Why do I still think about him after the divorce, why do I always think about divorce in my heart

1 From falling in love to getting married, husband and wife have a tacit understanding and are used to each other's existence.

2 When a relationship ends, my heart is barren, and I often think about how good we used to be for each other and bad for each other, but now I recall how sweet it is, and I can't help but cry when I think about it.

3 I thought that after the divorce, I would live a better life, and I would find someone who understands you better and is better than him to accompany you, but in the end, I found that he is the best and understands you best, but you are separated because of some things.

4 The happiness of passing by is called passing by, in the process of passing by, you can choose to stay, stay, and happiness will be caught.

5 If both parties have each other in their hearts, what does it matter if they hold hands again, just like back then, you met at that wonderful age, knew each other, fell in love, got married and had children, and the road of life is still very long.

My mom too, when I was young, often asked me, did your dad mention me, did he say he missed mom, and now standing in my mom's shoes, the only feeling is sad for my mom, but 10 years have passed, everything is dull, even the hatred is gone, and there are better people to love her, and you will be the same, let the thoughts dilute everything over time, the angel is waiting for you, will love you more for him.

People have feelings. Because you still love him.

If you are always thinking about divorce, it must be that you are not satisfied with your current state of life. However, due to some practical reasons, this decision could not really be made. Is that the case?

Generally speaking, every marriage will have this experience. Especially in the first few years of marriage. Marriage is not strong enough, because love fades, and life is dull.

When you ask this question, I can feel that you seem to want to make some effort and try for marriage, right?

1.Determine whether the divorce is impulsive or a choice.

Psychologists once said that no matter how good the relationship is, couples will have 200 thoughts of divorce in their lives, feeling that he is not good, unhappy, and feeling that he can't find himself in marriage, these are actually very normal situations, and many couples are the same as you, you are not alone.

At this time, the most important thing is to sort out the marital relationship between you and see which point has become the trigger point for you to mention divorce.

For example, he has a strong personality and rarely listens to your opinions, while you are also a strong personality and often experience feelings of loss of control and uneasiness. Or, you and him have anxious attachment and avoidant attachment, you always want to get a response from him, and he is always afraid that you will chase him.

It may also be an external problem, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good after giving birth to Yuxian and burning the child, one said to take the child like this, and the other said not to take the child like this, which makes you feel exhausted and don't know how to deal with it.

Sort out this key point, in order to judge this impulsively, emotion, or really can't go on, even if you really leave, the next marriage, you can also use this as a reference, and you will not fall into the pit again.

2.Is there still a desire behind the desire for divorce?

People usually suppress their desires, and the things they desire the most will be described in the most annoying way.

When you really want to divorce him, you may really want to leave, or you may vent your inner grievances by mentioning divorce, as if this can pour out the pain of the past once and let him experience the tension of losing you.

However, many times the subtext of this sentence is, I need you, I'm having a hard time, and I want you to see my emotions.

I always want to divorce for the following reasons: first of all, because my married life is unhappy, and my other half is too different from my ideal other half.

1. The story is desolate and ends separately! I traded the best years for the deepest lessons.

2. I will become better, because you know it, but not for you, and there will be no more you in my eyes from now on.

3. Give yourself back, return others to others, and make flowers into flowers and trees into trees. Since then, the mountains and rivers have never met again, and I hope that I will not see each other in the next life, do not owe, and do not miss.

4. Thanks to the years of not giving up, give me thorns all the way, be grateful for the love of time, and reward me for being displaced; For the rest of my life, for the rest of my life, I will be invincible to all poisons and love myself and my children well.

5. The story is desolate and separated! I have exchanged the best years for the deepest lesson, and I declare that the divorce is happy.

6. I'm divorced! Completely off! Leave clearly! But I'm free! Very happy! It's also fun!

7. Thanks to the years of not giving up, giving me thorns all the way, thanking the love of time, rewarding me for being displaced, and for the rest of my life, I will eventually be inviolable.

8. I exchanged the best years for the deepest lesson! The story is desolate, each of them is gone, from now on you and the three passes, may the years not give up, I will overcome the thorns!

9. The moment you get the divorce certificate, the world becomes harmonious and the surroundings become gentle.

10. If I could do it all over again in this life, I would definitely not marry you. If you can meet again in the next life, please take a detour and don't meet again!

11. Without the language of love, all words are boring.

12. My Bao Nai Town, in the days when I can't see you, my love for you will not fade, but I will only miss you deeply as time goes by.

13. Finally divorced, the moment you get the divorce certificate, the feeling of release, divorce is an end, but also a beginning.

14. The one-month cooling-off period has arrived, and from now on, one will be goodbye and two wide, and each life will be happy, I wish you no waves in the years, and I will not be sad and happy for the rest of my life.