone, they are lonely.

<> fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, emotional people have such characteristics, especially for others, but they want to solve their problems or difficulties, some say that introverts are more emotional because they do not easily take the first step, but when they make up their minds, they are always good to you. They really bury the woman who leaks Lu feelings in front of others, care about other people's feelings, a good woman, consider the problems are all to consider, and will consider the problem from the perspective of others, so as not to care about other people's feelings, this is a woman's greatest upbringing, no one should be too selfish, selfish people, just can't get the respect of others.

People who cherish their feelings, because they are more willing to give their hearts, it is difficult to give up once they fall in love, because of this character, they think more, so they are not easy to open up to others, but once they believe that a person really cherishes each other...

Whether it is a man or a woman, once true love is betrayed and abandoned, it will be particularly sad, and this kind of hurt, for a long time, will not come out easily.

Life sometimes has to have, don't force it when you don't have time in life. Heavy feelings are destined to hurt deeply, who told you to love with your heart? Who made so many people in this world who don't know how to cherish the bend?

A lot of people will say that if you take everything lightly, it will hurt less. However, when you despise everything, do you still know what you should cherish? Does life make sense when you feel like nothing matters?

So, relationship matters, let it be. Anyone can say that, but how many can be so generous.

This question seems to be what's going on, what I want to say is that when you like each other, you have to leave nine points for yourself, don't go on like this, people are becoming more and more realistic now, I dare to say that none of them are good things, even I myself can't be better, everything has to be for your own sake, love or feelings, including marriage, people don't do it for themselves, so they can do it for themselves!

You should know that the person who loves yourself the most should be self-motivated, and don't put all the expectations of life on other people's pants, so that you will not despair. When you fall in love, you should be rational, you can moths to the fire, but you must keep Hu Sun's own bottom line.

For the matter of feelings, in fact, I still have something to say, because I think that when encountering this kind of thing, first of all, we should do one thing, that is, to compare the heart to the heart, the heart to the heart, is a link in life that must be experienced, you may not go, do not compare the heart, especially in the process of interacting with others, you must compare the heart to the heart, in this way, life can become better, and the relationship between people can become better. That's it.

In my opinion, in addition to this, then there is a more important point, then treat each other sincerely, many of the feelings of people nowadays have not been sincere, are using each other, in fact, I think this is wrong, everyone has their own needs, but you should not, can not use each other because of your needs, this, in our life, I think it should never appear, so I think we should first be sincere with each other, This is the most important thing, you must be sincere, if you are not sincere, then I believe that your life will not be better, if you are sincere, your life can become better, it is such a thing, in fact, in the sincerity of this aspect, I think many people's words, are not good enough, because sincere words, if you want to do it, in fact, it is easy to say, difficult to do, there is no mistake is like this, so if you are sincere, then we need to work hard.

The above tease me said 2 points, one is to compare the heart to the heart, the second is to do the stone carving sincerely, in fact, these two points, in our life, most people can do it, but we can persevere in it, because in life encounter these things, in fact, everyone knows, sometimes it can be done, some people can not do it, in this case, then I think if you can do it, life will be better.

In fact, I think that early laughter should still be used to treat feelings with ordinary slag, and you must know that feelings themselves are something that cannot be seen or touched. It's just a feeling. Yangsan.

I think we should treat feelings with a calmer attitude, and don't overindulge in feelings, nor be overly cold.

When I was a kid, we thought that a piece of sugar was a world. The colorful hall is beautiful and attracts all our attention. But when I grew up, I realized that the candy was just a rarity.

In life, it turns out that there are not only colorful sugar, but also many dark places. This is the two-sided nature of the world, nothing exists alone, it all has opposites. We should accept it.

We need to accept the betrayal in the relationship, we need to accept the consideration of money, and of course, we also need to accept the sadness of a sincere heart, but we can't get the same return. In fact, this is life.

In life, some people take their feelings very seriously, while others disdain them. As human beings, each person's worldview is different, so their way of dealing with the world is also different. So, what do those who take feelings very seriously think?

Those who take their feelings very seriously have a sensitive and affectionate heart. Such people are kind, and they are not willing to let their beloved be wronged. This beloved refers to family, friends, and loved ones.

So they're willing to do everything they can to help those people. It's not because they have any bad intentions, it's just because they take their feelings very seriously. In this world of mutual help, such people never ask for anything in return.

They regard the interaction between people as an equal giving. If the effort is not reciprocated, they will not hold a grudge. This is because they have love in their hearts and no resentment.

However, these people who take their feelings very seriously are often hurt in society. Because they can't impose their minds on others. So most of the time, this kind of giving may be only giving and not returning.

Despite this, they still hold on to their hearts. They believe that there is something more important in this world than money, power, and honor, and that is feelings. This is the foundation of human existence.

Only by persisting in these things can you not lose yourself in this world, you will not betray yourself, and you will not walk in vain in this world. People who value their feelings very seriously are worthy of respect.

Indeed, there are all kinds of people in the world. But we have to believe that there are still many people who attach great importance to feelings. If you meet such a person, no matter what your relationship is, I bless you.

People who value their feelings very seriously are because they don't want to live up to each other, and they don't want to owe any debt in this world. These people are precisely the most respectable people. He is also the most worthy person for us to associate with.

Life is hard, but remember that life is tiring with a smile, but don't do things that hurt others and benefit yourself. Everyone's efforts will be rewarded. It's just a matter of time. I hope everyone can get what they want.