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In the past, I was a very talkative person, and because of this, many people criticized me for thinking that I had been twittering. I didn't care at the time, I thought you didn't like me, and of course some people liked me.
But then, the people who could defend myself suddenly disappeared, and I realized that the world was full of dangers, but the reason why I was able to live so pure before was only because they were still giving me trouble.
Since then, I've started to influence, and I've become less talkative, and I try to take it to heart whether I'm happy or not. Many people around me say that I have become mature, but who can understand that my apparent calmness is due to the hardness of my heart.
I like being so strong, it's my own protective film, and I love the change because it makes me invincible. I hope that every woman who is in the trough period can figure out that one day you can become stronger, don't be afraid, don't be discouraged, boil slowly, experience pain in the process, and remember this feeling, and then warn yourself in the next few days, you need to be cautious and firm.
During the trough, I was asked to see a lot of people and things clearly, and I found that the effort I really gave was nothing more than a ridicule in the eyes of many people. Therefore, I told myself that I must love myself well after that, and I must love myself first, this is not selfishness, but self-respect and self-love.
In the case of the change at the beginning, the people around me were not suitable, and neither was I suitable myself, but when I forced myself to put my energy completely into myself, I didn't care so much about other people's opinions, and life seemed to be moving in a good direction. So don't be afraid of the trough, don't be afraid of change, all experiences have practical meaning, and so does pain.
Before you go through a low period, you don't have any goals for life, just live one day at a time and make yourself happy. But this experience made me understand that in the face of hardships and hardships under uncertain circumstances, I can only be injured. Therefore, I gradually set goals for my life, both long-term and recent, looking at this kind of overall goal, forcing myself to be diligent, and life seems to be less tormenting.
It wasn't until I completed my phased personal goals that I found myself at a low point, and the learning process became less long because I had been looking at the goals. Therefore, if you are going through a low period, you must set a goal for yourself, don't keep going around in circles, come out of it for yourself, and everything will be fine.
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First of all, he will become very confident, and he will be very decisive in everything he does, they will do it as soon as they want to, and they will not care too much about what others think.
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Women who have survived the trough are more calm in the face of loneliness, and they no longer feel angry in the face of injustice.
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They will become more independent, they will no longer rely on others, they will continue to make themselves better, and they will become invulnerable, and they will meet a better version of themselves.
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First, it is quiet on the surface and strong on the inside. Some people say that women who have survived the trough are indifferent, but no one knows how helpless and broken he is through this trough period, and no one will care about this process, they often only understate that he has changed, but the fact is not that he has become indifferent, but that he has a strong heart, and in the face of all unreasonable joys and sorrows in the world, he can accept it calmly, such a woman has her own side of the world in her heart, and ordinary people have no way to easily hurt him. There is no way to easily enter his heart.
Second, no longer have high expectations of love and humanity. A woman who has experienced a low period, he can see at a glance the good and bad of the people around him, in his most difficult time, the so-called relatives and the most trusted husband have turned against him, and blindly accusing and complaining about him has made him understand what human nature is. In the adult world, the relationship between people and people is very realistic, even if the lover who lies on the pillow every day, he will speak ill of each other because of the loss of interests, and after seeing through these, he no longer has any expectations for the love and ethereal human nature that can be withdrawn at any time, but tries his best to make himself stronger and live his own life, because he knows that when he is weak, there are the most bad people, and only when he is strong, the world will be friendly and gentle.
The last point learned to love himself, this is the biggest change for a woman who has survived the trough, and he found that the previous heart-to-heart and dedication have become the ** that others attack him. He understands that instead of trying to be good to others, it is better to learn to love himself, no matter whether others say that he is selfish or unapproachable, this is the best for him to protect himself. When he puts all his attention on himself, he doesn't care about the opinions of the people around him, and his life is moving in a good direction, and even those who were not good to him in the past began to care about him after facing his changes.
For women in the trough period, all suffering is a medal, and all cold eyes must be slapped in the face, if you are also in this stage now and don't know how to get through it, you can find Xinyu to help you think of a way.
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First of all, he will become very determined. And the character will also become very strong, they will not rely on others for anything, but more on their own. At the same time, they will be very confident to face some difficulties they will encounter.
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These women no longer have hope for anyone, and it is difficult to believe in their relationship that others will no longer be sharp, that their edges and corners have been smoothed, that they don't care about other people's faces, that they don't care about other people's evaluations, and that they no longer force themselves to fit in.
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They will be stronger, they will be stronger in their hearts, they will be able to take on a lot of things, they will be more responsible, and they will not have hope for anyone anymore.
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