Why is it that the more developed the place, the more reluctant people are to have more children?

Personally, I think that the more developed the place, the greater the economic pressure, the strict requirements and control in teaching, and it will also be particularly expensive, so people are reluctant to have more children.

Because developed places are under great economic pressure, and they have many jobs, they don't have time to take care of their children.

Because in developed cities, people's lives are very stressful, and the housing price level is particularly high, and the investment in children's education is also very large, so people are reluctant to have children.

In some backward areas, people will keep having children, because children are labor productivity for them.

Mom and Dad will not let their children go to school after giving birth, but will let their children work at home, in which case the pressure at home will be slightly less. Moreover, it is also the traditional thinking of some feudal and backward areas to keep having children, and in such a situation, these people will naturally have more children, so the phenomenon of having more children in backward areas is very common.

And the cost of raising a child in a backward area is very low, because the children in the city live a very delicate life, whether it is to go to school or live, it needs to cost a lot of money, in this case it is not easy to raise a child in the city. Therefore, everyone feels that it is very difficult to raise children, and even thinks that if they have more children, they are not afraid that they will not be able to raise them at all, but this is not the case in rural areas.

There are many remote rural areas where raising children is very simple, they only need to wear old clothes left by their older siblings, and the food is very rough, and in this case, it basically does not cost too much money. And most of the food that children eat comes from the family's farming, so there is no extra expense, just an extra mouth to eat. In addition, most of the children in rural areas will eat their mother's milk in the process of growing up, and breast milk is also free of money for rural people.

Therefore, for people in remote areas, having children is a very low consumption, and after the children grow up, they can let the children work to make their families get the corresponding harvest. When children grow up, there will be a variety of labor in the family, which means that children are only characters who help the family work for the elders of these families.

Because the cost of raising children in backward areas is relatively low, and it is not easy to feed children in a poor environment, if you only have one or two children, there is a big illness or no money for medical treatment, then the gains outweigh the losses, so most of the elders in backward areas will support having more children, so that it can also provide effective labor for the family.

These people's education level is very low, they only know that the more children they have, the more labor in the family, so they will keep having children.

Because they love children very much, and he feels that children are very important to a family, and they also believe in passing on the family lineage, so there will be this kind of situation.

Because children are the best labor force for them, they will keep having children.

According to relevant data, there are many places where the willingness to have children is very low, and the fertility rate in one place is only. ......The reason for this low fertility desire is the high cost of childbearing, the fast pace of life, busy work, and the fact that some people do not want to increase the burden of their own lives.

1. The high cost of childbirth is the main reason for the decrease in fertility intention.

The main reason for the decrease in fertility intention for many people is that the cost of childbirth is too high. ......Specifically, after having a child, the family's financial expenses will increase, and parents will have to spend more time and energy to raise the child, all of which will increase the cost of childbirth, making those with relatively limited family conditions choose not to have children. ......This is the main reason why many people have a lower desire to have children.

2. Many people lack the willingness to have children because of the fast pace of life and busy work.

Life is very fast-paced nowadays, with busy work and very stressful. For many people, coping with the fast-paced life and the pressure of work has become overwhelming. If you have another child, you will feel unbearable.

As a result, many people have reduced their willingness to have children because of the fast-paced life and the stress of busy work.

3. Some people choose not to have children because they don't want to increase their burden on their lives because they don't want to give birth.

For some people, the reason why they choose not to have children is because of personal reasons. ......Specifically, these people have become accustomed to their current comfortable life, and they don't want to increase the burden of their lives by having children, so they end up choosing not to have children. ......More and more people hold this idea, so this has become a major reason for people's desire to have children.

It is precisely because of the above reasons that the willingness to have children in many places is so low.

Ideologically, we do not have the backward concept of the previous generation of raising children to prevent old age, and we have also weakened the "great" mission of passing on the family lineage. We began to reflect on the parent-child relationship in this society from our own feelings, believing that having children is something that needs to be treated with caution, and we don't want children to grow up in the same environment as they once were.

Second, materially, we are faced with frightening housing prices (especially school district housing) and high parenting costs (compared to when we were children). If you can't even provide a stable environment for the growth of a child, and you forcibly give birth to a child, then your life will not be comfortable, and it will be difficult for your child to grow up healthily (parents will impose expectations on their children).

Third, in terms of time, the country's development has gradually slowed down from the rapid development of the past. At this time, it is neither like our father's time when there were many opportunities, nor like our grandparents' time when everyone was full of family and country feelings. We recognize our own insignificance, accept our ordinariness, and believe that we do not necessarily have to leave future generations.

Having children becomes an option, not a must, throughout your life.

There are several reasons for this:

1. Now with the improvement of the standard of living of the noisy branches, young people are now comparing others to buy a house and a car, and I must buy a house and a car with a loan, so there is very little money left after paying a mortgage or car loan every month, Alexander, so many young people don't want to have a baby.

The main factors influencing the concept of childbearing among Shanghai citizens are personal energy and economic strength, and some people believe that the cost of education is the most important financial burden for raising children.

1. Shanghai, as a super first-tier city in China, has always been at the forefront of fashion, the cost of living is higher than other cities, and the pressure is greater than that of other cities, so it is normal for most people to choose to have only one child, or not to have children at all.

Second, the reasons why Shanghai citizens are reluctant to have a second child are very realistic and heart-wrenching. First of all, the cost of education is a huge expense.

For example, the cost of children's training classes, as far as I know, many friends' children are lined up for various training courses on weekends for 2 days, which is a huge expense, and even some parents may have to invest their children's education in a year's income. There is also the problem of school district housing, children from kindergarten to primary school to junior high school, all have to be linked to the school district housing, and having a good school district is also the beginning of success.

These two expenses alone have overwhelmed many families. Even in some families, grandparents retire and have to use their own pensions to subsidize their children. Not to mention the long-term, when the children grow up, they will have to find a job, get married, buy a wedding house, ......If you have a second child, the cost is double!

So, people who are not in big cities don't want to have children, they really can't afford to have children! ”

Third, it is now past the era of raising children to prevent old age.

Many people have figured out that when they are young, they are tired and tired for their children, and when they are old, their children have to be busy with work, and they can't rely on their children to support the elderly, and in the end they still have to live in a nursing home, so it is better to save more money when they are young and prepare for their old age as soon as possible.

Fourth, the cost of raising children now is too high.

Most young couples, a month's salary just to pay off the mortgage, pay living expenses, buy milk powder diapers for their children, etc., will be spent finely, and there is no deposit at all.

In this case, if you have a second child, you will either compress Dabao's quality of life, or you can only rely on gnawing on the old, not to mention that when the child grows up, you will need various education expenses, marriage expenses, etc. The more children are born, the more stress there is, and the more the family's standard of living drops.

Fifth, the "giving" and "return" of having children have become more and more disconnected.

Whether a person is willing to have children depends on their economic ability on the one hand, and on the other hand, it depends on their cognitive level.

First of all, we all know that the cost of living in Shanghai is higher, the living pressure is greater, and the competition pressure between children is stronger.

On this basis, if you can't even guarantee your own living standards, even if you have children, you can't provide children with a better education and growth environment, for the locals, it is more important to raise one and try to give them an excellent living environment.

Summary: Whether to have children or not, and how many children to have, depends not on the city, but on the pressure of life and personal consciousness. In short, the high cost of parenting, no one to take care of children, and the involution of education are the main reasons for many families to "want to have children", especially the increase in education costs will strengthen the inhibition of fertility intention and fertility behavior.

There are also a lot of people who don't want to have Zheng children, just like there are a lot of older leftover men and women around me, they feel that a person is very free, or it is very troublesome for Li Nao to have children after marriage.

I believe that for many families, they hope to be able to use their own children, because having children will make the family happier and better.

So we see that many couples will also try to have their own children after they get married, because once they have children, it will make the family happier, and it will also make the whole family happier.

But we see that there are actually a lot of young people now, and they themselves have a lot of pressure. After getting married, the pressure on two people to be together is actually greater. So because many young people now have a lot of pressure in their lives, they don't want children, and they also know that they actually want to take care of their children after they have children, whether it is study and life, which will make them work harder.

So we see a lot of young people, they don't want to have children, and recently many places have introduced policies to encourage childbearing. For example, some places encourage children to go to public high schools for free if they have three children. So some people wonder if such a policy can attract young people to have three children.

Probably for a small number of families, especially those with better family conditions. They themselves want several children. So with such a policy, of course, they are more willing to have children, because these families themselves are in very good condition, and they also want to be able to have more children.

So now that they have good policies, of course they will work hard to have children.

But for most families, because we all know that most families, in fact, are very ordinary. Young people themselves are living under great pressure, and their incomes are not high. Therefore, it is not easy to raise a child, and the cost of raising a child is also very high, whether it is education life or future work, it costs a lot, so this also makes many people, they are very stressed.

Being able to have a child is already very hard for them, and if there are two or three children, it is certainly unaffordable for the average family.

So we see that although many places have introduced a lot of policies to encourage childbearing. It may be that for a small number of families with better conditions, they will choose to have children, because they want children, and their conditions are very good, but for most ordinary families, because they do not have much income, they have more children, which will increase the pressure on their lives.

So if we want more people to have children, then we should fundamentally solve the problem and increase the income of each family, only when everyone has more income, so that their lives will be better, and only when we live well, so everyone is more willing to have children. I believe that it is to improve the living standards of each of us, which will also inspire more young people to have more children, which will of course make the family more warm and happy.