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Although it is not good to be arrogant, but you can't be arrogant, you must really understand yourself, face yourself, treat yourself well, poor memory is a common disease, everyone has forgotten things, forget that may be stubborn and more serious and calculating, or speak straight and hurt a little, so what's wrong?! That's because of our honest and frank character, what we say and do, as long as we are worthy of our conscience, don't regret it! Although sometimes offended, sometimes misunderstood, and sometimes even hurtful ...
These are nothing remarkable, friends, classmates, colleagues, and relatives who really know you can't hold grudges, maybe they were a little uncomfortable at the time, time is the best way to eliminate the estrangement, they forgot about it later, why should you get along with yourself?! Besides, how stupid is it? Be good at discovering your own strengths, no matter how smart a person is, there must be some aspects that are inferior to you, and it will be relieved to compare his disadvantages with your own advantages!
Otherwise, you may be asking for trouble, so don't look down on yourself, hate yourself, and remember that you don't live for others! But if you don't like yourself, do you expect others to do to you? Without self-esteem, how can you have self-confidence?!
I hope you can extricate yourself from regret and get out of inferiority, there is no flame mountain in life that you can't pass, and what is gone will become a beautiful memory... From today on, we must look up to ourselves, cherish ourselves, and laugh at life! All right?
I wish you happiness and happiness!
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Then you have to change yourself slowly and try to like yourself.
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The brain is exercised! I used to have a good memory, but I don't anymore
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Poor memory and slow response? Stick to 4 movements every day, and the reaction will gradually improve.
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You can ask such questions and be aware of your shortcomings. This means that you have no problem with your brain.
Progress takes a process, it's just that you don't have the concentration and determination to do everything again. Brains are needed, just like iron rusts when left in a warehouse for a long time. Don't think you're born bad, that's a misconception.
Everyone is born a child prodigy, learning to walk in one year, speaking in two years, and communicating with others in three years. You know, these are things that adults can learn in 30 years.
You have a terrible response, you are stupid, and you have a bad memory. So let me tell you, the reason is that you have been very lazy to use your brain since you were 5 or 6 years old, and every time you need a lot of brain power, you find various reasons to escape or choose to give up.
All of this is caused by your acquired factors, don't complain about congenital deficiencies. If you're not mistaken, you should have said to your parents, "You made me so stupid or something."
Friend, you're only 19 years old. It's too late to do anything. Whether it's living or studying. But the key is to have perseverance and confidence in yourself.
Believe that you are no worse than anyone else, and then exercise your brain more, such as memorizing more Tang poems and Song lyrics. Or force yourself to memorize more of what you need most right now.
You say that your IQ is equivalent to that of a child who is five or six years old, which means that you are slowly becoming lazy after the age of five or six, especially the amount of brain use is much less than that of other peers, so there is no way, you can only work a hundred times harder than others to make up for it. When one day you suddenly find that you are talking to each other with friends or arguing with colleagues because of some things. Then congratulations, you've made it.
Bad memory? No, it's your brain that's rusty. Seize the time to face up to your own shortcomings. Good luck!
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Impress her with your sincerity.
I tell you, you should learn a trade and try to do well in that trade, it will be much easier than you to change yourself, and then your confidence will increase a lot, and there will be a lot of girls who like you.
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Hehe, you don't care about the score, I hope it can help you. What you like and what you do is everyone's own right, love does not distinguish between rich and poor, what two want together is affection, not money, money is indeed important but not omnipotent, ordinary is beautiful, nothing is more important than freedom. Everyone comes to this world with nothing, but they take too much with them, cherish it.