Is it selfish for men who value money too much and for men who value money more than their lovers?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-18
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In fact, human beings are selfish by nature!

    As for the existence of selfless people, it is often also the perception and reward ...... of education or upbringing or experience

    But, I have to admit that human beings are selfish by nature!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The psychology of men who value money too much is more important than their lovers, in fact, such men are very selfish in their hearts, in the hearts of such men, money is everything, and nothing else matters.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Marriage, many people may only have one time in their lives, and many women will consider one issue when they get married, and this problem is money.

    Some women often have such confusion, when they are in love, whether the other party's money should be spent, and whether the other party will be reluctant to spend money on themselves.

    And I feel that the other party is always a little concerned about money, and I don't know if such a man intends to be with her for the rest of his life, or to experience the feeling of being in love.

    When Zhang Lin divorced, the man said that he didn't agree to anything, because Zhang Lin secretly saved more than 10 million private money behind the back of others.

    Under the man's repeated questioning, he said that the money was saved on weekdays, and the two lived a fairly rich life after marriage.

    Usually, when I buy clothes and cosmetics by myself, my husband takes the initiative to take the money, so I slowly saved some private money.

    But now the situation is that the two are divorced, should you and him be alone in this money, and finally the two will divide the money equally after negotiation, and the marriage will be considered to be over.

    Whether a woman is willing to spend money on a man or not is one thing, but whether a man is willing to spend money on this woman is another.

    The meaning of the two is completely different, just like whether a man has money or not is the same thing, but whether a man is willing or not is the same as whether a woman is willing to spend.

    If the person's economic conditions are reasonable or even rich, he will naturally spend more money, but if the economic conditions are normal, he will naturally spend less. In the eyes of a woman, it is not important how much money is spent, but the key is attitude.

    When Xiaohong fell in love, he found that boys rarely spent money on him, and he didn't feel anything wrong.

    After getting married, as the two began to become more and more familiar, a vague feeling became clearer and clearer in Xiaohong's heart, that is, the man in front of him valued money very much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    At this time, he is not selfish, in fact, he himself is very frugal, but he used to be too poor, so if the gloves have no money, he is not steady, unstable, so he always wants to put money in his hands.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He loves himself more, you are in the back, there are many such men, there is nothing to worry about, you have to love yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What do you think of that person? In fact, what could that person be? What about you?

    It depends on the man's condition. If the conditions are good, the conditions of his girlfriend will naturally be very high. If the conditions are average, it is difficult for a girlfriend to push away, and it is estimated that no woman will like such a man.

    If she met such a man, she would dump him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on what the man's conditions are, if the conditions are very good, the conditions for his girlfriend are naturally very high, if he is general, if he is very buttoned to his girlfriend, it is estimated that it is difficult for a woman to like such a person, if you meet this kind of man, a word is thrown.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What would a man think? In fact, how can it be a man? What about you?

    Depending on the condition of the man, if the condition is very good, the condition of the bride is naturally very high, if the bride is generally very open, it is estimated that it is difficult to have such a woman, and if you meet such a man, leave in a word.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What to say, I think that a gentleman loves money in a good way, and the material foundation determines the superstructure, so it is normal. The reverse is also true for gender.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If a person takes money very seriously, then this person is very selfish, most of the time only cares about their own interests, never considers the feelings of others, such people will not help others, and will not contribute to the country and the people, this kind of person is very selfish, but these people are only a small part, they can not represent all the people who value money very much, and there is a big difference between people who value money very seriously. Under normal circumstances, as long as people value money very seriously, they are basically misers.

    A person who values money too seriously is a person with a strong sense of selfishness and self-protection, this kind of person may stand by or fall into the well when you encounter difficulties or dangers, there are more and more such people in China, because people are very realistic, they can't afford to see a doctor, can't afford to buy a house, can't afford to go to school, can't afford to support the elderly, so many people are trapped by money, resulting in more and more such people.

    Older people in this category are more representative. Many of our parents came from a difficult life, and they can better appreciate the hard-won life, so they are more frugal in life, save money, and pay more attention to money, so it can be said that they can save money. At the same time, they are very affectionate, and when their children and grandchildren need money, they are so generous.

    In fact, many young men also have this kind of thought, and they are usually complained about by their wives and friends, but they want to use their money when they need it more, or they prefer to have savings so that they will not be psychologically unconfident. After all, when the moonlight clan and the old clan are facing emergencies, such as this sudden new crown pneumonia epidemic, they can realize the importance of having savings. Therefore, a man who values money very much does not necessarily pay less attention to feelings, it depends on whether he is for himself or for his family.

    It is precisely because of the importance of money that the entanglement between money and feelings will not occur in the future. This also fully blocks the incidence of bad feelings. Making money is always the foundation of life, and only by valuing money can you calmly take the road of life, and you can give emotionally, or you can treat money and feelings separately.

    A man regards money as very important, perhaps as equally important as feelings, and in the eyes of outsiders, he thinks that money is important, but in fact it is not.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Very snobbish. Such boys generally find girls who are very materialistic. In the end, you will not get true love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's very stingy for a man who values money a lot in a relationship, so I don't think a man like this is something we like at all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    They are very selfish, they only have some money in their eyes, they don't have anything to pay for their feelings, and they don't care about people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Such a guy will generally have a bad attitude towards you, and will also feel that you are greedy for his money when you are with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If men value money very much, they are generally more selfish, more selfish, and more stingy. A man who picks on the door will limit you too materially and make your life comfort index plummet.

    If a person is selfish, it is absolutely impossible for him to be selfish in just one place in the future. If you are selfish about money at first, then later you have to be prepared for the other person to be emotionally selfish as well. Most of the men who pick the door do not have any big ambitions, are content with the status quo, and will not have any breakthrough development in their careers.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Not necessarily. A person's values and behavior are influenced by many factors, including family background, cultural background, social environment, and personal experiences, among others. Therefore, a man who values money does not necessarily mean that he is a selfish person.

    However, if a person's behavior shows that he is only concerned with his own financial interests and does not consider the needs and feelings of others, then he may be considered a selfish person. For example, if a person is always trying to take advantage of others or does not care about the feelings and needs of others and only thinks about his own interests, then he may be considered a selfish person.

    Therefore, whether a person is selfish or not cannot be judged solely on the basis of whether he values money or not, but by a comprehensive consideration of his behavior and attitude.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Hello, dear. Generally, people who value money and things very lightly will take their feelings very lightly, and those who are looked down on will of course be miserable, which will cause endless troubles for each other.

    Unfortunately, human nature (self-nature or conscience) is blinded, and the emotions between people are very fragile, and they often cannot withstand the test of money and things, and they are greedy, hateful, and suspicious, so that many karma and bad karma come, making people's body and mind heavier and more degenerate.

    Will a man who values money too much value his feelings?

    Hello, dear. Generally, people who value money and things very lightly will take their feelings very lightly, and those who are looked down on will of course be miserable, which will cause endless troubles for each other. Unfortunately, human nature (self-nature or conscience) is blinded, and the emotions between people are very fragile, and they often cannot withstand the test of money and things, and they are greedy, hateful, and suspicious, so that many karma and bad karma come, making people's body and mind heavier and more degenerate.

    My boyfriend said: I hope that in the future, we will not affect each other's feelings because of economic things.

    But he values money very much, hello, dear. The implication of what he said was that money came first, and feelings came second.

    Such a boyfriend, I suggest you think about it, people who only have the economy in their eyes and have no feelings are very scary. If your economy has been very good, if the economy is bad one day, then you have to be careful.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This question is a matter of opinion, because everyone thinks differently, so there are many answers to such questions, and the author's statement will not necessarily be right, but I will tell you my own views on this topic.

    Generally speaking, a man is more selfish if he values money very seriously. Because they only think about themselves and never think about the people around them, they give people the feeling that they are relatively stingy, they will not want to give, they may only blindly take.

    Such a man generally does not end well if he marries him, he will limit the amount of money you spend in life, not advocating you to save, but not wanting to spend money on you. They don't love you either, because they love themselves above all. Know that if a man is selfish in money, then he will not be emotionally good.

    Most of the men who pick the door have no ambition, most of them are more content with pleasure, and it is easier to live now, if you marry such a man, you don't expect him to develop much in his career. Most selfish men are like this, they will only coax you with some sweet words, and never put them into action.

    A selfish man at heart. He is reluctant to invest in others, he is only willing to give up on himself. When you are profitable, he will behave generously.

    He will take the initiative to pursue you, at all costs. He doesn't like you, he just likes the interests behind you. Some men have a good face and will be very good to you in front of others, she will buy you what you want, but he will only do this in front of others and show others.

    A man who values money will be very selfish, because for money, he can deny his relatives, he can be desperate, and he will not take family responsibilities.

    The above is my personal immature view on this issue, and does not represent any reference suggestions.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that the man who likes money is selfish and mature, saying that he is selfish because he thinks that he may have any feelings, he doesn't care about anything, only mentions money, and says that he is mature because he thinks about the long term, after all, in this society, everything needs money, and no money can't.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's hard to say, depending on the person's situation, if he is in need of money very much, he will naturally regard money as important! And there is no right or wrong way to see money as important or unimportant, everyone has the right to choose how to spend the wealth they earn, and it is reasonable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it depends on the degree and the thing to say. In general, mature men know the importance of money, but they don't be misers.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If an individual attaches great importance to money, he is generally more selfish, more selfish, and more stingy. It's not going to be very generous, and it's going to be a bit like to take advantage of it.

    Money is an external object, and if a person takes money very seriously, you will be very cold to the relatives around you, so people who value money very seriously are not very good people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Ask men why they value money and are stingy in everything, or do they simply value money and are not usually stingy? Saving money for yourself or for your family? When you think about it, it's not as simple as you think.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In this society, it is impossible to live without money, and there is nothing wrong with loving money. The problem is that you can't go too far with everything, you can't do anything for money, and you can't even take risks in disregard of the law! If so, it would be very sad and dangerous!

    People who love money to the extent that they don't care about family affection, the law, and their face are not to be handed over!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's fair to say, because money is meant to be earned and spent, so what's the point of deducting it?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Focusing on the pursuit of one's own interests is not called selfishness.

    Ignoring others for one's own benefit is called selfishness.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is a difference between winning the lottery and spending money reluctantly

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Everyone loves money, but it doesn't necessarily mean that people who love money are selfish.

    The main thing is still in his eyes.

    Do you value money or people?

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