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Yes, a typical rebellious period.
The psychology of the rebellious period is somewhat complex and somewhat contradictory.
But most of them want people who have been doing education work for themselves to understand that they can, and I hope that they agree with their own views, but there are often few opportunities, so they often inadvertently make some strong words and lead to flowers.
Even more serious situations will have some psychological distortions, for example, deliberately making relatives and friends sad, it can be said that they like to base their happiness on the pain of others, but afterwards they are all psychologically contradictory, which is more sad than that.
Young, although it can be said to be a shield, but I don't understand that the shield is wooden and the arrow is iron.
I hope you learn to control your emotions, don't rely too much on external forces, and overcome it on your own, this is a rare opportunity in life to hone your mind.
Have fun.
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There's a reason for this, is there an impulse? What about acute sub-s?
You can't attribute all the reasons to rebellion, and the psychiatrist will just help you analyze the cause.
Sometimes it is normal to disagree with your parents, and it is easy to resist impulsively, but the important thing is to grasp your temper, be patient, and form a habit
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Growing up will encounter this kind of problem, you should fight to get rid of the shackles of your parents or vent your depression to your mother, because it is safer to vent to her, understand yourself, understand your parents will be better, and you should develop some positive venting methods, which will be useful in the future. I **** have an article called Is the crony on your body still there? , you can take a look.
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Well, a little, three seconds slow in trouble, think twice.
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Try to speak as slowly as possible.
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Yes, now as a parent, I can only talk about myself.
1. Don't trust children. Many parents have this cognitive misunderstanding, and they think that if we ignore our children, we will destroy them. Children are likely to kill people and set fires, and be lawless.
Parents manage their children every day and worry about their children, and this mode of getting along continues, and the result is that children outsource this part of their own management functions to their parents. The child's self-management ability is weakened, and even the gap has not been cultivated. Therefore, many children have no motivation to learn and are not proactive, which is the result of excessive substitution by their parents.
2. Treat the child as a machine without emotions and feelings. Many parents especially like obedient children, hoping that their children will obey their words, don't talk back, don't refute, parents issue instructions, and the child will be obedient and do what he says. Treat children like machines.
She is to obey my commands. Otherwise, you will be beaten. We are emotionally isolated from our children at this time, and many of our children's problems are caused by their parents' improper parenting methods.
3. Parents regard themselves as gods and rarely show their true selves in front of their children. Many parents have high moral standards for themselves, want to behave perfectly in front of their children, completely ignore their own needs and feelings, and are willing to sacrifice themselves for their children. Ask yourself not to have emotions, not to lose your temper, and want to be a perfect parent.
But the result is not only a lot of pressure on the child's heart, but also exhaustion himself.
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Summary. If there is something in your heart, don't hide it, and communicate more with your parents, teachers, and classmates when you encounter problems, which can relieve your inner pressure.
How to solve the psychology of yourself during the rebellious period.
Good. Is it okay?
If there is something in your heart, don't hide it, and communicate more with your parents, teachers, and classmates when you encounter problems, which can relieve your inner pressure.
You should always maintain an optimistic attitude, an optimistic attitude can greatly benefit your body and mind, no matter what problems you encounter, you must not be discouraged, you must treat it with an optimistic attitude, to solve it.
You can communicate with your parents, pour out your inner thoughts, or do what you are interested in, divert the attention of adolescent rebellious psychology, have a correct understanding of yourself, correctly learn the knowledge of adolescent rebellious psychology, and have a positive attitude like you to face up to your own problems, and believe that rebellious psychology can be overcome soon.
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