What are the 20 speaking skills for dealing with people?

1. Humor in small things.

When telling small things, use the form of jokes to make it easy for people to accept and enhance the sense of intimacy.

2. Speak slowly about urgent matters.

If it's something more urgent, make it clear slowly, and leave the listener with a steady, non-impulsive phenomenon, so that others will trust you more.

3. Don't say what you can't do easily.

If it's something you can't do, don't say it easily, if you say it and do it, let others believe you.

4. Be cautious about what you are not sure about.

If it's something you're not sure about, be cautious about saying it, you can get the trust of others by saying it, and if you hide it in your heart, it will make people think you're hypocritical.

5. Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen.

If you never talk nonsense about things that didn't happen, it will make people feel like you're responsible, serious about things.

6. Don't tell everyone sad things.

When people are sad, they will have the desire to talk, and if you tell others about your sadness, it will put psychological pressure on the listener, it will alienate you, and it will also make people feel that you are trying to transfer the pain to others.

7. Don't say anything that hurts people.

If it is something that hurts others, don't say it, especially between relatives, and if you don't say hurtful words, it will give people the impression that you are a kind person and can enhance the relationship.

8. Listen more and talk less about the things of the elders.

Elders don't like young people to express themselves too much, and if young people talk too much, it will make them think that you are a person who is not humble and disrespectful to your elders.

9. Children's things should be enlightened.

If you are an adolescent child and are more rebellious, you should use a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten the child, so that it is easier to persuade the child.

10. Husband and wife should discuss things.

The taboo between husband and wife is that both parties blame each other, and if both parties discuss and resolve the matter, the relationship can become harmonious.

11. Listen to others about your own affairs.

You can listen to outsiders more about your own affairs, which will make people think that you are a humble and reasonable person.

12. Be careful about other people's affairs.

There should be a safe distance between people, and don't talk about other people's things casually, which will make people feel safe in the process of communication.

1.The voice is tactful and expressive.

2.Cordial and sincere, captivating.

3.Solidarity and cooperation, say more "we".

4.Don't act in a "one-man show" and give others more opportunities.

5.Learn to empathize and speak better.

6.Be sincere and humble, and narrow the distance between each other.

7.Young people should pay more attention to respecting others.

8.Full of confidence can attract the other party more.

9.Be cautious and avoid verbal conflicts.

10.Be natural and generous, win favor.

In your 20s, you can win good popularity by talking appropriately.

11.Proper salutation is the basis for continued association.

12.Greetings must be appropriate.

13.Saying thank you is more than just a courtesy.

14.Be good at introducing yourself.

15.To speak etiquette is to know how to apologize.

16.The language of love is warmer.

17.Think twice before you speak.

18.The gesture of speech reflects the state of mind of the person.

19.Master "silence is golden" and "chatter".

20.Eyes also speak.

1. Urgent, speak slowly;

2. Big things, say it clearly;

3. Little things, humorous words;

4. If you are not sure, say it cautiously;

5. Don't talk nonsense about things that haven't happened;

6. Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do;

7. You can't say anything that hurts people;

8. Nasty things, don't say things to people;

9. Happy things, depending on the occasion;

10. Don't talk about sad things when you see people;

11. Be careful about other people's business;

12. Listen to what your heart says about your own business;

13. What is now, do it and then talk about it;

14. The future will be talked about in the future;

15. You don't have to say everything to know people, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some morality with yourself.

16. You don't have to be harsh on others, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some belly with yourself.

17. Talent does not have to be arrogant, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some connotation with yourself.

18. The edge does not have to be exposed, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some depth with yourself.

19. There is no need to invite merit, leave three points of leeway with others, and leave some humility with yourself.

20. You don't have to grab everything, leave three points of room with others, and leave some forgiveness with yourself.

1 Dare to speak when you are open.

If you can overcome the fear of speaking, then you will not only become eloquent and eloquent, but will also have a subtle impact on other aspects of you.

2 Truth is the most touching to listeners.

When you speak, although you have enthusiasm, although you have skills, but your words are nonsense, it is not okay, you must speak around a center, classify your meaning reasonably, explain the problem clearly, the examples you use should be consistent with this center, these are the most basic requirements for speaking, but one thing needs to be noted, your words must be from the heart. The conversation has a purpose, and the purpose is different, and the details and emphasis should be different, otherwise, your words will not be able to express your thoughts.

3 Truth is better than gushing.

In conversation, the sincere expression of feelings is more important than paying attention to the ornate language, and the criterion for evaluating whether a person speaks attractively is not how fluent and gushing his speech is, but whether his feelings are sincere from the heart.

2. Fight a battle with certainty.

4 Be prepared to speak.

Saying goes; The reason why a person is afraid to speak in front of everyone is that his preparation is not in place and he has no bottom in his heart. One thing must be understood, no matter what the circumstances, there can be no uncertain battles.

5 Only by understanding can we make things clear.

to faint oneself and make others visible", this is the main reason for many people's failure. If you know everything about what you're saying, how can you not understand it?

6 Words need to be easy to understand in order to be passed down for a long time.

Speak concisely and clearly, and avoid grabbing your eyebrows and mustaches, failing to grasp the essentials, and being verbose. If you want others to understand what you are saying, then you have to be coherent in what you say, and say what you say first and then what you say.

7 Remember the other person's name to win favor.

Although a name is just a person's code name, people still attach great importance to their own name. Memorizing the other person's name while speaking is one of the effective ways to gain the favor of the other person.

8 Read more good books and increase knowledge.

If you are determined to read and persevere, your vocabulary will gradually become richer, your language will become more elegant, and gradually you will have the glory, beauty and nobility of the protagonist you are reading.

1.When you're in a bad mood, don't think about anything and eat what you love. But don't drink.

2.Be happy, just laugh, and let everyone know. Sadness, just pretend that nothing happened.

3.Under the condition of not violating the principles, we should be tolerant of others, help if we can, and never force people to be rejected and leave a way back ......

4.Happiness is the most important thing, and you will be with whom, what, or whatever makes you happy. Whatever makes you unhappy, you leave him. There are no conditions, and the conditions are created to leave him.

5.Don't keep confiding in others about your predicament and revealing your vulnerability.

6.There is no such thing as a perfect thing, there is no perfect person, the key is to know exactly what you want. Get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you won't get anything.

7.I like the quote from a friend, "Forgetfulness is a good thing." ”

8.If two people make a mistake at the same time, the one who stands up and bears it is called tolerance, and the debt owed by the other party must be repaid sooner or later.

10.Don't be a hedgehog, if you can't make enemies with others, you won't make enemies with others, no one will be with anyone for a lifetime, there are some things that you don't need to keep in mind.

11.While learning to compromise, you must also stick to your most basic principles.

12.Don't stop learning. No matter what you are learning, language, cooking, all kinds of skills.

13.Money is very important, but you can't rely on men or parents, and you must maintain a certain amount of earning .......

14.Don't overestimate your strength in the collective, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun rises even without you.

15.See through but don't say through. Many things, as long as you know them in your heart, there is no need to say them.

16.Even if you lose everything, don't lose the ...... smile.

17.Whatever choice you make, don't regret it, because regret won't help.

18.Don't say anything drastic on impulse.

19.Don't make promises lightly, promises that you can't make are more hateful than not making them.

20.Don't think that there will be love if you don't understand. When we don't understand, we just like it, and we can't reach love. When each other's shortcomings are exposed, many times the liking will end.

1.The voice is tactful and expressive.

2.Cordial and sincere, captivating.

3.Solidarity and cooperation, say more "we".

4.Don't act in a "one-man show" and give others more opportunities.

5.Learn to empathize and speak better.

6.Be sincere and humble, and narrow the distance between each other.

7.Young people should pay more attention to respecting others.

8.Full of confidence can attract the other party more.

9.Be cautious and avoid verbal conflicts.

10.Be natural and generous, win favor.

In your 20s, you can win good popularity by talking appropriately.

11.Proper salutation is the basis for continued association.

12.Greetings must be appropriate.

13.Saying thank you is more than just a courtesy.

14.Be good at introducing yourself.

15.To speak etiquette is to know how to apologize.

16.The language of love is warmer.

17.Think twice before you speak.

18.The gesture of speech reflects the state of mind of the person.

19.Master "silence is golden" and "chatter".

20.Eyes also speak.