Please give me some advice on what to do with my feelings

Love and bread are already difficult to choose, it's really hard for you, sad, right?

You don't have to think more about falling in love, but love eventually turns into reality, and now we all have to be more realistic, it's created by this society. This society makes it impossible for us not to be so realistic, so we are not wrong.

However, considering the actual conditions, love is still the most important, if there are only economic conditions and no foundation for love, how can there be happiness? If you love him, don't hurt him, and believe that through your own efforts, you can create a future that belongs to both of you.

Because it's really hard to meet someone you feel about. The more realistic it is, the harder it is, and it needs to be cherished so as not to regret it later. You know?

Listen to the voice of your heart, although society is realistic, but if this man's character can still be trusted, he also has requirements for himself. I think you can consider not restraining your feelings. If you blindly restrain your feelings because of conditions, you will regret it.

The person we women want to marry should be the kind of person who has requirements for herself, is responsible for the person she loves, and is self-motivated in her career. Why don't you want to think that you can fancy a thousand-mile horse, maybe he will succeed in the future?

The longer it drags on, the more painful it becomes, and the more reluctant it is to separate, if you really see your parents, you swear to confirm the relationship, can you really be together in the future? After graduating from university, are you guaranteed to work in the same city? And also.

Do you know what kind of person he is? Everyone is perfect when they are just in love. After being together for a long time, I slowly discovered some shortcomings.

It is really troublesome for the man to have no money, not to mention working hard after graduation, can he provide you with a house in the city? His family is relatively poor, assuming that you are really married, can he accept your family's eyes on him? Marriage is not about falling in love, material reality is very real.

This kind of thing is really troublesome and understandable, people just can't look at their current self with the eyes of the future, it's difficult to do this, I think you should keep your distance from him first. If it were me, I would choose to slowly fade away from this newly-ignited feeling.

It's so realistic when it's only 2 years old, it's a pity.

It's a pity if you don't really love someone with your heart in your life, instead of following the person you like and not living a good life. What is a good life, girl, you find someone with economic strength and background, maybe you can struggle for 10 years less, but how many 10 years of youth do girls have? Do you really give your youth to those worlds?

The money? Those fame and fortune? Those comfortable lives?

Yes, there is nothing wrong with people pursuing a comfortable life, but I personally think that it is even more wrong to live with the people you love. Struggling with the people you love is what life leaves us worth remembering and commemorating.

Little sister, no money, but with ambition. If he's not a college student, he doesn't have the same ambition to go to graduate school as you do. You should listen to your mom. I've seen too many lessons from old people. The hormones of adolescence can cause people to make a lot of bad choices.

If you like it, you will strive for it, and if you get it, you must cherish it

Do you know if he will have a future in the future?

Don't always look at the conditions at home, after all, that's something left over from the previous generation, and it doesn't prove him.

Love him, stay together, work together for the future

You can tell from what you say that you are a realist.

Most marriages nowadays are realistic.

But I'm individualistic and romantic.

One thing: true love is hard to find.

The choice is still up to you.

Give it up. The road is still long.

There is still a long way to go.

If you like him, why care about the background?

Does love have to be maintained by background and money?

Only talk about love, not marriage.

Who can say what will happen in the future?

You have to listen to whatever you say at home, a good girl worthy of the name