If you marry someone you particularly don t like, can this marriage last?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-10
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Everyone else has entered the cooling-off period of marriage from passionate love. And you can try to start with a cooling-off period. Wouldn't you be happier than everyone else?

    I don't know your situation specifically. To quote a quote from "Next Stop, Happiness". Maybe you can try not to be so pessimistic about your marriage.

    Be optimistic, and maybe you'll find a lot of subtle feelings fermenting.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Deserve.. The one who lives by the game will eventually be the game of life...

    When you get married, you have to live a good life, whether you like it or not, it's your own choice, and you have to be responsible for your choice...

    If it's really unacceptable. Then divorce ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Marriage is not child's play, why did you get married so casually?Only now do I find out that there is no emotional foundation for a marriage that is sad and useful?It's all up to you.

    What we have to do now is to try to accept and communicate more. It's not that escapism will solve the problem. If you choose to divorce now, then the meaning of marrying him in order not to make your family sad was ruthlessly rejected by you?

    Try it, he's very good to you, don't you really appreciate it at all?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't have children, it's better to get a divorce. That's fair to him. If you have a child, it's too late.

    Some people say that when you get married, you have to live a good life. I beg to differ. Don't grieve yourself, because tomorrow you may die.

    It depends on whether the person in this marriage is worthy of your grievances. But if you make the decision to leave, you will bear all the consequences in the future. Even if you regret it, you can only cry secretly.

    In a word: you can't wronged yourself.

    Don't take your family's opinion too seriously, because as long as you're happy, they're happy. If you are like this, no one will persuade you to divorce. Everyone is worried that the consequences of everything will be repeated. No one dares to let you take the risk. Therefore, it is human nature to persuade you not to leave.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Marrying someone you don't like may go from being unaccustomed and disliking at the beginning, to gradually falling in love over time, or it may be another ending that is not understood and resentful.

    Marrying someone you don't like may go from being unaccustomed and disliking at the beginning, to gradually falling in love over time, or it may be another ending that is not understood and resentful.

    You don't like his habits, and you spend lavishly, and he also resents your view of money. There is no sweetness in your daily life, only quarrels.

    If there is love, you can reconcile after the quarrel. Without love, there is endless cold war and tug-of-war.

    didn't want to tolerate the other party, faced him with a cold face, turned his head and poured bitter water on his friends. Maybe such people don't realize that a bad marriage has tormented them completely.

    So I didn't like anything, and lamented that my fate was not good.

    Maybe after the run-in period, you may become the happiest person, because of a loving marriage, many people have lost their love and become enemies, which is not necessarily.

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