What it s like to marry someone you don t like

Not happy.

can't give the other party a sense of security, and can't deceive their own hearts. Marry someone you don't love, there is no way to give all your feelings to your partner, if you like it, you have reservations, if you are grateful, you choose to sacrifice, all of it is just to cover up your inner unhappiness.

If you like a girl or have a crush on her, you need to make a rough judgment about the situation between you before you are ready to officially pursue her, to see if the girl is "right for you"?

You must know: the pursuit of an "inappropriate girl", the boy will not only spend a lot of effort, but in the end, it will also end with "a person is injured", and even lose confidence in love.

Even if, take 10,000 steps back and say, the girl really becomes your girlfriend, then, the couple's life will definitely be full of contradictions, and the relationship will collapse sooner or later. When a woman loves you, she will tell you everything she wants to say and everything she wants to say. She will talk and nag with you every day, and even if you don't want to listen to her nagging, she can't help but nag you.

Because she sees you as the closest person, if she has something to say to you, to whom to speak.

But when a woman changes her mind about you and no longer loves you, she is no longer willing to communicate with you, even if she has something in her heart, she would rather say it to others, even to strangers, and no longer to you. There is zero communication with you, it turns out that after you get off work, she is willing to sit next to you and chat with you, but now, she regards you as air and does not say a word.

Even if you want to say anything to her, she will ignore you, she will not pay attention to you at all, she is not interested in what you want to say. A woman's ruthlessness is to close the door to your heart, no matter how much you want to knock open, she will no longer open it for you. When a woman loves you, her heart is full of you, her mind is all around you, and she will take care of your life carefully.

Whenever you get home from work, she will bring you a hot meal and chat with you while eating, the atmosphere is warm and happy. She will always care about the details of life, what you will need, she will prepare for you in advance, she pays attention to your every move at all times, and cares about all the women who care about you. She knows that you love her, and she knows that you can't let go of her, but not only does she not respond to your love, but she loves others unscrupulously, and she doesn't care about your feelings at all.

She doesn't care if you're sad, heartbroken, or how it hurts you. Even if you beg her to change her mind, she will not take you seriously in the slightest, and make it clear that she loves others wholeheartedly and cannot fall in love with you again.

Let's think about why I chose to marry this person.

In fact, there are not so many likes and dislikes in life, and habits will become natural.

Hello! If you marry someone you don't like, you don't feel anything but pain. With someone you don't like, selling the pie is consuming the rest of your life in pain and hardship.

It's hard to put it into words, first get married and then fall in love, I think I can talk about my understanding and opinions on this issue from the following levels, and warmly welcome a large number of friends to discuss and communicate on this problem.

First, the matchmaker's words are difficult, she gets married first and then falls in love, and she never feels a feeling.

In rural areas, especially in the old days, married life was mostly the words of the matchmaker and the order of the parents. Falling in love at will, and the freedom to marry are out of reach for most people. Obeying the assignment of your own married life by your parents and matchmakers, and the person you want to marry may only have one side, which is not a literal love or hate.

Whether you like it or hate it, you don't have all the right to decide, especially after women get married, they follow the three obedience and four virtues. The feelings of the two people are gradually shaped after marriage, perhaps this is the married life of the old Chinese-style family.

Second, they are unwilling to bow their heads to fortune, but they are helpless, and can only gradually shape their common interests and preferences.

Some people may not like the person they have spent their entire lives with, and getting married is a painful thing for him. There are also those who refuse to marry and force them to defend their feelings with death.

Especially in the countryside, in the midst of misery, they marry people they don't love the most. Some people follow the distribution of fortune to themselves, and after marriage, two people in the same daily life and hard work, gradually two people get acquainted with each other, fall in love, shape common interests and preferences together, and gamble on tomorrow with married life.

Third, love is born over time, and the spark of love is struck in the midst of hardship and suffering, and the love is deep.

Those who are touching are not emotional. They may not feel much when they are married, but they firmly believe that love will grow over time.

After marriage, two people live together, as long as they are good to each other, and after a long time, the stones can also be covered with heat, and the brazilwood can also bloom. What's more, why do the 2 hard-nosed big beauty corpses have no feelings for each other.

It is a particularly uncomfortable feeling, because the other party is not what you like, that feeling will be particularly difficult, and it will also be particularly resistant to all kinds of contact with the other party, and finally the communication between the two becomes less and less, and they can only choose to divorce.

This feeling is generally very uncomfortable, and it feels that life is also very unnatural, life is not interesting, and it feels very depressed and unhappy in life.

It's a very bad experience, it's very upsetting when I see him every day, and he is very dissatisfied with whatever he does.