Let s come in and see how to overcome pettiness

Maybe you're too yourself, so you can't tolerate the advantages of those around you that you don't have.

No one is perfect, I think that being a man must have his own true colors, interact with people with a normal heart, and believe that you will free yourself, hehe.

Teach you four points. 1.If you want to get an enemy, behave better than your friend; If you're going to get friends, make your friends act superior to you.

2.It is also much better to eat vegetables with love than with resentment.

3. Don't be angry with your enemies and burn yourself with heat.

4. As long as a person is genuinely interested in others, within two months, he will get more friends than a person who wants others to be interested in him, and he will make more friends in two years.

Read more good books, listen to good **, and watch movies with depth.

Girls, no matter how good-looking, without connotation, they are also an empty shelf, **, books, movies can purify people's hearts.

As you get older, you get it. Tolerance is a strength.

You'll get to the bottom of it.

The little girl is jealous for love!! In fact, how to understand what love is at a young age!! Love is not as simple as you say it is!!

I'm also an outstanding woman!! But because of its outstanding appearance, it also attracts the eyeliner of many successful men!! So it brings all kinds of troubles!!

Adjust your mindset !!

A successful person has three basic points: mind, vision and strength.

It's not stingy when I think about it, I'm like that anyway.

Some things are just like that, and they can't be changed, or if you read the book, it shouldn't be of much help.

The so-called impulse is the devil, and it is not unreasonable! Be generous and tolerant. Be tolerant when you should be tolerant, and don't get emotional with people close to you. In fact, it is very simple to say, but it is difficult to be a guest! As you deepen your experience, you will experience it.

Others can only enlighten you from the surface, the important thing is to read yourself, read more books on how to behave!

Normal, everyone's personality is different...

The quality of a person's temper is related to a person's character, and a person's character is related to a person's virtue, and virtue cannot be pretended, and virtue must be cultivated bit by bit.

Grumpy people are generally more impulsive people, in the face of many things often only rely on their own perceptual understanding to deal with problems, this is very bad, if when dealing with problems do not be so impulsive and rational look at the problem then the temper will be much better.

Grumpy people will often talk and act aggressively, which not only gives a bad impression to others, but also encourages your short temper while others tolerate you.

Grumpy people usually lack self-control, and self-control is actually very easy to exercise, when you are doing something that you find very interesting, if you stop doing it and there is nothing to lose except to make you feel unpleasant, force yourself to stop immediately.

How can I get rid of my bad temper?

First and foremost, it is important to have a good understanding of the dangers of a bad temper. In our social life, we always have to contact and interact with other people, hoping to get the favor, friendship, appreciation, and cooperation of others (of course, not everyone), otherwise, we will feel lonely, lonely, lifeless, and unable to move an inch. People's behavior is regulated and controlled by consciousness, and when we understand the harm of bad temper, we can generate a demand from our hearts to change our bad temper.

Second, it is necessary to strengthen ideological cultivation. Only when we always think of others in our hearts and respect the interests and needs of others will we be warm, considerate and loving to others. Only by always putting the interests of the collective in the first place can we not be rash and stubborn, and can we be calm and think twice when encountering problems.

Finally, you must have determination and perseverance to change your bad temper, and if you can't remember it today, just be cautious, and after two days, you will still be the same. With determination and perseverance, you will definitely get rid of your bad temper.

Character can be cultivated. First of all, there is an urgent need to improve your character, and then you must set a role model, or the goal of perfect character in your mind, and then establish a strong will, through continuous self-reflection and imitation, your character will definitely improve.

It's because your heart is not relaxed, and you can't tolerate a small grain of sand, so you have to see how they do it among your friends around you, and you can learn from others' strengths. Build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses.

Stingy has a cautious eye and a stinginess towards money.

Be careful: What does a person live without a big belly, of course you won't have any friends without a big belly, big belly, people can't be perfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, you can only look at its advantages and tolerate his shortcomings, so that you can be loved and understood~

If you are stingy with money, it means that you are not far-sighted enough, money is inevitably involved between good friends, you should not be reluctant, think about it, friendship is important, or money is important, if you are reluctant to invest in brothers and friends, others will look up to you, will they help you, money is something outside the body, people live by people, you are not willing to invest in friends, no one will help you! (If your good friend is stingy, you need to make up for it, since you are a good friend, you have to tolerate it, maybe he is very sensitive to money, but since he is a good friend, he will still help you with something, you spend some money for him, it's worth it)!!

It's not easy to type so many words, if you feel it's okay, give me some points! ~

It's because you care too much, life is so short, you have to care about the things that are really worth caring about, such as family, friendship and love, money can buy a lot of things, but you can never buy sincerity, be kind to the people around you, they are your most valuable wealth...

The first is that you have to learn to empathize, and the second is that if you give to others, they will be good to you.

I want to say that suspicious people are generally very smart, such as Cao Cao, the hero of the Three Kingdoms period, who is suspicious by nature, because he is good at doubting and will be good at analyzing, but just think about it, don't take action, think more about the good aspects to comfort yourself, forbearance and humiliation can be said to be the most difficult lesson in life, and you will benefit from learning well for a lifetime. I also want to remind you that always being angry is not good for your health, although I also have a bad temper, but I still have to try to restrain myself. Good luck.

My motto is "A man's heart is narrow if he has many desires, and wide if he has few desires." "Don't have too much desire, then your mind will naturally relax!

1.Emphasis on value norms.

In your interactions, you should always express your values and ethics to show your disapproval of petty behavior. This can restrain the other person's behavior to a certain extent, so that they understand that you will not meet their unreasonable demands.

2.Limit the frequency of exposure.

For those who are accustomed to being greedy and cheap, you can appropriately limit the frequency and time of contact with them to reduce the opportunities for them to take advantage of them. Be selective in reaching out to them when you need or are interested. It is possible to distance the person appropriately and avoid too much contact with them to reduce their impact on your life.

3.Render good for evil.

You don't have to reciprocate their petty behavior. You can give a certain amount of care and help at the right time to show your generosity, and at the same time make the other party realize what is the normal way of communication. This could have a more positive impact.

4.Seek support.

When dealing with people who are greedy for small bargains, it is important to seek the support of friends, family, or colleagues. Share your feelings with them and ask for their advice and help. We must learn to say "no" firmly to unreasonable or overstepping demands.

Don't compromise easily because of relationships or other factors, otherwise it will only make the other person more advantageous.

5.Find out what motivates them.

Try to understand whether the reason why these people are greedy for small things is because of financial difficulties, habit problems, or other reasons. Understanding motivations can help you better cope with their behavior.

6.Change your mindset.

The most important thing to deal with is to adjust your mentality. Don't be annoyed or upset by their petty behavior, but keep your heart at peace and tolerance. Understand that what the other person thinks is not something to show off or learn from, so that their petty behavior doesn't have much of an impact on your heart.

The important thing is to focus on your own life and not be easily influenced by the outside world.

Summary. Hello, received your question, is getting stingy refers to boyfriend? So there are several cases:

1. His concept of money has always been more frugal.

2. Recently, there is a place where money is needed, so it is more economical.

3. Have a plan for the future, save money to buy a house, etc.

4. He doesn't have a high income, and he doesn't have that much money.

5. Money is enough, but I am reluctant to say anything to you, if this is the case, leave it early, the man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, and the man who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you. I don't know what kind of situation it is? You can tell the teacher more information, the more information the teacher has, the more accurate the answer will be to you

I'm getting stingy, what should I do?

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Hello, received your question, is getting stingy refers to boyfriend? So there are several situations: 1. His concept of money has always been more economical 2. Recently, there is a place where money is needed, so it is more economical 3. He has a plan for the future, saving money to buy a house, etc. 4. His income is not high, and he doesn't have so much money 5. Money is enough, but he is reluctant to say anything to you, if this is the case, leave it early, the man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, and the man who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you.

I don't know what kind of situation it is? You can tell the teacher more information, the more information the teacher has, the more accurate the answer will be to you

I'm stingy myself.

In the last three months, I have become stingy, insecure, and afraid of getting along with others.

Oh so, who are you stingy, there is no need to be generous to everyone, is there anything wrong with being stingy? I think it's normal.

Your insecurity and fear of being around others may bother you a little more.