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It must be sour, I will send you a mother-in-law of 2,000 or 3,000 if you have nothing to do, and a mother-in-law who will send you red envelopes every month, who is not sour?

How bad is the relationship between you and your mother-in-law? Isn't it just bad money?

Once I married you and didn't give you gift money, once when you bought a house, your mother-in-law didn't give you money, and when you gave birth to a child, she gave you 200 yuan when she saw that it was a daughter, and then when you were in trouble, your mother-in-law didn't reach out to help, but fell into the well!

None of the problems in this world that can be solved with money are not problems, but there are some people who are not willing to use money to buy you happy!

01 I am the mother of the child, I also have a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, when I got married, my mother-in-law did not fancy me, gave me 200,000 gift money, and took it away after the wedding, and then all kinds of things with my husband were poor, there was no money to buy a house, no money for decoration, no money for illness, and the money we earned had to be given to my mother-in-law!

After having a child, I thought that my mother-in-law would feel sorry for me, knowing that my small family was not easy, and would help me.

That's what my mother-in-law said, whose life can be as good as it gets, isn't it all like this? When I got married, I was poorer than you, I never lived a poor life, I couldn't live a rich life, so people have to be poor, and only when they are poor will they know how to live in the future!

But no, she is traveling, hot springs, playing, I have lived a hard life with her son for six years, buying a house, raising children, speaking from the heart, I still hate her, if she reached out to help back then, we worked less, struggled less, and the child suffered less, how good this mother-in-law is!

02 usually chatting with the mothers downstairs, there is no child's mother who does not complain about her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law suffered back then, it seems that the daughter-in-law has to eat once, or it is not fair!

There are even fewer mothers-in-law who give moneyThe mothers-in-law are selfish, for fear that their daughters-in-law will divorce their sons and take away their property in the future, and the "daughter-in-law" who becomes a mother-in-law has long forgotten how much pain she had back then!

For example, the old lady upstairs in my house didn't give a penny to her daughter-in-law or son, and she saved all the money, saying that she was giving it to them when she diedThe first is afraid that the daughter-in-law will run away, and the second is that the two of them will not serve in the future, so I was thinking, in the future, if your son is developed and your daughter-in-law is rich, can you take a fancy to the two jujubes? You don't help when it's difficult, people are doing well, you appear, it's boring, it's better to send charcoal in the snow than icing on the cake, understand?

Summary: In fact, in this life, it is the most difficult time to have children, my son was born, I can't go to work, my husband goes to work alone to make money to support the family, but also to buy a house, but also to buy a car, there is a lack of money everywhere, children need to drink milk powder, children need diapers, there are many places to use money, at that time, if my mother-in-law helps me, the old is different, even if I give me a thousand yuan a month!

Later, my husband had a successful career, my children went to school, I had my own job, a house, and a car, and at this time my mother-in-law was giving me a thousand a month, which was worthlessI can eat, but you give me a bowl of porridge, I'm sorry, I'm not rare!

For a long time, how to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been an eternal problem for most people. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seem to have a natural sense of hostility, and it is difficult to get along harmoniously no matter what they do. A female netizen named Xiaozhen appeared on the Internet, and her mother-in-law sent her a red envelope if she disagreed.

In order to give a red envelope to her daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law has various reasons, which makes people laugh, this kind mother-in-law is affectionately called the mother-in-law of transfer by netizens. believes that the reason why Xiaozhen and her mother-in-law can live in harmony is because they are willing to understand each other and think from each other's point of view.

1. Mother-in-law takes good care of her daughter-in-law Xiaozhen is a foreign daughter-in-law, so her mother-in-law is very considerate of how difficult it is for her to get married, and she has made great sacrifices. Therefore, in daily life, my mother-in-law has always taken care of Xiao Zhen intimately, and even during Xiao Zhen's confinement period, my mother-in-law took care of her alone.

Many conflicts between women and their mothers-in-law arise during confinement, and the mother-in-law cooks unappetizing or has no way to treat herself sincerely, but Xiaozhen's mother-in-law does treat Xiaozhen sincerely.

Second, as long as Xiaozhen has any comments on the meals she makes, her mother-in-law will immediately correct them.

I even watched some cooking on the Internet, followed along, and let my cooking skills grow slowly, until I reached the time when Xiao Zhen was satisfied. It is because of her mother-in-law's intentions that Xiaozhen can be very comfortable during the confinement period, and she also recuperates her body, which is related to a lifetime of health problems for women.

Third, if you don't agree with the word, you will transfer money until the child is older, and the mother-in-law's performance will be more warm-hearted, and she will often transfer money to Xiaozhen, the reason is that she will give the child milk powder money, snack money, travel money, etc., and also said that there will be every month. Xiao Zhen understood that it was not easy for the elderly, she did not collect the money, and replied to her mother-in-law that the husband and wife were already saving money, so the personal expenses of the children should be borne by the husband and wife, but the mother-in-law still transferred money to Xiao Zhen from time to time according to her own ideas.

After watching the process of getting along with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, netizens said that they were too envious, if all the mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law in the world could be like Xiaozhen and her mother-in-law, then there would be no quarrels. In fact, getting along with people is to understand and tolerate, it is not easy for the mother-in-law to understand the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law must also tolerate the imperfect place that the mother-in-law does.

As a mother-in-law, you can take the initiative to lend a helping hand when your daughter-in-law is in trouble, and as a daughter-in-law, you can think about problems from the perspective of the elderly, tolerate each other, and achieve perfection, so that the relationship will be more harmonious.

It really makes people feel very sour, and it can be seen that the mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law very much, and the family lives very happily.

Every family has its own private affairs, and I think this daughter-in-law is very happy to be able to meet such an understanding mother-in-law, so I hope that this daughter-in-law can cherish it, and must respect her mother-in-law to ensure family harmony.

It can be seen that the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is very good, and the mother-in-law also dotes on the daughter-in-law very much, and envy such a mother-in-law relationship.

I think it's very happy to have such a mother-in-law, and this kind of mother-in-law is also very sensible, and she treats her daughter-in-law very well, which makes people very envious.

Such a mother-in-law is really rare in the world, not only very open-minded, but also treats her daughter-in-law like a daughter, which is very enviable.

It can be seen that the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is very good, and it also makes it difficult for people to believe that this daughter-in-law has such a good mother-in-law.

I am so envious, I am so happy to have such a mother-in-law, the relationship between the two must be very good, and I must be very happy.

It's true, to be able to meet such a good mother-in-law, it is really a blessing for three lives, and their married life will definitely be very happy and go on for a long time.

Such a mother-in-law is a smart mother-in-law, she knows how to protect her daughter-in-law, so that her son's family will be happier.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very enviable, and the chat records between the two also make people feel very moved, so this is the best relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

I am also sour, I feel really happy to have such a mother-in-law, and I believe that my daughter-in-law also loves her mother-in-law very much.

I think such a mother-in-law is really good, not only so gentle to her daughter-in-law, but also so considerate, like such a good mother-in-law, is the state in charge of distribution?

My mother-in-law is very good to my daughter-in-law, which makes me feel very envious, such a mother-in-law relationship is really difficult, and my mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law like a daughter.

The relationship between the two of them is still very good, and such a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is rare, and it is also envied by many people.

This kind of mother-in-law is simply the mother-in-law that everyone is looking forward to, and it is really enviable to get along with her daughter-in-law so well.

Since ancient times, the relationship between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law has been very tense, but some of them also get along very well, and two people love each other and respect each other.

Seeing such a scene, I also feel very envious, and it is very rare to have such a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

1. How to say thank you for your mother-in-law's red envelope

1. Excuse me, if your mother-in-law insists on giving you a red envelope, then you can ask your husband's opinion, if your husband also asks you to accept the red envelope, then accept the red envelope, and remember to say thank you.

2. When you are ready to get married, go to your boyfriend's house, and your boyfriend's mother may give you a red envelope, which you can generally accept at this time, but don't forget to say thank you. Dessert in the mouth to make a good impression.

3. After getting married, the mother-in-law is the same as her own mother, and the mother-in-law gives you a red envelope, so you don't have to be polite, just accept it. Mother-in-law is good to you, you should also be good to mother-in-law, usually care more about them, and buy some gifts during the New Year's holidays. Each other is really good to each other, so that the family will be very harmonious.

4. Under normal circumstances, the mother-in-law's red envelope can be accepted. After receiving the red envelope, you can buy some small gifts for your mother-in-law, which is also very appropriate. When it comes to choosing a gift, you can ask your husband and mother-in-law what they like and choose the right gift according to their preferences.

Divide the situation. 1. If it's a holiday, a birthday or something, your mother-in-law will send you a red envelope, which can actually be accepted. Mother-in-law is willing to send you a red envelope, indicating that she likes you and wishes you, and remember to say thank you when you accept it.

At the right time, such as mother-in-law's birthday or Mother's Day, you can send red envelopes or buy gifts for your mother-in-law, which is considered a return gift.

2. If you help or buy something, if the amount is not large, it is best not to collect it, it is all your own family, and it is too obvious to collect money. If the amount is relatively large, you can discuss it with your husband and see what your husband says. Summary:

Now many people pay attention to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and many people will say on the Internet how bad their mother-in-law is and how bad they are to her, resulting in many people feeling that there are few mothers-in-law who are good to themselves, and some mothers-in-law are obviously for the good of their daughters-in-law, but they are misunderstood, and there will be more contradictions.

My husband and I met in college, when we were just classmates, he wasn't very short, he was average-looking. We still have a good relationship, and then I rarely contact each other after graduation, and after I found a job after graduation, I was urged by my family to find a boyfriend and then get married, so I tried my best to let me go on a blind date, I didn't want to at first, and then I was annoyed and compromised. Then I met him on a blind date a few times.

Because I knew each other before, the relationship was not bad, and I had a good impression. Let's try it together. I thought it was more suitable, and then we got married together.

He also has a job, but the salary is not very high, and then his family's financial situation is not particularly good.

But I don't mind, my boyfriend's family is still more sincere, and he gives a lot of bride price. After I got married, I was happier, my husband was very good to me, and then I gave birth to a little girl, because I had a job with my husband and couldn't take care of the children often. I have an opinion about my mother-in-law on this matter, she is reluctant to take the child because my husband has a younger sister at home, she is still in school, and then my mother-in-law's family is not financially good and she has to keep some money to pay her tuition, so my mother-in-law has to work to earn money.

I didn't have time to help me take care of the children, and I was unhappy at first, feeling that my mother-in-law didn't pay attention to her and didn't care about her own granddaughter. Later, I realized that my children should be brought by my biological parents.

They didn't exactly want to bring it to me, they were willing to help me, so they didn't complain anymore. Because of work and children, I don't go to my mother-in-law's house much, and I rarely contact my mother-in-law. My husband is more filial, and I don't think it matters if he brings a gift when he visits them, as it should be.

I'll bring them gifts when I go back to my parents' house. Later, there was a mother-in-law's birthday, and I was supposed to celebrate my mother-in-law, but we were all in a hurry that day, so I used my husband's mobile phone to transfer money to my mother-in-law to express it, but my mother-in-law replied that she didn't want so much money, and she usually gave a lot, so that her husband would treat me well, buy me delicious food, and buy me clothes to wear.

It's not easy for me to say that I'm not easy. I also set aside a little money for my granddaughter's tuition, which she is now in school. He asked us when we could go back and see them.

She misses us. I looked more moved, and I also felt guilty that I had a misunderstanding of my mother-in-law, but in fact, my mother-in-law was also good to me, willing to care about me and give me good food. Later, I told my husband, and we decided to take time off tomorrow to visit my mother-in-law and have a meal with her.

I'm going to go back to see my mom and dad, they probably miss us too. We will inevitably have a lot of problems when we get along with our mother-in-law, because we don't know much about it, and there will be some behaviors that will cause misunderstandings. We have to do our best to communicate, after all, we are all family.

I hope my mother-in-law is healthy and happy. Then let's not just be busy, but also go back and see how they're doing. That's how they miss us, too.