Why did he do this to me after getting married 10

Some men will really have a big contrast between marriage and after marriage When dealing with the object, in order to get you, you will cover up your shortcomings Stinky temper will become a docile sheep, and let you be considerate of you everywhere Even if you wake up in the middle of the night and both of you are sleepy He will go to the kitchen to pour water and get watermelon to eat All of them are very attentive But after getting married, all the ugliness will be exposed together Make everything that should be said clear to him Don't think that you are a bully Crying can't solve any problems, after all, you are already a couple Women also need to use a little wisdom.

Many men are like this after they get married, try to find their own reasons, be happy every day and then communicate with him slowly, and the most important thing is not to make him feel that you are too dependent on him, and not to annoy him every day.

There is not enough love between two people.

When love is insufficient, this phenomenon occurs when each other or one of the parties does not have even the minimum etiquette.

You have to talk to him and make him realize that you can live without him and you can leave him. You can't get used to him, and you can't hide everything in your mind.

If you still want to continue to live with him, think more about him, who told you that you have already chosen him.

Marriage. It's always a tough trek. You will have a lot to suffer.

Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.

There are no common interests and hobbies, as well as topics.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.

With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily. Ask both parents for their opinions to ensure family harmony.

Marriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to love each other, and marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors are also very important. Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony.

Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them. Eventually everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage.

Men before marriage because they did not determine the relationship with the woman, so they will be more considerate and thoughtful, after marriage, feel that they are already their own wives, may not be too concerned and considerate, you can tell each other coquettishly, maybe there will be a different effect.

There may be many aspects that were not exposed to each other before marriage, and gradually became apparent after marriage. On the other hand, the other party thinks that you must be my person. Don't be too enthusiastic. Let's live a normal life.

Girl, if you were him, I don't think you would be in a hurry to get married.

Why? Do you think, even if he is not married, he has already enjoyed everything that only a married person can enjoy, and he has enjoyed wife-like care and sexual relations without a wife, what is he anxious about? Moreover, there is no binding on marriage, so why not?

Girl, be sure to figure out a question. Falling in love is not just self-sacrifice and devotion. It's not that you can't love, there must be rules for cuteness, it's not that you have to live together if you don't get married.

The benefits and disadvantages of this may not be comparable. And most of the victims are women: women will be afraid of conception, afraid that the relationship will not last long, if they can come together in the future, everything will be fine, if not, the consequences of women's burdens, may only be able to understand how heavy they are.

So, you're asking this question here, and who can give you a definitive answer? In fact, your boyfriend is the only person who can give you the answer. You've been with someone for so long, why don't you love yourself before you can get a sure love?

If you can't love yourself, how can you love others, how can you gain the love of others?

Give yourself some time to think about it, is your true happiness in the other person's place? If his love is true, I think, he will definitely not fail you, will give you a home, will marry you as a wife. But why not just ask him?

Is it that you can't believe in his love?

I wish you a long, long and a good time. It is recommended that you start to cultivate relationships from now on, run in the way of getting along, and have a long way to go together in the future.

Heart] [hee-hee] [smile].

After marriage and before marriage are two completely different lives.

Before getting married, the two only had love and no burdens, so there was only happiness and sweetness without any other thoughts.

After getting married, you need to bear family responsibilities, bear the survival and life of the two people, and need to bear the family's housework and food.

And so on all kinds of family matters need to be shared by two people, and they also need to earn money to build a family and prepare for the birth of a child in the future. At the same time, it is also responsible for the care of both parents.

In the first half of their lives, their parents have borne for their children, so their children are happy and unburdened. Having a family means being able to take on the responsibilities of the family and to bear the burdens of others, including those of parents.

Therefore, it is said that marriage is the grave of love. It's not like that.,But getting married is the beginning of a different life.,For the old want to stay in the sweetness of the past without burden.,No responsibility doesn't need to grow up.,This is a sign of no maturity.。。 Just as the transition from a teenager to a teenager is completely different, those who have grown up and still want to stay in the fantasy of a teenager are just childish expressions.

Therefore, marriage is an inevitable growth process, and it is necessary to have a clear understanding, because age cannot be retained. It is also a real sign of a transition from life to another stage. At least more than half of the people still don't understand, and even the parents don't know it very well, so I have to say that this will cause a lot of tragedy.

There are a lot of estrangements and contradictions in marriage, and in the case of frequent quarrels for this, I will be more emotional or single is good, more nostalgic for my single days, but no matter what, life still needs to continue, I should still try to be a responsible man, therefore, this kind of thinking is just a moment in the heart, more often than not, I still have to find a way to eliminate contradictions with my lover and solve the problem, after all, life still needs to go on. When I am about to be crushed by pressure, and my whole spirit is on the verge of collapse, I feel that it is still good to be alone. Being able to meet the right person at the right time is a blessing for everyone.

But in real life, we are often not so lucky. Two people meet each other and know each other to fall in love, and each feels that they are each other's only. But when the relationship is about to enter the marriage perfectly, all kinds of contradictions will follow.

Should I buy a house or not? Whose name is written on the title deed to buy a house? What is the standard for the bride price?

Are there any other messy requirements? Emotions in love, sometimes in the face of material, will be hit useless. Of course, parents want their children to be well, but the ideas of both parents are opposite.

Of course, girls like to buy a house, and write their own name, preferably without paying for it. But in life, how many people really rely on their own struggle to buy a house? Most of them need a lot of help from their parents to carry this thing on.

But will the man's parents agree to do so? The results are clear. In this age where everything is fast food, no one will put all their hopes on you.

There is no way to say about the bride price. Of course, the mother-in-law hopes that the more the better, and the boy's parents certainly hope to go with the market. But the woman's request cannot be ignored, which is really embarrassing.

At this time, you come and go, as if you are buying vegetables in the vegetable market. No one will ever ask what the dish is for advice, it will only make you obedient. I have experienced such a situation, because of the bride price and my mother-in-law could not get along, my wife just listened to her mother.

At that time, I was really troubled, and I felt like I was about to collapse. In fact, I was reluctant to buy a house back then, and I spent 20 years of my youth on this house, and I always felt too tired to live. Coupled with the issue of bride price, it is very troublesome.