Is there a psychiatrist who can help me with my psychological problems?

That's not much of a problem.

Be careful to associate with the opposite sex.

Maybe it's because my father is very good to me, or maybe it's because I'm not very psychological, too mature, and too dependent on my father's image.

It is also possible that the person may have been living in a very feminine place and has been infected, or it may be that the people around him are too strong and suppress the person into a feminine character.

In their 20s, they have to be friends of the opposite sex, and they must gradually realize the dignity and advantages of men, and realize their male value.

First of all, you are sensitive to the age difference between men and women.

Secondly, you are curious about old men, what is the reason for guarding such a beautiful woman? Take a closer look, what are the advantages of this man? Where can I learn from?

These are all subconscious things, but they reflect your psychological state, indicating that you are eager to mature, eager to be like a mature man, with a steady pace, with the wisdom to see through everything, in stark contrast to your own new entry into society, struggle! You'll be ripe!

No, it may be a subconscious tendency, that is, I really want to be like this at this age. Maybe it's because you're mentally mature. It's normal, don't worry.

This is the same mentality that many girls like to pay attention to dressed up very fashionable women. Take it easy.

Hello subject! I'll hug you through the screen first! From your description, I can feel that you are full of worry about your current state, and at the same time, you have made an effort to see a psychiatrist, but you do not feel the fundamental change in the problem.

First of all, I would like to ask you the following questions, which may give you some directions to sort out your confusion: 1. You mentioned that you went to see a psychologist, what were you thinking about going to see a psychiatrist? Do you want to solve the problem of social barriers?

What kind of changes do you expect to see a psychiatrist? 2. You mentioned that you have been holding back, when did this state begin? How did you deal with it before you started?

3. What are your considerations, and what are you reluctant to tell others, but hold back in your own heart? What is the reason for this change? 4. I don't tell anyone about this, what are the specific things?

Is it positive or negative? What's behind what you don't want to say? Because you give less information, you can find a quiet environment in your free time, take out a paper and pen and write it down, although it is not to talk to others, but it is also important to talk to yourself.

Secondly, I guess that you gradually close the door of your heart and don't want to talk about yourself to others, on the one hand, when you communicate with others, you don't feel that others understand you, and may even include negative feedback such as negative; On the other hand, you may not meet your expectations due to repeated communication, and you may have the idea that it is useless to talk to others, and when you want to speak, no one wants to listen to it or you can't find the right person to say it, and then you lose the willingness to speak. In addition, social barriers seem to have an impact on your life, and I think that on the one hand, we can find a counselor to help us partially, but on the other hand, more importantly, we need to implement a specific action plan to be effective. At the same time, we need to learn to shift our attention, we don't focus our attention on the problem that we have a social disability, but focus on other aspects, such as what we are good at, and also relieve your state.

Finally, I would like to say, 1, when you find your purpose of seeing a psychiatrist, with your persistence, you will see the changes you want; 2. If you can't find a suitable person to communicate, then learn to talk to yourself, as long as you can say what is in your heart, it is much better than holding back. Best wishes!?