Is it disobedient to marry far away? Is it a shame to talk about a boyfriend in the field?

First of all, it's no one else's turn to interfere in your marriage! Anyone can only be a suggestion! Can't force it! Otherwise, it will violate the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China!

Second, grasp a principle! Be considerate of the feelings of people who are genuinely good to you! Since you are not a person who is truly good to yourself, you don't need to accommodate too much!

In the end, man always lives for himself! As the saying goes, "If people don't do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed!" "That speaks for itself!

Everyone has the right to chase their own happiness! However, you have to think about it, after choosing between your boyfriend and your loved ones. Can you be truly happy?

That's the most important thing!

That's it! I hope you will deal with it carefully!

People live for a few words in this life: love, family affection. But sometimes it's just hard to have both, either disobeying your parents or wronging yourself.

Parents are afraid that their children will have no one to protect them after they leave them, and it is human nature. But it is even more difficult to meet the person he loves and he loves himself. It's hard to decide!

You can show them your boyfriend and find a way to let them know that you have made the right choice and wish you happiness.

First of all, it depends on how your parents usually treat you, if you are usually very good to you, but you don't agree in this matter, then you still listen to your parents, because the old people are still more accurate than the young people, they will not push you into the fire pit, nor will they watch you jump into the fire pit. If they don't treat you well, then you're in charge of your own future.

No, what's the matter, you've thought too much.

This still has to be considered.,After all, it's not your business alone.,It's a matter of three families.。。。

The advantage of marrying far away is that it is difficult for the family to understand their own living conditions, only they know whether it is good or bad, and they can deceive their family members to live well, and the disadvantage is that they are far away from home, and it is inconvenient to go back to their parents' home, and it is inconvenient for their mother's family to come and play.

I have a friend of mine in Jiangsu, he finds a wife from Sichuan, they rarely go home once a year or two, and when they go home, they take the train for a day or two. So as a parent, I must be unhappy and marry my daughter too far.

My mom was also against me marrying far away. Parents are like this, reluctant, and the ideology is relatively backward, in fact, now the transportation is already very developed. The main reason for marrying away is that your parents miss you, and then in case you encounter an emergency, you don't have a care, the advantage is that you can handle your own family affairs independently, and you don't have to listen to your parents' nagging.

I will only go home once after marrying far away, and as a parent, I definitely want to see you often, besides, if you marry so far, you won't be able to find a place to settle down when you have something.

Parents are worried that they will not be able to take care of them in the future in a timely manner.

The advantage is that no one nags the disadvantage is that the biggest problem is that the parents are old, and if there is a serious illness and a small relationship, they can't come back, we have an old lady who is far away from home, and she can't go back when her mother dies.

I can't see it once a year far away, the network ** is useless, the traffic is not good, I don't have time to go home, I can't come back for the New Year, I want to rest during the holidays, and I am tired to go back and forth.

If you marry far away, you will cherish the days together, and the probability of conflict is smaller; Far water can't quench your thirst, you can't take care of much in life, and your parents will be worried. My sister is married far away, this is my feeling.

After all, the elderly want their children to spend more time with them.

The advantage is that it is good for the next generation, and the disadvantage is that no one has given you justice when you have been wronged!

How far can you go, and you don't go abroad. The disadvantage is that you can't go home often, and the advantage is that you can choose yourself.

Disadvantages: I'm afraid that you will be angry, and worried, often can't see you, and so on

I'm afraid that you will suffer, and I can't protect you if I'm far away.

Because your parents love you and want to see you every day.

I am far away from them, and I can't let go of my heart.

No child will not understand the heart of a parent, and in the future you will know why when you have a baby.

The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. Your mother has a strong desire to control you, but in the end she is still good for you, she wants your happiness not only emotionally but also materially. Just like my mother, although my mother doesn't think about cross-provincial and municipal issues, she even thinks about what kind of partner I find, whether the wedding photos will look good, whether my life will be good, what the children will look like in the future or what kind of education they can receive.

In the world, regardless of the harvest, we will only pay, and the people who are good for us wholeheartedly are our parents.

You are still a good daughter, you don't want your mother to be unhappy, your idea is right, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, only when both families agree and get the blessing of both families, is true happiness. I think that if you persist, your mother will definitely fall apart more and more, isn't it that the war between parents and children will always be won by the child! If your mother collapses, I sincerely hope that her collapse must be because she confirms that you can bring you the happiness and stability you want, and a better and better tomorrow!

I hope your mother will collapse as soon as possible, and you will be able to stay together happily without any worries one day sooner!

Bless you! Hehe!

Hold the hand of the son, grow old with the son!

How do you know that your boyfriend is good to you, a scheming person is something you can't see for three years, this is called outer width and inner taboo, your mother also fell in love when she was young, just for your good, she thought about it with you when she was young, thinking that as long as two people work hard, it will be good, and she is not mature.

Walking their own way, and not using other people's legs, what does it matter to them??

Go your own way and let others say it.

There will be a lot of problems when you get married, and you may not feel it before marriage, but there are really a lot of problems after marriage. First of all, can you promise not to quarrel with your husband or mother-in-law for the rest of your life? Once the quarrel starts, you can't go back to your parents' house if you want to, because it's too far away.

You'll feel isolated. After pregnancy, you want to be well taken care of, but after all, you are not your mother-in-law's biological child, and no matter how well she takes care of you, she will not be better than your mother.

After having a child, you will not be able to go for three years, because you have to take care of the child all the time, if the parents can't come to see you, then you can't go out, because there are children, only when the child can also go out, you can go home to see your parents, so the delay will be ten years.

Don't think I'm alarmist, it's all true. Your parents are old, and you are not by their side, so if they are not good, they may not see you for the last time before leaving. Yes, we can give up everything for love and be with our beloved, whatever we want, but the truth is not so perfect.

Even if you live in another city, the number of times you see your parents after marriage will be very small, they can't always live in your house, and you can't always go back to your parents' house, but it's close, in case something happens, it's easy to take care of. If you can cope with all the problems I said, and you are not your current boyfriend and do not marry, then you will continue to insist on your love. If it helps, hope to adopt.

It is right to oppose you, because they are afraid that you will be bullied outside alone, and when the time comes, they will not receive the news and will not be able to help you, which shows that your parents love you very much.

If you really can't, then you'd better ask your boyfriend to give your parents the courage to believe, because if he loves you, he will definitely think about these issues for you, instead of leaving you to bear it alone.

Since we have talked about marriage, marriage requires mutual understanding, tolerance and persistence between both parties, if your parents are here, your boyfriend will retreat and do not have the courage to face it, then your marriage, will he continue to retreat, when there is a problem after marriage, such a man really loves you, is it worthy of your love?

I think it's best to calm down before marriage and see if your boyfriend's personality, living habits, family, etc. are really suitable for you, whether you love it or not.

Careful choice and consideration, for you, but also for him.

Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and no one has the right to interfere, including parents. Of course, their opinions can be considered, parents are for the good of their children, this is the pity of the world's parents.

First of all, are you the only one in the house? If there are other siblings, consider listening to your parents if you don't have one.

If you love each other very deeply, you should communicate well with your parents, and your parents oppose it because they are reluctant to let you go away for fear that you will suffer.

Believe in your parents, it's really right, don't listen to the old man and suffer in front of you, my mother is the biggest example, you can only bear the consequences of disobedience, there is no love or love, and you will find out that it is all fart later.

When two people are together, even if he is good to you, there will be friction, and the first thing you think about when the time comes: home and a place of comfort.

Love doesn't mean love in the future, and you won't have a place to cry if you quarrel too far in the future.

Don't marry far away. All the long-distance marriages I've seen have been unhappy.

Please communicate with your parents. Or can't you settle in a closer place?

You can get your boyfriend to come to your hometown to develop and solve this problem.

Parents are against you, and if he truly loves you to marry him.

She wants what she wants to pursue, not what you set for her (or what you give). If she lives according to your will, then she is a doll of your life.

Every parent wants their children to stay with them, but when their children grow up and have their own lives, as long as they are happy, that's our greatest comfort.

As a parent of a girl.

1. Boy's character development potential.

2. The boy's mother's temperament cultivation and the other party's family background.

3. The degree of love between a boy and a girl.

4. Meet the above three points, please bless them.

Parents don't want their daughters to stay away from them, but in the end, if you insist, you will agree.

The daughter's heart is no longer with her, instead of standing on the opposite side of her, it is better to support her and clear the obstacles ahead for her, besides, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and it is not necessarily wrong for the daughter's idea.

My parents gave me a realistic version of the answer and forced me to break up with my boyfriend, but we loved each other so much that I really hated my parents like that!

I can only bless them, no matter where fate is, the ends of the earth will coincide, and the command is far beyond the power of love.

It's best not to agree, but if you really can't, you must investigate the other party's family situation, especially the other party's parents.

It depends on the situation, whether the man is good to his daughter, whether he has money, whether his daughter will endure hardship, etc.

Now the transportation is also quite developed. What does it matter if it's not outside! I don't want to marry in other places, most of them are still afraid that my daughter will be wronged and there is no family next to me!

Think about it from another angle, if the son-in-law is really good to his daughter, why worry about this, it's normal for the husband and wife to have occasional small quarrels between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, isn't it? Even if you marry nearby, your son-in-law treats your daughter badly, and if you quarrel, you can immediately go over and argue with others! What's the use?

The child is sad for this in-law, not because of a quarrel! Children's happiness is the key!

Why make the problem so embarrassing, you are forcing your daughter, either you are in pain or she is in pain, unless he himself is not in love, otherwise it will be a lose-lose.

Let it be. Don't be so feudal Young people can pursue their own happiness.

Once the relationship is firmly established, parents should not interfere too much, so as not to hurt their feelings and hurt their harmony in the end!

Give him two choices, either find a door-to-door son-in-law, or don't have this daughter to see how she chooses.

Respect your daughter's choice, but look at the other person's strengths and weaknesses.

It is not easy to tell my daughter about her own affairs, and she can only hold back her grievances.

Sometimes it's really hard for parents to like it, and you like it too.

……The man buys a house with the woman, ah......There's no need for a woman to marry a man.

Life is the path I gave, and she walked it herself. It's good that she'll know herself.

Half wrong, half right. From your parents' point of view, it is right that your parents are good for you. It's wrong to stand on your love and think about it, love is your own business, and now many people who fall in love basically have the final say on their own, as long as they are happy, the person they choose is worthy of their parents and you.

You're not wrong, your mom isn't wrong, individuals have personal thoughts, and no matter how far away it is now, it's not a distance.

Love is a distance, if the two really love each other, no matter the ends of the world, the two will be together after all, if you love the boy, then go, God has given you a love, then you should cherish it, not to mention the later you should understand.

Tell my mother clearly, in order to take care of your feelings, do you want me to give up the right to pursue happiness? If so, I will give up my life to be by your side and repay you!

You're not wrong, and neither is your mother! It's just that you guys don't communicate very well! There are indeed many disadvantages to marrying far away, and at this point, you must listen to your mother! Only Mom and Dad won't hurt you in the world!

Get out of him early! It's not good to marry far away.

Blindly escaping is not the way, you have to face your feelings correctly