Why do more and more elderly people choose nursing homes for the elderly?

First, entering a nursing home can reduce the burden on children; Second, there are many elderly people in the nursing home, and I can be with them without being lonely; Thirdly, the nursing home has a good service, and many jobs may not be able to be done even for children.

Because it is difficult to achieve elderly care at home, it is a helpless move. Nowadays, many people are one-child families, that is to say, 2 people need to bear the pension of 4 elderly people, and they also need to feed the next generation, each family needs to face different pension problems, economic pressure, and parents in different places, working hours and caring for the elderly, conflicts to face, really have to face a lot of difficulties.

changes in ideology; The children at home are too busy to take care of themselves.

When it comes to the topic of old-age care, many people say that raising a child is not for him to take care of the elderly, and when he is old, he will go to a nursing home. So are all the older people now going to live in the old people's homes? But the fact is that few people around them are willing to send their elderly parents to nursing homes, and under normal circumstances, the elderly live alone and their children visit occasionally, or the elderly live with their children is the most common state.

In real life, I, like most people, are reluctant to send my parents to a nursing home, probably for two reasons:

Worried that the elderly will not have a good time staying in the nursing home.

Although everyone is preaching that the conditions of nursing homes will get better and better, after all, it is a place for the elderly to gather, and many people are still reluctant to send their parents to nursing homes because they are worried that the elderly will not be happy in the nursing home. This unhappiness can be physical or psychological: fear that the conditions in the nursing home are not good, and the elderly are being abused by caregivers; Or after all, the nursing homes are all elderly, and there are too many people leaving, which is easy to cause a certain mental burden on the elderly.

At the same time, if you don't meet someone who can speak, the old man will be lonely and lonely in his heart.

When my cousin was studying medicine, he was arranged in a relatively large hospital, which had an old cadre ward, and the conditions inside were very good, with TV, air conditioning and independent toilets, as well as good medical conditions, and more professional nurses to take care of them. But because most of the children are abroad, the elderly are also very lonely.

Therefore, some people are reluctant to send their parents to nursing homes, because they can't bear to let their parents live happily in nursing homes.

Fear of being blamed by others and being said to be unfilial.

Children are reluctant to send the elderly to nursing homes, one of the reasons is the influence of traditional concepts, dry sail feels that sending parents to nursing homes is unfilial piety, will be poked in the backbone by others. Under the influence of traditional concepts, the concept of raising children to prevent old age is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and it also makes children feel that their parents have raised themselves, and when their parents are old, they should take good care of their parents, otherwise they are unfilial and they will not be able to pass the inner hurdle.

A neighbor in his hometown, the old couple has three sons and a daughter, but they are all working in other places, and the old people are not willing to live in big cities, and now the old people are old, several children always feel that it is unbearable to send the old people to the nursing home, and they will be ridiculed by relatives, so they simply raise funds to find a reliable nanny to help take care of the old couple, and assign a son who is closer to take care of the old man every once in a while.

In real life, many people are still reluctant to send their parents to nursing homes, and considering many aspects, it is better to let the elderly stay in an environment that they are more familiar with.

1. Relying on nursing homes is a very realistic pension option.

In real life, relying on nursing homes for the elderly is a very realistic pension option. ......On the one hand, there are many elderly people who have chosen to go to nursing homes for the elderly, and on the other hand, there are many elderly people who are ready to choose nursing homes because other ways of caring for the elderly are not suitable for them. ......Therefore, relying on nursing homes has become a realistic pension option for many elderly people.

2. The pension conditions in nursing homes are not as comfortable as those for children to support and care for the elderly.

Judging from the actual situation, the old-age conditions of nursing homes are still lacking compared with the support of children and daughters. ......For example, the accommodation conditions of the nursing home are not as good as at home, for example, the food conditions of the nursing home are not as delicious as at home, etc., and more importantly, the loneliness and loneliness of the nursing home cannot be resolved, which makes the nursing home is not the best choice.

3. Relying solely on children to provide for the elderly is not a perfect pension choice.

Although most people still want to be supported by their children, this type of pension is not perfect. ......The reason for this is that, on the one hand, young people nowadays are very busy with work and have no time to take care of the elderly, and on the other hand, many families now have only one child, and the pressure on him to support their parents is too great. ......Therefore, for the old and young people, what kind of way to choose to provide for the elderly, it is also necessary to make targeted choices based on their own actual conditions.

Let's start with some specifics.

1. Overview of nursing homes.

Nursing homes are institutions that provide life care and medical care for the elderly, and due to the increasing aging of the population in our country, nursing homes have also become an option to relieve the pressure of the elderly. However, the domestic pension industry is far from keeping up with the growth rate of the elderly population, and the proportion of nursing homes that have really reached a reliable level is not high.

Second, the problem of the aging of the domestic population.

The problem of population aging in China is becoming more and more serious. According to the data released by the National Bureau of Statistics, in 2020, China's population aged 60 and above has reached 100 million, accounting for more than 34% of the total population, and is expected to increase to 100 million by 2035. This number is staggering, which means that the issue of elderly care for the elderly in the future must be taken seriously.

Third, the development of the domestic pension industry.

The number of nursing homes is limitedAlthough the number of nursing homes in China is increasing year by year with the increasing degree of aging, it is still unable to meet the needs of the elderly. At present, there are more than 37,000 nursing institutions in the country, with nearly 6 million beds, but the problem faced by nursing homes is not only the lack of quantity, but more importantly, the quality of nursing homes. The quality of nursing homes is not up to standardThe quality of domestic nursing homes is uneven, and there is no unified industry standard and regulatory mechanism, resulting in some nursing homes having problems such as illegal fees and inadequate services.

These problems cause great distress to the elderly and families. Due to the insufficient number of nursing homes and the uneven quality of services, some nursing homes charge too high fees and even charge indiscriminately. This has put a lot of financial strain on many elderly people and families.

Fourth, the feasibility of not having children and relying on nursing homes to support the elderly.

However, nursing homes are expensive and require high fees, so they need to be financially affordable. Nursing Home Environment and Service Quality The environment and service quality of nursing homes play a vital role in the physical and mental health of the elderly. If you can choose a first-class, thoughtful nursing home chain, the life and health of the elderly will be better guaranteed.

Psychological factors. Not having children can have a certain impact on the psychology of the elderly. Many older people want to have loved ones to accompany them in their old age, and without that companionship, they may feel lonely and lost.

V. Conclusions. In general, there are certain risks and challenges in relying on nursing homes in China, first of all, you need to consider the family's financial affordability, contact multiple nursing homes to understand the actual situation, and choose a nursing home with good service and good service. At the same time, it may be more important for the elderly to choose a friend who will spend their old age with like-minded friends.

The most important thing is that the state and society should increase support and supervision for the pension industry, promote the improvement and enhancement of pension services, and make the elderly happier and more at ease in their later years.

Children have to face fierce social competition, but also to bear the responsibility of raising and educating their children, every day early and late home, although they also want to do filial piety under the knees of the elderly, but the heart is more than enough and insufficient, in the face of such a social reality, we can better take care of the elderly, the elderly are actually a choice. For those who have children away from home for a long time, or who have no children and empty hands, sending them to a nursing home is undoubtedly the best way to ensure that they can live out their old age in peace.

Recently, I saw a post that was more popular, about an old man, sick in bed, no children and no daughters, found a very good nursing home, monthly fee of 30,000, a total of more than 1 million, and then was abused in the nursing home, died in 2 months, the description is very detailed, the helplessness of the old man in bed is vividly written. After reading it, you may think, wow, 30,000 nursing homes will abuse the elderly, so the other cheap ones are not more terrifying.

In other words, now nursing homes, all aspects of hardware supporting facilities are becoming more and more perfect. But if you don't have a baby, it is definitely unreliable to expect to go directly to a nursing home for the elderly when you are old, and to pin all your hopes on the nursing home. Raising a baby is not necessarily to provide for oneself, the elderly with a baby, when they can't take care of themselves, if they want to go to a nursing home.

But compared with the elderly who do not have a baby and go directly to the nursing home for the elderly, it must be more reliable for the elderly with a baby to live in a nursing home.

As a post-80s generation, there are many Dink families, but there are already some Dink families around us who can't hold on and have babies instead.

Recently, I have seen a lot of real estate being sold under the keyword of pension, and I feel that we have to prepare for our pension early, especially in the news, it will be described in the nursing home if there are no children and no daughters will be discriminated against by the nursing home, which has strengthened our belief.

The future retirement community should be able to solve the problem of families living together, so that they can not only meet their children often, but also rely on the private pension force. The use of a variety of pension methods together will allow us to have income and happiness for the elderly.

An individual's reproductive decisions are a private matter, and a nursing home is a place of care for seniors who have no children or whose children are unable to care for themselves. Although nursing homes do a relatively good job of providing basic care and nursing services, there are a few things you need to consider when choosing whether or not to go to a nursing home:1

Money issues: Nursing homes are subject to a fee, which varies depending on the quality and service. Therefore, for people who need to rely on nursing homes for the elderly, this issue needs to be seriously considered.

2.Social support: Living in a nursing home, it's easy to isolate from a social support system, and long-term feelings of loneliness and loneliness can have a negative impact on physical and mental health.

3.Management and service quality: Not all nursing homes can provide good management and service quality, especially some small-scale or illegal nursing homes may not be supervised and managed by Yu Qiaomin's relevant departments, and there are many potential safety hazards.

Therefore, when choosing a nursing home, you need to pay attention to its relevant qualifications and legitimacy.

In conclusion, there is no absolute right or wrong decision to rely on nursing homes. If you are able to plan your money wisely, have a social support system, and choose a high-quality, legal nursing home, then it is also feasible to live your old age in a nursing home.

Because now more and more older single young people, they have a clear plan for their future, that is, to always keep themselves in a single state, even when they are old, they can also face this problem well, that is, to take the way of group pension, but for such a pension method, I personally think it is still worth our consideration and discussion.

Although for many single elderly people, taking the way of group pension can help each other and take care of each other to a certain extent, and will also help themselves get rid of loneliness and loneliness through such a pension method, so as to make their later life more meaningful, but for some older single young people, if they really take such a pension method in the future, it may not be really suitable for themselves. Because at different ages, people often have different ideas, although for these older single young people, they can still accept this way of group pension at this stage, but when they are really old, it may not be the case.

After all, there are certain differences in everyone's living habits, and in the process of group pension, it is very likely that they will not be able to adapt to their own living habits because they are different from others. Therefore, before you are old, you should still take precautions and leave more savings for yourself, and when you are old, if you really can't, you can only choose to go to a special pension institution to provide for the elderly.