People are sophisticated, and the pressure is rising

The family will indeed give you a lot of pressure to talk like this, thank your uncle for learning well, and if you don't learn well, you're sorry for your uncle, it's really uncomfortable, and if you live well in the future, it's your uncle's credit, and if you live badly, it's a waste of your uncle's kindness, even if you repay the money in the future, you can't repay this personal debt, but no matter what, life still has to go on, in fact, you can think about it like this, there are many people who are less fortunate than you, It is impossible for people to live in this world without any pressure, everyone will bear a certain amount of pressure, you can face this pressure correctly, you can study hard, study hard, find a good job in the future, work hard to earn money, return your uncle his money, and even pay back a little more, after all, when you find a job, prices will definitely rise, even if you can't repay the favor, you have to make yourself feel comfortable, otherwise you will be pressed by this matter all day long, you can also work and study during college, so as to reduce the number of times you go home, You can also earn money to show your family. Read more books that can regulate your mood, do something to relax yourself, such things should be less thought about before you have the ability to solve them, in fact, you think they point fingers at you, maybe not, the family is like this, there is a thing that always likes to mention again and again, make yourself good and lose face, in fact, they don't have any malice or ideas, it's their nature.

That's the trouble for yourself, why bother, you can say that you borrowed money from your uncle, and you will pay it back to him in the future, and you really don't need to put pressure on yourself, and you care too much about what others say, and you will invisibly put a lot of pressure on yourself, and learn to enlighten yourself.

It's you who think too much about yourself, don't care what others say, study your books well, get good grades, get a good job, slowly prove it to them, be happier!

There are still good people, but they are rare to come by. But I firmly believe that good people will be rewarded.

Always the heart of spring to the wind, the most hated world to accumulate fame, who saw gold and silver into a mountain for generations? Through the ages, only one piece of love is valuable, the moon is empty, the starlight accompanies me, the past is like smoke waving my hand, infatuation is proud of gold, flashy like earth, and smiling and dancing in the sky.

Eighteen was originally still a child, how mature do you want This society is very complicated, and interacting with people in society is also a science, and I am only 18 years old and still a student When I was a student, I was relatively simple. This society is euphemistic and hypocritical, because it is the social atmosphere that makes people like this. Look away, child, put your mind in a good state of mind Eighteen years old study well Reading good books will not hurt you in the future When you are old enough to work, you won't have so much time to read, so come on

You have to make good friends so that you can grow up healthily. The first is the best.

Adjust your mentality, first try to be good to the people around you, such as relatives, good friends...

The road is walked out by people, think about whether there is still room for your personal rise in the development of technology, and then think about the space that you can do at every step of the sales, whether you continue to make progress, whether you have the courage to bear it, and decide to make your own decision. People refuse to change because the pressure they encounter is not enough. If you are young and less than 28, it is recommended to dare to make up your mind to change your face.

If you are not sociable or technical, sales will be very stressful.

Everyone will look at things in each period with different eyes, and I sincerely hope that you can think more about it yourself. We may not be able to put ourselves in your shoes, and we certainly can't consider all your feelings and what you want, but I hope you think about it Is your problem just this girl? Or are you being bullied in the same way by different characters in other places?

The problem is not others, because neither of you nor I can predict what kind of people we will meet, but all we can do is to change ourselves, either change our vision and be a happy fool who thinks we are good, or we will try to do it against ourselves and force ourselves to change into someone we don't like. There are many roads, there are different opinions, it is easier said than done, maybe you will not agree with my idea, but it is absolutely no harm for you to look at the way others do things and speak! I hope you will be stronger in the future, and I wish you a happy Mid-Autumn Festival!!

Are you looking for a job or dealing with that girl?

If you are looking for a job, please consider yourself first, and if you do not understand the value of the company, it is recommended that you go for further study.

If you want to deal with that girl, I suggest you be more friends with her and become a member of her group so that you have more exposure, and people will pay attention to you, so as to enhance your personal charm.

It is necessary to go through when you start to enter the society, so don't be relieved after experiencing this setback. A lot of little ones like you are the same, but they just step out of the company and look like a different person. Work hard. Come on!

Because you didn't go into details, I don't know what the situation is.

But it sounds like someone is putting pressure on you to accept the unspoken rules, and ...... in the name of your goodIf it weren't for your relatives, most of them would have ulterior motives and threatened that you wouldn't be able to survive in society.

Very disgusted with this phenomenon, many people who are very strong in society have their "unwilling" to understand the sophistication of human feelings, to be principled, without thinking and without resistance to go to "human sophistication", if everyone is like this, the society is very terrible.

It's normal, because you don't understand what you should know.

They also want you to know a little more, don't even know common sense, and you can only regret it when you suffer a loss.

People can't live as freely as we think, but so what, if you have too many worries, you can't move forward, and it's best to be chic

1. Learning is a process, through this process, we will increase knowledge, but at the same time, we also increase experience, primary school from the age of 6 to 24 out of college, we have studied for 18 years, we do not say the growth of knowledge, the experience of life is also growing?

2. Don't envy others [old and sophisticated], that is a kind of accumulation of experience, and the curve of your life will definitely make you familiar with the world at a certain moment.

1. Observe more.

2. Be diligent in thinking.

3. Don't speak first, you have to get to the point, if you say it's [nonsense], it's better not to say 4, don't always want to show yourself, it will be counterproductive, you should be calm, don't show yourself first5, increase your knowledge accumulation.

Be more active in doing things for others There is nothing introverted and extroverted It mainly depends on whether you are thick enough Learn more, watch more, listen more You will slowly feel that interacting with people is a very casual thing! I wish you a speedy adaptation to your working environment and smooth work!

Introverts are often confused and generally not confident enough. It may be useful to read a book about introversion, learn about yourself, and find the root cause of what makes you introverted. Recommend "Introvert Advantage".

There's nothing wrong with being introverted, it's that this social environment is surrounded by extroverts. Because there is. So there is value in existence, and the problem is not inward-looking.

I am also an introvert, and even to the point of low self-esteem and autism. Because work requires communication with people I don't know, now I have a lot of friends, men and women, the secret of success to share with you, is to smile, although I feel like I am hypocritical, but I have a lot of business partners, although I still think that only one or two real friends are enough.

It's useless to read those books, you just have to throw yourself in the middle of the crowd, usually eat together, talk together, if you're afraid, usually help your colleagues buy breakfast or something, it's not flattering, it's easy to achieve a piece.

There is a way"The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear", you might as well pay more attention to observation, analysis, and learn from others when getting along with others! Take your time! All in all, don't be a lone ranger, get out of the room and into the crowd!!

I used to be like this, similar to you, not good at words, especially strangers are rejected.

If you have time, you can go to relatively familiar places on your own to travel and go shopping in crowded places, such as street markets.

You can also go shopping with cheerful friends and attend various parties, in which you can observe the words and actions of your friends, and you will change yourself unconsciously over time, try not to stay at home when you have time, and contact more people outside.

The secretary of the leader, in the end, always needs to say what the leader wants to say but is not easy to say, and adhere to the principles that the leader should adhere to. A good secretary should be able to sing duets with the leader. As for the world, what is the world will learn slowly.

You can also learn a lot by chatting with different people and listening to their stories.

I'm the same as you, I feel confident, learn to brag, don't think of yourself as too different, people are too good, maybe you are far superior to each other in some aspects, you have to communicate with each other on an equal footing, and I think I don't deserve you.