Teach you how to speak and behave in a way? How do you talk about dealing with people?

1. Whether the speech is cautious and reasonable.

In modern society, there are many people who have no skills, but they like to learn from those industry bigwigs, bragging first and then doing things.

Those people have the capital to brag, and it can even be said that they use bragging to win attention and discussion, which is what we commonly call "heat", but if a person has no ability and learns from others to brag, this is a very ridiculous thing.

Speak and do things, speak first, so you can't say enough, so if you can't do it or don't do it well enough, you can leave room for yourself, and at the same time you should speak rigorously, don't exaggerate, otherwise it will give people a flashy feeling.

If you were a collaborator, would you do business with those flashy people? Of course not, because you want your partner to be a capable person, and in the same way, would you be friends with those flashy people? Of course not, because you want your friend to be a sociable person.

In this life, people must first recognize themselves before they can understand others.

Second, politeness not only represents quality.

Politeness does not directly bring you wealth, nor does it directly put the trust and support of others into your hands.

So what does politeness bring?

Opportunity. When two people meet for the first time, not to mention each other's identity and background, not to talk about each other's knowledge, the first impression is politeness, politeness is the most basic communication impression in addition to appearance, and this impression will have a subtle impact on your subsequent communication.

Why is there a subtle effect?

For example, a person is very capable, has poor quality, and speaks politely. As partners, you value his abilities, but you have to put up with his bad temper.

Ok, the cooperation is completed, everyone takes what they need, there is no problem.

Then the second cooperation, another person, this person has average ability, but he is very down-to-earth, the key is to be very polite when receiving people and things.

Many people say, ability first! Yes, ability is the first, but we have to know a very realistic problem, ability is a person's level, which is true, but can communicate, understand communication can better reflect a person's level.

If we find out that this is the problem, it will be easy to solve the above problems.

However, people often say that it is easy for others, but it is indeed difficult to dissect oneself. I am one of these generals, and I naturally cannot escape this natural law.

When people suffer, they will learn to behave. It's a pity that we can't afford to lose anything, and we can't afford to fail in many things. Speak straightforwardly and crisply in front of people.

But when you should be tactful, you can't be too straight, you have to save some face for others, so that you can be tactful. Behind his back, even how he used to be, now he is useless, do not speak ill of him, praise him. If you really can't find the good in him, you have to be silent.

Remember: don't talk about people's rights and wrongs, meditate a lot.

If you want to learn how to speak, you should read more books on communication and communication in speech and eloquence. After digesting it, it becomes one's own ability.

How do you talk about dealing with people? Let's talk about this topic with you.

01 Say more nice things, don't say some frustrating words when dealing with people, praise more and praise more, blame less and criticize less, you will find that your social relationship is very good.

02 Don't say right or wrong, although no one doesn't talk about people behind their backs, and no one says people behind their backs, what I want to say is that right and wrong will only get you into trouble.

03 Say three points to people, you can't say one heart sooner or later, just say three points to people, you have to remember, especially those who want to calculate you.

04 The last thing I want to say is that what to say to whom, don't let your temperament be whimsical, and say whatever you want to say with patience, it's useless.