I m a high school student, and my mom is against me falling in love with my boyfriend, and I m in te

Hello, happy to solve the problem for you .

I'm also someone who has a girlfriend, but you guys don't hug when you're together?? It's weird, your mother doesn't agree because you're too young, and the boy's parents are out of town, he really needs someone to accompany him, but being with you is not a use, whether he has paid really You can know from his actions, and sometimes the eyes can't deceive you pay more attention to details.

Regarding your mother, my mother used to be very opposed to us Slowly, slowly, you will learn a lot in love, you will grow up a lot, your mother will see you grow up, slowly for a long time, and will agree with your choice When you are really mature, your mother will also support you, the focus is still on yourself, ask yourself if you like him and be with him, if you don't like it, you can't force or sympathize with him with him, so the relationship is too easy to deteriorate, ask yourself.

Listen to your mom first, your mom is right, and then you'll be in love in a few years.

First. You have to make sure that He loves you. Second, you and your mother have a good discussion. Third, you and your boyfriend have a good discussion, now you are both studying, learning is important, wait for 2 years to talk about love. Also, true love is slowly grinded out by time, I hope you will consider it carefully.

You're in your first year of high school now, if it's a true relationship, let him wait for another two years, and when he gets to college, he's in love, if he can't wait, it's not a pity for such a person to give up, let time verify everything.

Learn while handing in, hide the facts, and learn on the road.

In high school, you are not very physically and psychologically mature, so love is more of an exploration for you, but high school is a turning point in life, and the success or failure of the college entrance examination directly determines the advantages of your career choice, so if your parents know that you are distracted during this period, they will definitely blame you. This is the heart of parents who want their children to become Jackie Chan, but many parents are not psychologists so they will not give you such an equal right to speak, and the reprimand is indeed difficult to accept, but they are elders This is a fact that cannot be changed, I hope you can understand, after all, they are thinking about your life, not the nothingness in front of you. Love is a kind of poison, is a kind of love poison that can make people intoxicated, so it is difficult for people in love to keep calm before, more to start to transform themselves for the other party in order to shape the image of the other party's expectations, this period of love is not to ask for anything in return, only after the love can rationally return to the true self, and at this time the contradictions will follow, and the continuous run-in can persist until the perfect ending of the marriage.

Your love is purely an exploration of feelings, is a psychological appeal to each other's good feelings, because at this time your understanding of feelings is not very thorough, I think she doesn't comfort you always say that it's yours, although she complains about you, but it is what she thinks in her heart, you lack mutual understanding and trust, tolerance and tacit understanding, so your so-called love can't go to the end, love and study is more important than you have to choose, if the other party is a person who understands you, then she can promote your academic success, otherwise, Don't give up the pursuit of life for the sake of dreamy emotions, think again!

Then you ask yourself, do you really like her, or do you see that your classmates are in love, so you also follow the trend and fall in love. Understand this and correct your attitude. Every parent wants their son to be a dragon, so to understand your mother, I feel that there is a lack of communication between you, try to communicate with your mother, you will have unexpected gains.

To be honest, it's normal to have early love, but parents are worried about early love because they are afraid of delaying their studies!

If you get your studies up at the same time as you're in a relationship, or don't think about it now, because you also said she always talks about you.

I don't know if she doesn't care about you or doesn't care about you, maybe she's afraid.

Also, a guy doesn't need a girl you like to comfort you, you have to overcome it yourself.

Don't reveal things about your family.

Then don't fall in love, there is no point in sad love.

Don't talk back to your mother, listen to what you say, it'll be fine after a while!

Insufficient arguments to parse.

Let's break up, high school is a very important stage!

After all, high school is not very mature, and you should really study hard at this time. I was also in love all the time at that time, and my parents said they were against it, but they didn't really care about it, but they actually relied on themselves. If she can understand you and be a good girl, it means that this is fate, maybe you are one in a thousand.

But if she doesn't let you worry, she really recommends focusing on studying, and you will definitely regret it in the future. If you lose your girlfriend, you lose your future. Now I'm just a sophomore, I just entered the school and have a boyfriend, and my parents are relatively satisfied.

High school is a critical time, your parents scold you for worrying about your future, it's not that you are not allowed to fall in love, in short, when should you do something.

Your current age is just a little shallow.,,Your mother is from here.,,That's why I said you.。。。 But don't talk back to your mother

Forget it and study hard.

It's best to be more specific.

From your description, I don't see a personality problem, you should be a good boy in everyone's eyes.

In this case, I suspect that there may be something that you don't really face, but that affects you. Or you don't want to say it, or you don't realize it yourself. So much so that you have an inner prejudice against your mother, so you subconsciously do what you regret.

What is the reason for raising, I can't guess. You can try to find a professional psychologist to communicate, maybe it will solve your troubles faster.

Of course, this is not a mental illness, and it may be more appropriate to call it a heart knot. Sometimes it is difficult to open the knot in our hearts by ourselves, so it is recommended that you find someone you can trust to help you untie it.

I wish you mother and daughter can find their love for each other as soon as possible!

I resent my mother in my heart, I feel that she didn't educate you well, delayed your studies, and complained that she didn't create a warm family atmosphere for you, you now have to get rid of the habit of complaining about others when you encounter bad things, think about you are so old, what can you do for your parents, your study is your own, your family is also your own, you can't be so selfish, you must learn to take responsibility, take your own responsibility, simply say study hard, understand and care about your parents, stand in the mother's perspective, think about her feelings, In this case, do your best to create a good atmosphere.

To put it mildly, you have built your strength on the separation of your parents! In other words, your parents have given too much for your healthy growth, even the relationship between husband and wife, marriage.

Their greatest happiness is the healthy growth of their children, and what does your healthy growth bring to them? Harm!

How so? Isn't it that I've been with my father for a long time, and my feelings for my mother are like my father's... It's still the rebellious period upstairs.

Parents are always right for their children, you have to know, especially mothers, marriage is not satisfactory, you should really think about her as a daughter, and also, your parents care about you very much, you can come out to solve the problems between them, if you really can't go on, it is inevitable to separate, but the junior year is coming, pay attention to your body and mind, don't be too stressed and yell

You call it the adolescent rebellious period ... Every time you feel like you're going to get angry, take a deep breath and think about how good your wife used to be to you.