A few things about my home with my boyfriend

How can you measure the relationship between the two of you with money, not to mention whether his parents value it or not, it may have something to do with family conditions.

Actually, I also encountered this kind of thing, and I haven't taken the money yet, but his mother always wants me to go to his house to play, and she is quite enthusiastic, because we are still young.

Dear, the main thing is to ask his parents how enthusiastic they are about you, if you don't feel it or say that you don't feel good, you have to come down to yourself, whether you are not good enough, it's good to learn this with your mother.

Also, if you have a deep relationship with your boyfriend, I suggest asking your boyfriend to make a statement to your mom so that your mom can rest assured.

These are all superficial things, the key is how your boyfriend treats you!

I've been to my boyfriend's house many times and haven't given me a cent!

What a pity to give up your feelings so easily!

Looking at the conditions of the man's family, if the conditions are good, it is really unreasonable to give 200! Look at the attitude of the other party and the other party's parents, life events can't be child's play!

If any girl comes to my house, I promise not to give a penny of red envelopes!

Don't talk about fucking off.

Your mom 2 or are you 2?? I always think it's funny, my own problems, I have to listen to my parents, that man loves you, is this reason enough to be together? Because hundreds of red envelopes are going to break up???

You're worth that little money??? Still? Joke on people?

If you break it up, the man's parents won't die of laughter.

It's your man who lives with you for a lifetime, it's not your mother, love is not a transaction, it's not something that can be measured by money, if you love him, you have to be with him for a lifetime, and you're not with him for money...

You just say that this is a heart, not the amount of money, but to value me, if you don't care about me, you can't give me money, you just find a way to make your mother understand that he cares about you.

Summary. What do your boyfriend's friends do at your house so often?

What do your boyfriend's friends do at your house so often?

What does this affect your daily life?

Almost every day, every time you talk for a while after eating, you may leave, leaving a bunch of battlefields, it's very annoying, well, yes, it's a long time, everyone will be annoying, have you told your boyfriend how you feel.

Boyfriend brother regret it! It doesn't matter if I feel that my friends are envious of the reeds, and I think I'm stingy when I talk too much, but every day when I come back from work, I spend a little time alone, and I sleep for a day after cleaning up.

Tell my boyfriend, the bitterness in your heart, I was thinking, I quit my job and came from a different place, is it wrong, regret it and want to go back.

Work, you can find it again at any time, as for feelings, you have to know more and think about it before deciding.

I think you still have to communicate more, communicate more, girls, when appropriate, it's okay to lose a little temper.

Vent your frustration and see how your boyfriend goes.

What do you think?

And now the epidemic salary is a little bottom salary, and it is difficult for both of them to live, his friends come every day, and they are empty-handed, so let's go, Bu Jian is not polite, I don't know what he is doing with this kind of friend.

Yes, this is the world of two people, the life of two people, you are qualified to have a reason to tell your boyfriend your dissatisfaction and annoyance, to let him see.

Just said a few words, he said, no one wants me to wash, I don't need to wash in the future, he will wash, I want to say this is a problem with washing dishes?

Yes, your boyfriend is still not aware of the problems between you, so you have to communicate with him slowly, don't worry.

The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, my boyfriend's family was very enthusiastic about me, especially his mother, who always looked at me and smiled. He also made me a big table of dishes and filled my bowl when I ate.

I was also very attentive when I went to my boyfriend's house. I hope that girls should also pay attention to the following points.

1. Pay attention to politeness: A person's speech and behavior will leave a deep impression on people, and if you want to leave a good side for your boyfriend's parents, you must pay attention to your words and deeds. Among them, politeness is particularly important, behind understanding politeness, it often represents a good upbringing, even if it is not a plus in the eyes of the boyfriend's parents, it is definitely a shining point.

When getting along with your boyfriend's family, you must pay attention to politeness, not big or small, light or heavy. Respect your elders, after all, it's the first time you meet in front of your elders, don't pay no attention to anything as usual.

2. Take the initiative to help: If you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, if the other party's parents haven't cooked yet, you must take the initiative to help. You don't have to do too much to help with the selection of vegetables or washing the vegetables, but you have to express such an attitude.

While you express your attitude, you can also have a certain understanding of the attitude of the man's family.

When most parents hear that a girl wants to help, they will refuse. A few talkative parents will ask the girls to do a little favor, but not too much. There is also a type of strange parents, the woman is a guest for the first time, and the woman is allowed to do housework before she speaks, this kind of family, girls must stay away.

3. Give face to your boyfriend: In front of your boyfriend's parents, it's not so easy in front of your boyfriend. It's fun to play around with your boyfriend, but in front of your boyfriend's parents, it's a disadvantage.

So in front of your boyfriend's parents, you have to restrain your usual temperament and give your boyfriend face.

4. Use honorifics when speaking, and ask for bad habits (well, you lie), such as smoking and drinking, and say no. The old people mind this very much, they think it is about having children in the future, in short, it is dignified and generous.

Of course, don't be too anxious to speak, don't talk too much, and don't interrupt the other person. There may be some parents who meet for the first time, especially the "mother-in-law" will give you a horse, if you don't want to break up, just bear with it, don't be hard.

5. Confession of family situation: about the family's financial resources, be truthful, but when asked about the relationship between the parents, you need to be cautious, some children from single-parent families, and the relationship between parents is not harmonious, for the other party's parents, it is taboo.

Going to your boyfriend's house can be done in the following ways:

1. Pay attention to dress and image.

The first time I go to my boyfriend's house, I should pay attention to my image, dress appropriately, not too grand, not too casual, as long as it is decent and casual, and don't spend heavy makeup, light makeup, generally older people don't like girls to paint heavy makeup.

2. Understand the preferences and temperaments of your future in-laws.

Before going to your boyfriend's house, you can learn about your future in-laws' preferences and temper from your boyfriend in advance, so that when you chat with your future in-laws, you won't be embarrassed that you don't know anything about what they like or hobbies.

3. Buy something and show importance and respect.

When you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, you can't go empty-handed, it's best to buy something, such as fruits, drinks, etc., and of course, you can also buy a piece of clothing for your future mother-in-law, so that you can also appear sensible.

4. Smile politely and take the initiative to say hello.

When you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, don't keep a straight face, take the initiative to greet them, greet them, have a sweet mouth, and call them politely, which will make them very happy, and they also feel that they are educated and sensible.

5. Take the initiative to help, don't be restrained or willful.

The first time I go to my boyfriend's house, it is inevitable that my future in-laws will entertain me, I will cook and stir-fry, etc., I don't want to sit on the sofa and do not move, just watch TV, and take the initiative to help, even if I don't need myself, I can watch it myself, and I have to do it to be able to serve a bowl and chopsticks.

In the same case as me, I also went to my boyfriend's house during the Chinese New Year and met his parents. I had a great time with his father's mother.

Fast. My advice is;

First, be a little more discerning, help his parents do more housework, can't cook, just do it. Help sweep the floor and clean up or something.

Second, be sweeter and talk to his parents more.

Third, be sensible and be kind to your boyfriend.

Fourth, dress modestly and don't wear heavy makeup.

Think about what else you should pay attention to. Hope you succeed.

The first copy girl should be quiet, and the quiet girl parent is the favorite. When you see his mother doing things, you have to cooperate in time, or let me be an aunt! Such a small word can make his mother feel that you are really good.

You just went to his house and cooking is not something you do, don't worry. The next thing you have to do is to let his father see your good side, you have to pay attention to your dress, it is best to wear a lady, because people are marrying daughters-in-law, you have to be real. It's not about how beautiful you are.

Everything else is fine as normal, don't pay too much attention, the more you pay attention the more nervous you will be. The girl's movements and sitting posture are very important, and you should pay attention to such details.

I hope you will be liked by his family! I wish you happiness.

1.Be gentle and quiet, and let them see that you are very elegant and decent.

2.Sweet and diligent, diligent and fast, so that they think you are very sensible.

3.In front of his family, you must be obedient to your boyfriend, so that his family will feel that you are gentle and virtuous, and love their son very much, so that they will be happy!

First, you should behave generously and deformably, second, it is advisable to say as little as possible, and third, it doesn't matter if you don't know how to cook, as long as you actively help do what you can. Fourth, it is best not to sleep in the same bed with your boyfriend at night.

1.Show your love for your boyfriend, whose parents want to find a daughter-in-law who loves their son.

2.Don't dress up for show, you can be conservative if you wear itBring his parents a small gift that they can take with them so that they always remember you and make them feel that you are caring and understand human affairs (not too precious).

4.Take the initiative to chat with parents, do what they like, don't know what they like, just ask5It doesn't matter if you don't know how to cook, don't be too diligent, otherwise you will be diligent and deliberate in the future.

6.Speak sincerely and smile.

7.Praise them for raising a good cub (

Good luck.

It's all the same

Copy first dressed decently and generously, it's best to wear no makeup, I went to draw eyeliner for the first time, and the result was criticized 、、、 haha, and then the mouth should be sweet, uncle and aunt, you can scream, the first time you go, you don't have to do any housework, you don't know what the pattern is, as long as you are generous, you can do it, and you won't really let you do it.

For the first time, the performance is mainly to give some gifts, and to be gentle when talking to the elderly. As for the rest, of course, everyone has their own ideas, how can you possibly know what the other person thinks? In the future, look at it, anyway, you are living with his son.

Find something you can do, don't force yourself if you can't do it, so as not to be ugly, such as sweeping the floor and washing clothes, and chatting with the empathetic person in his family.

Women now win the affection of their elders as long as they are diligent, such as washing dishes, doing laundry, and mopping the floor.

After that.

The family who saw him was called uncle.

Auntie didn't eat before.

Chat with your boyfriend's mom.

For example, work. Wait" when your boyfriend's mom goes to cook.

Say a word about Auntie.

I'll help you. When eating.

Take the initiative to give your boyfriend's family.

Finish eating.

Take the initiative to stop yourself from cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks.

Ask your boyfriend after dinner.

There is no fruit. Wash the fruit and give it to them.

To your boyfriend's mom.

Say something from your heart.

It's okay to say bad things about your boyfriend

Ask your boyfriend's dad.

The condition of the working body、

Leave your boyfriend's house when it's time to go.

Take the initiative to say it to your boyfriend's family.

Auntie and uncle. I will come to see you often in the future.

Remember that language is a bridge between 2 strangers and bless you.

Lady, take the initiative to help with some work.

If you really meet the parents, you must be polite.

Attention to detail.

It is necessary to reflect the character of a good wife and mother, in order to leave a good impression on the future mother-in-law and deepen your impression in the in-laws!

Even if you have a good relationship with your boyfriend, he is usually very accustomed to you, after arriving at their house, you can't just sit and wait for food, your mouth must be diligent, uncles and aunts shout, ask if you need help, in fact, it is impossible for the man's parents to let you do housework, but you must be sensible, you can't just stay like this. With more interaction and the feeling of being at your own home, then the meal will be a success!

When you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, you should pay attention to politeness, pay attention to dressing up and be simple and generous, and give a good impression to the other party's parents. Bring some gifts to show respect for your elders. Don't be weird and presumptuous in your speech and behavior, restrain your temper, and don't give a bad impression to others.

Should I wash the dishes when I go to my boyfriend's house for the first time? Be conscious.

I feel that the first time I went to the man's house, I asked the girl to wash the dishes, and the parents of this family are really ignorant and don't understand hospitality at all. Either you are not satisfied with the woman, and the girl does not have to be in a hurry to be very diligent, or the things that will be brushed in the future are yours, and occasionally people think you are lazy if you don't brush. I will also be a mother-in-law in the future, so I must install a dishwasher at home and not engage in so many moths.

The first time I went to my husband's house to wash the dishes of the whole 3 tables, the seven aunts and eight aunts all said that my mother-in-law was blessed, but after marriage, I said that my mother-in-law would not let me go, of course, like me who is stupid and don't care about it, my mother-in-law gave me 2800 when I left, I don't want to live or die, (in the end, I still accepted it, I didn't know that there was a red envelope [covering my face]) so I didn't care so much, in fact, you are looking at other people's attitudes, and others are also observing you. Anyway, now my mother-in-law treats me no different from her own daughter. [Yay].

If it's a good in-law, the in-laws won't let you do it, even if the in-laws didn't say maybe you should test it, at least your boyfriend won't let you wash it, if not, then let them roll as far as they can. The man's mother-in-law's house is different, it's not a show, it's a real washing of dishes [tears].

The first two times I went to his house. He only cooked, and his aunt brought the dishes from the restaurant downstairs. The third time I went, I still didn't do anything, and my boyfriend yelled at me and didn't go to get the dishes and chopsticks.

After eating, I cleaned him up and yelled at me, and then slowly explained to me, saying that the first two times were guests, and the third time I still helped to do some small things, so that my aunt and his relatives and friends would also praise you for being diligent, huh? Funny. I asked calmly, as if your ex-girlfriend had to do everything, and you didn't get up and cook breakfast for you and call you to get up and eat.

How can an ex-girlfriend break up if she is so good. Then quietly did not speak......I am most afraid of the sudden silence of the air. I set a rule for him at night, don't call me if I want to do something, and dare to call me to do things when I go to your house in the future.

I don't go to work on weekends, and on Friday my aunt will call me **, telling us to go back on the weekend to play, go back to dinner, and when I go back on the weekend, I see that there is something to do, so I directly call my boyfriend to do it, [cool drag] [cool drag] [cool drag].