What do you think of the kind of people who have no money, but always like to pretend to be big?

Meaning doesn't necessarily mean anything.

Nowadays, people like to compare, and if it is serious, they like to compare.

Work hard outside the home, busy earning money every day. There is nothing to compare with strangers, and there are few comparisons.

Generally, the conditions in the hometown where they work outside are not very good, and the cultural education they receive is not particularly good. I'm afraid of being looked down upon, I'm afraid that I won't be able to keep up with my fellow villagers, and sometimes I will exaggerate when I speak, and I look like I'm doing well.

It is to show off to make money outside, mix well outside, and have the meaning of returning to the hometown with glorious ancestors. At the same time, it is also to fill their own vanity and their own comparison.

It's just for the sake of face, for a sense of arguing.

In the countryside, there are too many things about slapping a swollen face and becoming fat, and people are no stranger to these things, so let's count these things together:

First, build a house.

Now in the countryside, people's comparison psychology is getting more and more powerful, once someone starts to build a two-story building in a place, and then the surrounding area will immediately follow, and soon it will be a two-story building. Some people have to build houses even if they go everywhere to borrow money, and many of them look very beautiful from the outside, but at home they eat cabbage and pickles every day, and life is very difficult.

Second, buy a car.

In the past, cars were rare in rural areas, but in recent years, there have been significantly more, and some people buy one immediately without considering their own situation when they see others buying it. I once met a person who didn't make much money working outside the home, and when he came home and saw that his friends had bought a car, he swiped his credit card and bought one, and now he can't even pay for gas at home.

Third, smoke well during the Chinese New Year.

Some people who work outside all the year round have not saved any money for a year, and every time they go home, they have to buy a few good cigarettes, smoke when they see people in the village, and they also brag about introducing jobs to others.

In the past few years in the countryside, with the improvement of living standards, people's vanity and comparison have become more and more serious. On the surface, others are envious, but in fact, they are all ridiculed behind their backs, which is exactly what the sentence is: die to save face and suffer sin.

This brings us to the question of human nature. People live in this world, in addition to the most basic needs of food, clothing and warmth. Another ultimate requirement is to be recognized by society, especially by people I know.

This is not just vanity, but a real need in the depths of the human heart. As for saying that there is no money to go home and pretend to be a big money, it is definitely impossible to obtain, in the final analysis, it is still the poor people who are thinking strangely, and they are afraid that others will look down on themselves everywhere, with the development of society and the increase of personal wealth, people's concerns will change greatly, and more and more people will pursue higher cultural and spiritual wealth, and this phenomenon will become less and less!

A little contemptuous. A person must recognize his own situation, live as much as he wants, slap his swollen face and become fat, and in the end it is himself who suffers.

It's all because of the hypocrisy of these people, their personalities are very hypocritical, even if they are poor, they don't want to say it directly, they have to pretend to be rich.

Why is it that everyone is saying that the richer the person, the more stingy they are? There are two reasons: first, the richer many people are, the more they save, which may be due to their thrifty character all the time, and they don't think that they can spend it at will when they have money, not to mention that some people are born to be misers, which has little to do with whether they have money or not; Second, some rich people are afraid of being stared at, so they are always worried when they should make a move, they are thinking, everyone knows that I am rich, so if I have less money, I will definitely attract scolding, saying that I am stingy, and I am naturally not good to rank in the ranks of the rich people; What about some extra money?

How much is more? Everyone's expectations of the rich are always higher, but there is no social standard, although sometimes the rich think that they have more, but the result may still be unpleasant, because it may still be lower than everyone's expectations, which is called the rich people are difficult to behave. So, sometimes rich people simply don't pull out a dime a dime - happy!

Because everyone knows that he doesn't have much money, and he knows that he doesn't have any money, so I'm thinking, I just take out all my money and don't have much, and I don't feel distressed, anyway, it's just a little bit. Then everyone is thinking when they see it, this person has no money, and he is so generous, it is easy to be accepted and praised by everyone.

Such a person may be looking for psychological comfort, or hoping that he can live a life with dignity. Such a person is hypocritical, and he acts only to satisfy his own psyche. But when you are psychologically satisfied, your life cannot go on normally.

Some people would rather live a little harder on their own than let others look down on them. Such behavior is a sign of cowardice, they are unable to recognize their current situation and accept their current self.

1. There are many such people in life, they like to slap their swollen faces and become fat, and they want to show themselves no matter what they do. For example, when you go out to dinner, you know that you don't have any money, but you still have to rush to pay for it. They don't care how they live their lives in the future, they just want to win the respect of others now.

But in the eyes of others, this kind of behavior is nothing to show off. Others may only treat you as a rich person, and then rub off on your benefits, and will not really make friends with you.

2. Cowardly psychologyPeople who have such behavior are psychologically very cowardly. In order to save face, they can do anything, even if it costs them a lot. It may seem brave and fearless, but it is actually a sign of cowardice in the heart.

Such people can't accept their current life and don't want to try to change it. I always think that I don't belong here, and I hope that I can escape as soon as possible. But he refuses to take action, and is always complaining.

Pretend to be fat in front of others and go hungry when you get home. A person is truly strong not because he can meet the needs of others, but when he can meet his own.

3. Reconciling with oneself is the greatest braveryMany people don't know what bravery is, and always feel that they are willing to help others, and it is brave to stick a knife in the ribs for friends. But in fact, it is not, true bravery is to reconcile with yourself, know what you care about, and protect yourself and what you care about as much as possible. In fact, many people can't do this well, always let themselves be hurt, and complain that God is unfair to them.

Some people are already very poor, but they are still pretending to be big money outside, in fact, these people have low self-esteem in their hearts, for fear that others will look down on him, so he pretends to be particularly rich to fill the façade.

I think such people will never become rich, but will always be poor, because such people are always vain, and they don't know how to work hard, so they are destined to always be poor.

I think those people belong to the heart that is too empty. It's always a way to find some presence.

These people are just good faces, obviously they don't have to pretend, and they are still the ones who suffer in the end, but it can be regarded as a way of life that is happy in suffering.

This kind of person has a strong sense of self-esteem, most of them are incapable of making a lot of money, but they are unwilling to be like this.

I don't agree, but there are indeed some such people in the world, the more they have no money, the more they want to pretend to be big, and such people are often very hypocritical. Money is a person's capital, there is a good saying, in this world, if there is no money, then you are no one, indeed, in today's society, many people only recognize money and do not recognize people. Although we always say that money is something outside the body and is not taken seriously, what we don't know is that this sentence can be said when there is no shortage of money, when there is enough money.

Living in this world, money is still very important to each of us, because we need enough money to support ourselves, and every effort we make is to make money to support ourselves.

A man who pretends to be a big man can't deal with it, and such a man will mistakenly think that he is rich, but in fact he is just a man of vanity. When eating, he gives you the most expensive dishes; Go to the mall to buy something and it will pick out a gift for you. In short, it is to give you a feeling of being very generous to you.

But when he's with you, he's never bought himself anything. Occasionally, you find that he has some items that have been used for a long time, and he excuses himself by saying that he is nostalgic. Ladies beware, he may be a man of vanity.

Originally, he didn't have much money, and he wanted to lie to you to make you think that his financial strength was very good.

Some people still like to rush to pay, in fact, they don't have much money in their pockets, and they would rather borrow money from others than treat them to a large amount of money, and such people have a particularly strong sense of self-esteem. You will feel that if you don't have money, you should be more constrained and better able to live. In fact, the poorer some people are, the more they want to save face, and their self-esteem does not allow them to pretend to be poor, they will pretend to be very atmospheric in front of their friends and colleagues.

When they get together or invite colleagues to have afternoon tea, these people will rush to pay, they know that they have no money, but in order to not lose face in their friends and colleagues, they will also be fat. They would rather work hard for themselves and their families in private than be at a disadvantage in front of outsiders.

Money is really important, if you don't have money, you don't need to pretend to be big, it's easier to live in the world or be real.

I don't think this sentence is right, many poor people live a very hard and simple life.

Disagree, people who lack money also have self-esteem, and they are also trying to live.

I don't agree, people who are short of money, they don't have the money to support them to pretend to be big.

I don't agree, people are poor and poor have backbone, what is there to pretend to be, there are many rich people now, it's not a big deal.

Most of the people who don't have money and like to pretend to be generous like to be a leader in life, and there are indeed such people in my life. It's not uncommon to all of us.

This kind of person is generally accustomed to being someone else's leader. Whether he can or not, or whether he has the ability to do so, he likes to lead the direction of others.

There are many reasons for this, first of all, it may be because this person has not been managed by his family since he was a child, and then he himself likes to be the boss and has a rebellious mentality, so that he will not develop this habit until he grows up.

Moreover, once you do everything in life for a long time, you will develop a habit. It is also possible that he has had this habit since he was a child, so he will still be like this when he grows up.

Actually, this kind of person is not very likable. Although he seems to be generous, it is unrealistic and does not give a very real feeling. Her pretense of being very generous gives people a very hypocritical feeling, so most of the time people don't like this kind of person, but will stay away from this kind of person.

Because he is not worthy of deep friendship, it is likely that he only maintains a very shallow relationship and cannot become a friend in the true sense of the word.

Once this kind of person goes to work in society, he will give people a particularly realistic feeling. At work, her personality is not likable, but will bring some bad opinions to herself.

So, for the kind of people around us, try to have as little contact as possible. Let's not be that kind of person.

Of course, my brother from my aunt's house is a contractor of a renovation team. In those years, when the property market was good, the contractors they worked together made a lot of money and became rich bosses.

This brother of mine doesn't know how to make money, he just thinks about how not to fall behind. I forced my aunt to buy him a house, but I couldn't even pay the loan. There are two children in the family, and the second child can't even afford to go to kindergarten.

I dropped out of school at a young age to work as an apprentice in a barber shop, and the living expenses of the whole family were supported by my sister-in-law's selling vegetables, and my sister-in-law's mother's family made my sister-in-law divorce him.

In fact, his craftsmanship is very good, and there are many people looking for him to decorate, and others can make money, but he can't make money. Before the construction period was over, he asked his customers for money for various reasons.

Then take his fox friends out to eat and drink, and he is very generous, and he likes others to call him a brother and a boss. It seems that this is how he realizes the value of his life and makes others respect him.

In fact, it is his wife and children who suffer, and those of us who know the inside story naturally despise him. This is not the best example of a person who has no money and likes to pretend to be generous, and it is a bit too much.

Relying on his wife to support his two children, he is often helped by his parents, but he takes others out to sing, eat and drink, which is ridiculous to think about.

If you suffer your relatives, you may not be able to make true friends, if you are a true friend, how can you bear to see him like this. So he is both an example and a lesson.

I feel like it's my husband.

In fact, I usually hate the most, no money and pretend to be generous people feel very disgusting, when I was in love with my husband before, I always felt that he was just joking, not serious, who knew that after getting married, he still likes to pretend to be generous, which makes me very annoying just like we are married, we have children after we get married, and there are a lot of places to use money every day, so I can only save, because we only work alone.

We are a family of three, only he has the economy alone** Even if the two of us save the baby, all kinds of places need money, and we can't save it, just like I can't save it, every time we go out, I say I want to buy this, I want to buy that, but I just say I don't buy it, but when my husband goes out, he always says, it's not that there is no money in his pocket, why don't you buy it.

And every time I go out, I will say, do you want to buy clothes, you can buy if you want, and wear street goods all day long, as soon as he says this kind of thing, I am very angry, I will say that you think I want to wear street goods, and it's not that you don't have the ability to make money, don't I also want to wear clothes in the store? He said that he had money, and I was unwilling to buy it myself.

I didn't bother to quarrel with him, because I felt that arguing with him was boring, and it was true that we were rich enough to go to the store to buy clothes, but after going to the store to buy clothes, then our days would be over? Do you just go out in two clothes when you go out all day? So I don't want to quarrel with him, and I don't want to explain to him why I'm so frugal, in fact, I didn't save so much money when I was a little girl before, but now I have a baby is different.

You said that he knows how to talk big all day long, and he pretends to be generous when he has no money, and he has to be serious when he has time to work by himself, and he can earn a little more.