My cousin s boyfriend said something I didn t like to hear

Updated on psychology 2024-07-28
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You don't have to be too angry about it.

    Your cousin's boyfriend probably doesn't have much social experience, doesn't know how to behave, speaks straightforwardly, and doesn't care about the consequences, anyway, I think it's a relatively naïve person.

    Although he said this very face-saving and made you uncomfortable, it was the right thing for you to take into account the overall situation and not make a big deal on the spot.

    Since you are older than him, you can bear with it for a while, but you can talk to your cousin about your opinion on this matter, and see if you can convey your displeasure with the way he speaks through your cousin.

    If you get into trouble with your cousin's boyfriend on the spot, it is estimated that your cousin will not be able to get off the stage, and everyone will be uncomfortable. What do you think?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Forget it, it's not you who will live with him in the future, but your cousin, so he's talking about his, just ignore him...A big man doesn't move his brain, and it really makes people angry! Eh......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all. Your tirade makes me feel like I want to die.

    Then. Business.

    I'm a very direct person.

    No wonder. In fact.

    Your heart should come over and let me break it with my hands.

    Although I don't know the tone of his voice at the time.

    But I believe.

    He had no ill will.

    So. Think about it.

    There are no malicious words.

    Do you need to care that much?

    Now him. Maybe he's forgotten what he said.

    So. Don't take someone else's irrelevance.

    to torture yourself.

    I hope you understand.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think you need to be angry, don't pay attention to him, this is from the perspective of relatives. In fact, the quality of others may be their faults, or they may have problems with their mouths. After all, you are relatives, and it is not good to be hurt and angry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There's no need to bring up the matter between you and your girlfriend with that kid, things like this can be avoided. You have to relax, the past is gone, and it's not interesting to make too much trouble. In the future, when we meet, it's good to chat about some scenes, he is asking about you and your girlfriend, you can completely dismiss him, this is your privacy, and there is no need to talk to him.

    You and that kid are not all the way, you should be the kind of person who is more realistic, besides, you and him are nothing more than anything. The road is not passable, there is no conspiracy! It's OK to go on the face!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I agree with your cousin's boyfriend that he's right, your girlfriend is sick. It's only been more than half a month since I've known each other to talk about marriage, isn't it sick? Before marriage, she said that she only took care of the family, which also proves that her IQ is low, and the benevolent see the benevolent, and the wise see the wise, my opinion is the same as that of your cousin's boyfriend, and she speaks straightforwardly, which only represents a judgment of things, and does not see the essence through the phenomenon, and may not be comprehensive, so you don't have to care too much.

    He couldn't say that he was scolding like that, and he didn't mean it malicious, but he just casually echoed it when chatting.

    I believe you don't like what I'm saying, but you should also calm down and think about it, you can't always stay in the lonely self-appreciation, I think it's normal for two people to talk and say things like that, there's no need to go to your heart, don't always expect to hear others say words of appreciation for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're all at fault. It's good to offset it like this, everyone can be more harmonious together in the future, after all, the two of them will be relatives in the future, and they will not see each other when they look down. As an elder brother, you should learn to be considerate of your younger brother.

    Although it is not familiar now. If he likes to say it, let him say it, no need for you to say it, sooner or later someone will come out and talk about him. It's not that you're cowardly, men have to be graceful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forget it. He's your cousin's boyfriend after all. Judging from what you said earlier, he may have been unintentional about what he did to you later, after all, he likes to chat with you every time he meets you.

    I also call you brother. I don't think he's very old. Today's young people speak openly.

    Say whatever comes to mind. Didn't think about the consequences. So don't worry too much.

    It's not that you're cowardly. On the contrary, you are generous. Man.

    Quins. If you don't like the person. Stay away from him in the future.

    and do not sin against him. Otherwise, it may affect your relationship with your cousin.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think your future brother-in-law is a bit unreliable.

    But you're also overreacting, and some of the things he said were wrong, but not necessarily malicious.

    Don't pursue this matter, you can't talk about cowardice.

    He may be a family with you in the future, and your sister will also look at you, this face is to be given, a man must have a mind and demeanor, and your sister will respect you for this. Don't think about hands-on stuff or anything like that.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    For the time being, forget it first, and we'll talk about it later, but don't make things stiff easily, after all, it's your cousin's boyfriend, if you feel the need, you can talk to him less in the future, at least don't mention your girlfriend's affairs!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't say that his sister is not good, you just find the right time to tell him what the relationship you want is like, suggest to him that you care about this aspect, if he cares about you, it will change, if he is indifferent, it can only mean that you are not important to him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since he already recognized him as a sister before he had you, there will be nothing between them, at least your boyfriend will not have that kind of thoughts about her sister, you don't need to be too careful, too much will affect your love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Watch and see what happens. Shoot when it's time to strike. Wait for your time. This woman is extraordinary. Be honest with your boyfriend, this woman will affect the relationship between you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I advise you to quit as soon as possible! From "boyfriend" to "husband", then passive! The bystander is clear, and the fool can see the thing!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's break up! Remember one sentence, brother first and sister in daughter-in-law! He doesn't care about you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't let your boyfriend have a sister or something like that, because if you're red, you'll be yellow, and if you're red, don't be a sister, because if you're gone, you're gone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I also have a sister who recognizes, men have a sense of responsibility, don't think too much, if there is nothing too much that you can't bear to take it to heart, I believe your boyfriend has this self-control.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wait for him to come and apologize to you and show that he likes you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As long as you don't cross the thunder pool, you can see the point. Maybe it's just a sibling relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    has already said that it is a boyfriend, then it must be in love, and it is not slim and likes to be together, so it can only mean that your cousin is lonely and lonely, so he longs for someone to rely on, and it just so happens that this person is out of the rotten wheel and is now ruining the round.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't count, since you don't like it, it's nothing.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can see that you love your boyfriend a lot, and you are afraid of losing your boyfriend, so when your boyfriend talks to his sister, you feel a little unhappy in your heart, although you know that she is your boyfriend's sister after all. Maybe you need your boyfriend to give you more security, and you can find a suitable way to talk to your boyfriend about this, and he will understand. I hope the above answers are helpful to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't like them to be closer than you are. They grew up together and had a deep relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you go, you will be tolerant and generous, and you will be too childish if you don't go, this is also a test, but also an opportunity, don't let your boyfriend lose face and lose his job in front of his cousin.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should go, first, give your boyfriend a face, second, if you are sincere, face it bravely, and third, his cousin may not like it because you haven't had much contact with him, so he doesn't know each other very well. When you face his cousin, you have to behave naturally, be gentle and generous, and give way to his cousin everywhere. As long as you treat it with sincerity, sooner or later you will live in harmony.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's just a cousin, don't care too much, go for it!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Gotta go, and behave well.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, sometimes it's the woman's problem, I don't like to talk, so my boyfriend always talks.

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