On the eve of the wedding, the prospective father in law said that he would give me a car for the pu

Tell my father-in-law that I have the obligation to support him whether he gives me this car or not, so that he doesn't have to worry, if he has the ability, he can give it, and if he can't, he can not give it.

In fact, you can choose to agree, because the daughter-in-law's father is also his own father, and they are all a family.

If you are willing to provide for the elderly, accept such conditions, you can marry your daughter-in-law, if you are not willing to provide for the elderly, just refuse and not get married.

Personally, I feel that this is just a very isolated phenomenon, which shows that I didn't educate my son well and didn't know how to understand the hard work of my parents. If the house is bought, the son does not let the old people on both sides take turns to live, but only let the father-in-law and mother-in-law live, and he can take back the house, because the son who does not know how to honor his parents cannot love each other's parents very well. If it is because the son's parents-in-law are poor and helpless, and he still has a house and living conditions, then don't be overly careful, this is also a concession for family harmony.

If you don't go, you won't go, it's the same wherever you live, let your son have to pay for living expenses, and live more peacefully by yourself, and your father-in-law and mother-in-law are also working, and if you go, you're afraid that there will be a conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so it's better not to go.

It's very bad, and the host should also have a chance, so not giving the owner the opportunity to go seriously affects everyone, and it's also a very bad behavior.

This kind of thing still needs to be looked at a little bit, and it is also beneficial for children to live separately from their parents, so that they can have their own independent living space and there will be no conflicts. In terms of pension, you can negotiate with your son, you don't necessarily have to live together, you can provide for the elderly in other ways.

I think your son's way of dealing with it is really inappropriate, after all, it is the house you bought, even if he wants to be a good son-in-law, you can give them some living expenses every month, as long as they are still filial to you, don't care about them so much, the children have their own ideas.

Your son is very unfilial, he just treats you as an ATM, and his approach is really too much.

The legal gift of property or something is a contract under the Contract Law, and it is established when the two parties reach an agreement (the donor expresses his willingness to donate, and the donee expressly accepts it).

However, the law gives the donor the right to revoke the gift at any time before the gift is delivered.

If the gift has been delivered, the gift cannot be revoked or withdrawn in principle. The gift can be withdrawn unless:

1.If the donor has evidence to prove that the gift to the donor has caused major economic losses, the donor may request that the gift be recovered.

2.If the donee infringes on the donor and his family, the donor may request that the gift be withdrawn.

3.The donee has conduct that seriously harms the interests of the donor.

Your parents gave it to you, and it was in your name, right? If so, it is already the joint property of the husband and wife, and is it transferred? It is not your joint property if it is transferred to someone else, but only if the car is transferred without your husband's consent.

Article 89 of the Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Implementation of the General Principles of the Civil Law of the People's Republic of China (for Trial Implementation) stipulates that "co-owners enjoy common rights and bear common obligations with respect to common property. Where, during the existence of a co-ownership relationship, some of the co-owners dispose of the co-ownership property without authorization, it is generally found to be invalid.

If it is you or your husband's, then legally it belongs to you, but because the other party is your parents, and the car was bought by them, if they regard the money as theirs, you can't help it, and it's not easy to fight.

It's joint property because you're not divorced.