When a scumbag chases a woman, what are the usual routines, don t be deceived?

There is a kind of boy that bores every woman, that is the "scumbag", "scumbag" is good at disguising his "scum", many women can't see his true face clearly, and even often after being emotionally trapped by the "scumbag", he found out that he was a scumbag, and he suddenly realized that he regretted it. Women want to avoid "scumbags", so how to identify what men are scumbags, so that they will not be emotionally cheated by scumbags? I think scumbags like to use these tricks when looking for women, don't get it.

The "scumbag" is good at saying flattery to women, and is good at touching women's hearts with sensual love words, but he never pays much, and he will not do anything for women, his "love" is all verbal, not confirmed by actual actions. When a "scumbag" chases a woman, he often uses rhetoric, and you will find that its mouth is particularly sweet and can coax women to be particularly happy.

The scumbag "always wants to attract women with his body, always wants to deceive a woman's love based on having sex with a woman, and can't really care about women, care about women, invest in women, just want to make women completely in love, and be willing to invest in themselves." When a "scumbag" chases a woman, he always wants to make immediate physical contact with you to make you accept him, and he will actively hug you and kiss you.

Scumbags "like to tout themselves as big people with great skills, pretending how many companies they have, pretending how much money they have, and always trying to attract women with wealth and influence, so that women can compromise themselves because they are rich or have rights." When the "scumbag" is chasing women, he has always talked about himself unfathomably, made himself into an unreal person, and made women actively dedicated to themselves.

The scumbag "loves to talk and brag the most, and he is used to making all kinds of vows in front of women that cannot be fulfilled at all, and he likes to swear silently, saying what kind of life he gives a woman, and buying such a luxurious gift for a woman, he can't do it at all. When the "scumbag" is chasing a woman, he likes to give a woman an oath that is divorced from reality, so that the woman looks forward to it and makes the woman actively moved.

The scumbag "loves to speak to women, and he will always say to women again and again, only love her, and can only be good to him alone, the more he says this, the more it shows that he doesn't think so in his heart, he wants to use that to deceive your emotions, and he also knows that this is also a woman's weakness. When the "scumbag" is chasing women, he likes to express this kind of attitude the most, and wants to gain the approval of women in this way.

The scumbag is responsive to girls, never refuses, acknowledges you, but does not take you into his circle of friends.

They may get used to the tricks of trying to get away with it, and they may stand up when the other person is in an awkward situation.

Usually they exaggerate the fact that a woman is actually complimentary, or they often buy you something flashy and inappropriate.

The three major methods used by scumbags to control girls are to belittle you and elevate yourself, belittle you to exaggerate others, and instill in you that you must listen to him. The details are as follows:1

Men control girls, and scumbags control girls. The most common thing is to belittle you and elevate yourself. First of all, when he contacts you, he may praise you infinitely, but then it will lead to how good he is, how strong his ability is in all aspects, and how many contacts he knows, so that he will have an attraction to you, but when he develops further with you, he will say your reasons in turn, making you feel very bad and need him to help you.

Use his verbal self to show how bad you are. 2.The scumbag controls the girl, and will exaggerate others while belittling you, he will give you a feeling that the whole world is better than you, because he wants to make you think that you are so bad, but he is still willing to be with you, which is to pave the way for the next control surface.

3.It will instill in you that you must listen to him in order to have the meaning of existence in this world. The scumbag will repeatedly emphasize to you that only he will value you, that you will have meaning with him, and that you will not feel empty and lonely.

And what he said, just like the Holy Decree, you must listen to Him, and only by listening to His words can you become better.

The first is to pretend to be pitiful and pretend that he has been hurt emotionally. The second is to pretend to be affectionate, and will be very affectionate to this girl. In the end, he used money to send the woman away, so that the woman felt that he was rich.

What are the routines commonly used by scumbags? How does a scumbag cheat on a girl's feelings?

Routine 1: Thick-skinned, scumbags who use "flirting" to touch girls' uproar are not necessarily handsome, but they must be flamboyant, they take the wide net style of "flirting" as a way to find "prey", as long as there is a girl who can respond to it, immediately be cheeky to influence the girl, or deliberately provoke, or cause trouble to attract attention, and the girl will inevitably be captured by "rhetoric" for a long time. But please note that scumbags cast a wide net and never make a relationship certain.

Routine 2: Deliberately brush the sense of existence, pretending to be a warm man to capture the girl's heart scumbag, although the scumbag must be warm enough. Scumbags are generally very careful, they will deliberately choose the right time to appear in front of the girl (especially when the girl is in trouble), and then use a series of warm male behaviors to take care of the girl meticulously, so that the girl has a sense of dependence.

Routine 3: I like to pretend to be pitiful, set up a good character, and arouse the acting skills of the scumbag who is sympathetic to the girl, they understand the psychology of the girl, know when to pretend to be pitiful, and know when to be soft and tough. When facing feelings, scumbags always like to pretend to be affectionate for past feelings, so as to make girls feel compassion.

At the same time, the scumbag also knows how to magnify his own advantages, establish his own personality, and have a good image.

You say it's a scumbag, and the method he uses must make girls take the bait quickly, for example, by using money to buy very expensive gifts. I think it's all possible, or it's ordering milk tea every day and giving out red envelopes every day, anyway, it's this kind of rotten street trick.

If a woman encounters a scumbag who cheats on her feelings when she is in love, she may not be able to detect it at the first time. Because the scumbag is very good at disguising himself, he will not let you see through his scumbag nature, but will hide it very deeply, and when you fall into the routine he has set up in advance, it means that you give him the opportunity to hurt you. So what are the routines of scumbags to deceive women?

Let's take a look at the manifestations of scumbags deceiving women's feelings!

1. Always say more than do

The most common routine used by scumbags to deceive women's feelings is endless rhetoric and sweet talk. In addition to saying that he loves you, in fact, he rarely really treats you in action. He will rarely spend money on you, and he will rarely pay for you.

His kindness to you is far from superficial, unrealistic.

2. There are a lot of hidden and reserved things for you

If you want to judge whether a man is a scumbag, it is not so difficult. You just need to jump out of the category of love and take a rational and sober look at the man next to you to see how much you know about him. Many times, women will neglect to know a person objectively and fairly because of their love brains.

So don't let your love brain cloud your judgment will be clouded.

3. Rarely let your friends know about your existence

When scumbags deceive women's feelings, they are generally not particularly flamboyant and high-profile. He won't show affection to you in the circle of friends, his circle of friends never posts anything related to you, maybe his friends around him don't know about your existence at all, and what's more serious is that he may be dating other women at the same time in addition to you.

When a woman encounters this kind of scumbag who tramples on other people's sincerity, don't be sad because he doesn't love you, because this kind of man is not worthy of your tears and sadness for him. When you realize that he is not as good as you think, let it go as soon as possible, there is no need to dwell on him anymore, because it is not worth wasting time on this kind of man.

Always say sweet words to girls, praise girls, always talk about the advantages of girls, give girls some small gifts, often pick up girls to and from work, and use some small cost things to make girls happy.

The first is to spend money on girls, and then when they make girls constantly rely on him, and then they will make you say that such ups and downs for a period of time will make girls feel more inseparable from them; The second is that there are a lot of suitors around you, so that girls have a sense of crisis.

Always say some nice things, create some opportunities for chance encounters, understand each other's interests and hobbies, do what they like, and have some physical contact with each other.

The first routine of a scumbag is that they will use all kinds of moral kidnapping to isolate you, they will tell you that women can't do anything, what women can't do and what women can't do, and then let you stay away from your friends of the opposite sex, because he will be afraid that you know a man better than him, and he is also afraid that someone will tell you that his scum, just like that sentence, the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, and what you can't understand, maybe your friends can see it at a glance.

A scumbag, his possessiveness and desire to control are very strong, but he will also say all kinds of bad things about your girlfriend behind his back, and even all kinds of provoking your feelings, because for a scumbag, only after isolating a woman, he can easily control it.

The women in this routine are all stupid women, because one day you will find that after you broke up with this man, you don't have any friends around you, but there are all kinds of people around this scumbag. will soon please another woman The second routine of the scumbag is to make you give up your job and say that he supports you, and the reason why he does this is for two reasons, one is because he will make you trust him more, and the other is because he wants you to rely on him, so that you can't do without him, as long as the woman can't do without him, he can do whatever he wants.

Scumbags usually "do all the good things first, and then do the bad things absolutely". Isn't the purpose of doing this to control your freedom with the economy?

Only stupid women will be fooled, and a smart woman, when she hears a man say this, will refuse, because they all know that a woman's economic ability determines the superstructure, and it is better to rely on no one than on herself.