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It's been four or five years since I came out to work, and I haven't saved a penny? Why? Isn't the money you earn enough to spend?
How do you say that? However, you should go back, it's been four or five years, your parents haven't seen you, you will definitely think, you can't give anything to your parents if you don't earn any money, it doesn't matter, the New Year is for some people: what is there, it's just over it, but for some people:
How rare is the Chinese New Year, it is only once a year, and the family must be reunited, what do you think? I think of the latter, why do I say that at the beginning, it is because you have not fulfilled your filial piety, what are you coming out to earn money for? You should know this best.
If something is wrong, I'm sorry. That's how I am, what to say!
Your parents miss you so much, don't worry so much, go back! You said that when you go back, you have to come out to work, yes, what's that, life always has to pass, people, it's always like this. So what do you want? Right? Let's go back and reunite with the family!
Think clearly! Go home...
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I definitely want to go home, I'm almost the same as you, I've been out to work for six years, and I haven't earned too much money, but I still want to go home, because it doesn't matter how much your parents care about you more than how much money you make, home is home, better than there, that feeling can't be replaced by something else or emotion, go home! You'll get a lot!
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If you are a person with filial piety and conscience, you should go back. Maybe you feel that you haven't earned any money and it's a shame to go back, but that's not what your family needs, they pay more attention to love, and what they want most is for you to go back safely and reunite your family.
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Let's go back, your family must miss you very much, don't feel embarrassed that you don't earn much money, in fact, family affection is much more important than money, and your family must think so too.
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Hehe, you're just like me.
I can't go back to the Chinese New Year.
There is no money either. I can't help it.
Only work hard and work hard.
It doesn't matter if you have money or not, though.
As long as you have the money to buy a ticket, you should go back.
Because your parents will worry about you.
You don't want them to worry, do you?
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Let's go back.
The family also wants you to go back and be with them.
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Go back. Family is the most important thing.
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I have heard a saying from Hubei: If you have money, you can't afford to go home for the New Year.
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Part-time job, empty-handed.
Think about doing your own thing.
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Compared with before, this year's Spring Festival, because of the epidemic, many people will be extremely entangled.
10 days ago, Academician Zhang Boli said: "Under the new situation of the epidemic, I believe that the epidemic prevention and control departments and local governments are also taking precautions and formulating policies for returning to their hometowns according to local conditions.
After the new ten measures, the policy is no longer an obstacle to going home, but the current epidemic situation is more worrying than the previous policy.
Whether or not to go home for the New Year before, except for policy restrictions in some places where there is an epidemic, you may have to pay time and money costs. But when I go home this year, I have to consider health risks and human feelings. "Have you made any money", "Have you found a partner", this is a problem that would give many people a headache every Spring Festival in the past, and not too many people may care about it this year.
Everyone is more concerned about "yang is not yang".
According to the most normal understanding, as well as what experts say about immunity, there are at least four conditions.
I am yang, and my family in my hometown is not yang. There are many people who have caught up with the first wave of infection, and there is a high probability that they will be ** years ago. But if you go home for the New Year, your family will definitely have all kinds of worries in addition to welcoming them.
People still have all kinds of resistance to people who have been infected, especially those who have not yet been positive.
I don't have yang, and the people in my hometown are yang. Most of our Spring Festival is a migration from the city to the countryside, from the big city to the small city. Returning home for the Chinese New Year is equivalent to returning from a place with relatively good medical and living conditions to a place with relatively poor medical conditions.
With the collective return to their hometowns during the Spring Festival, the risk of the epidemic has increased significantly, and the rural lifestyle is more prone to cluster transmission. Once infected, people in rural areas with relatively poor medical conditions, especially those with children and the elderly, are particularly worried.
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There is still a month to go before the Chinese New Year, do you say you will go home? The question that is being talked about now is definitely the one that 80%, or even 90%, of the people floating outside are thinking. It's sunny everywhere, do you want to go home for the New Year?
When I came back, I was worried that the old people and children in the house would be infected, so why would I work hard outside all year round if I didn't come back? There is an aunt who bought new furniture and appliances a few months ago, and a few days ago she made a special call to the installation company. Because it is installed by this house, I want to check it again to feel more assured, because I am waiting for my children and grandchildren to come home for the New Year.
I feel like I'm coming back soon after the New Year, and I'm still quite moved.
The mother was worried, just checked the wardrobe, the bed and mattress were also well protected, and the lights installed were also tested, and it could be seen that the mood of being a mother was actually the same. It's hard to celebrate the New Year all year round, and you can have a lively Chinese New Year's Eve dinner together. The grandchildren couldn't get used to sleeping with the old furniture, so they changed all the new ones, and felt that the hometown was cold and quickly installed the air conditioner.
Waiting for the Chinese New Year family to come back, after all, reunion is a family.
You say go home, now that the epidemic is open, don't worry about whether it will become sunny on the road. A person is yang, a car is yang, a plane is yang, and you can't have a good time when you go home.
Who doesn't have an old man or child, and if they infect the elderly and children with this disease, will they be able to live well in the end?
The Chinese New Year is another outbreak period, and you can't really not go to relatives and friends, and now your hometown has basically been infected, and everyone is not afraid of turning yin and has begun to go out normally. But what if you go back for the Chinese New Year with a different strain, what if you are afraid of reinfection and infecting your children and the elderly?
You say you don't go home, what are you working outside for a year? For a family reunion,Finally, for a good year, for a rush, if you don't go back, your parents will be sad?
Although your parents don't say anything, because they are also worried about your safety, they are sad in their hearts, whether they will be lost. If there are children at home, and the parents are irreplaceable, will the children be lost?
It's been three years, and every year I don't dare to go back because of the epidemic, especially my parents with young children. I feel like I haven't spent the New Year with my grandparents and grandparents together for a long time, and this year is the first year of liberalization, so I don't know how the situation is.
In the Spring Festival of 2023, do you plan to go back to your hometown for the New Year?
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Definitely back. You can't always be by your parents' side when you go out, and you can't be absent from the short get-together every year.
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In response to this problem, I think both families should take into account Xianhan, such as going to my mother-in-law's house this year and going to my mother's house next year. Because I think the relationship between the two families is equal, and the old people on both sides should take into account their feelings, not only that, but filial piety comes first, and such a good character should be passed on. After getting married, two people may disagree over whether to go back to their mother-in-law's house for the New Year or to their parents' house for the New Year.
Actually, I personally think that this matter is very easy to solve, for example, I will go back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year this year, and I will go back to my mother's house for the New Year next year, and my mother's family and my mother-in-law's family must be taken into account. If you marry and bring the water spilled by the daughter who is late, you don't have to go back to your parents' house for the New Year, this statement is completely unreasonable, and it is a kind of feudal dross thinking. The main reason why I have this idea is because I think that after marriage, the two families should be equal.
When a man and a woman marry to form a small family, it does not mean that when a girl marries into a man's family, she has to completely abandon her own family. The marriage relationship should be equal, and the two families are even more equal, and if you choose to spend the New Year at your mother-in-law's house this year, you can choose to spend the New Year at your mother's house next year, which proves that the relationship between the two families is equal, and there is no one who has priority or privileges. Secondly, I think that this can take into account the elderly on both sides and avoid conflicts.
How old are the old people on both sides, although they say that their daughters are married, they are still their own children, and their mothers are worried. If the child has not been able to go home for the New Year, the old man will inevitably miss it. Therefore, it cannot be said that the woman should be left at the mother-in-law's house completely, but also take into account the woman's parents, so it is very fair to take this turn once a year.
At the same time, it can also avoid other conflicts between the two families, and no one has priority, because everyone is the same. In addition, I believe that filial piety comes first, and everything should be based on filial piety. In this matter, it can reflect some of a person's attitude towards filial piety to the elderly.
In any case, we can't bully either side, we should regard the old people on both sides as their own parents, and filial piety to the old people is actually to meet the wishes of the old people and obey the ideas of the old people. Therefore, I think this is the most appropriate approach.
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Of course, the family reunion should be happy. However, sometimes a lot of real problems can make people very unhappy and unhappy. But since you're home, let's work hard and be happy, and if there are any problems, we will solve them after the New Year. A happy new year will bring good luck!
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Speaking of home, there will always be a warm feeling from the heart, home is like a boat sailing in the wind and waves, although the bumps are constant, but the family works together to resist the wind and waves, you will feel extremely happy and warm. Because there is a home, we will not be lost, on the long road of life, someone and we rely on each other, support each other through ups and downs, day and night care for each other, whether it is a prosperous home, or a simple home, home is always the place we yearn for the most. There is love, thoughtfulness, tolerance and understanding among family members.
It's nice that the harmonious family atmosphere will make you feel at home!
For us, home is a warm haven, a place of emotional sustenance and true feelings.
Home is the destination of love. Go home for the New Year, of course, you should be happy, as long as the conditions allow, or go back to see, relatives are looking forward to you.
Get plenty of sleep. There's nothing to do, eye creams don't work well, sleep more and hydrate your eyes.
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