Do the higher the education, the less you like to have a baby, and the more educated a woman is, the

Data shows that about Chinese working women have a bachelor's degree.

Around you, what is the education of the woman who gave birth to the earliest baby, or the woman who gave birth to the most babies?

In the past, people often said that "a woman is virtuous if she is not talented", and a girl marries a good family early and teaches her husband and children with peace of mind, which is a stable life.

Later, the model of male superiority and inferiority gradually disappeared, and the women around the sugar mother began to expect themselves to become better, so they paid more attention to their academic qualifications and work achievements. The plan to get married and have a baby is ranked behind self-improvement.

Women with a higher level of education are more reluctant to have children early.

Recently, the topic of "nearly 7 percent of highly educated women in Jiangsu only have one child" has quietly appeared on the hot search, and a set of data has surprised everyone.

In 2021, Jiangsu's natural population growth rate has been, and it is the first time since 1949 that Jiangsu's population growth has turned negative.

Data shows that about 70% of women with higher education have only one child; The proportion of women with a high school education who have one or two children is similar, close to 47 per cent.

Women with elementary school and below Chinese culture have about 2 children and more than 2 children.

From this set of data, combined with many real examples around us, it is not difficult to see that women with a higher level of education are more inclined to "have fewer children", or even not have children.

And this phenomenon does not only exist in Jiangsu, most of the highly educated female students in most areas are not particularly high in fertility intentions.

The emergence of this conclusion reminded Sugar Mom of the phenomenon of "young grandma" and "young grandma", which has been very popular in recent years. Behind the youthfulness is the neglected cultural level.

How to choose the education level and "baby" will embark on a different life.

In the past, women who did not get married and have children after the age of 30 would be said to be "leftover women", so it also led to them getting married in a hurry when they reached the age, and it seems that people think that the sooner women have children, the more stable their lives will be.

At the same time, women who do not pay attention to their academic qualifications, or who are unable to continue their studies due to certain factors, often begin to live a life of husband and child at an early age.

During this time, 38-year-old grandmothers and 36-year-old grandmothers frequently became popular on the Internet, they have good looks and good figures, and they are even younger and more beautiful than some second-child mothers.

They deliberately emphasized their age on the Internet, and the one that impressed Sugar Mom was that if she continued to develop at this pace, she might be able to "live in the same house for four generations" before the age of 55. Because of different choices, you will also embark on a different life.

Compared to women who only became grandmothers and grandmothers around the age of 50, "young grandma" and "young grandma" seem to win, but they are also questioned. And the doubts in this are inseparable from academic qualifications.

The higher the education, the less you like to have children? College students are very "sober".

According to the age of 36 years old to be a grandmother, a "young grandmother" and her daughter, at least one person, were born before the required age.

Probably not. Probably the current reader. I feel that it is too painful to give birth to a baby. That's why I don't want to give birth. Like this. So.

This is true, but it is not entirely a mental problem, and some of it is a physical problem, as follows:

1. Women with high education usually have a higher childbearing age, and they are prone to physical problems when they are pregnant. We are all fresh graduates, 3-year-old kindergarten, 6-year-old elementary school, 12-year-old junior high school, 15-year-old high school, 18-year-old college, study and doctoral studies to see the situation, but out of almost 27-28, another two years of stable work, love, marriage, childbirth, and then pregnancy, to give birth to a child is already 32-33, if it is a natural birth, if it is a caesarean section, and then three years before having a child, the second child is already an advanced maternal age, even if you want to give birth, the responsible hospital will also persuade you.

Second, women usually have more work pressure after a high education, and sometimes they dare not have children. There is also that people with little education can be heartless, because they are all taking one step at a time, and they can also comfort themselves that "the boat is naturally straight to the bridge", and highly educated people are used to planning their lives in advance, if they have children when they are just working, they must consider the child's upbringing, think too much, and be anxious, which is the advantage of highly educated people, and it is also a constraint.

The more highly educated people are, the more they pay attention to their own quality of life. And those who are poor need to realize their own worth through reproduction.

The more people who read more, have high educational qualifications, and have a high level of thought. They see the wider world through reading and learning, and their lives are not only about having children, but also having more choices to enrich themselves. At the same time, the more people who read, the more they pay attention to their own value and quality of life, they need a lot of time and energy to enrich their lives and live their own lives, and blindly having children will greatly occupy their own time.

Therefore, it is often said that the more educated people are, the more refined and self-interested.

And those who have not read much, have a low level of education, and have relatively poor families. All they think about is reproduction and raising their families, there is nothing else in their lives, and they can't find much value in themselves, and their children are the hope and value they strive for. Reproduction and procreation are the only things that are fair to them.

Through reproduction and procreation, they feel that they are at least trying to survive. Especially for these people, the traditional feudal idea is deep-rooted, children mean hope, and the family also needs a boy to inherit, in order to have a boy, they can always have children.

Well, some people say that modern women's reluctance to have children reflects that modern women pay more and more attention to their own social attributes and don't want to be confined to a small family!

Is this actually the case?

In fact, it is not that women are becoming more and more reluctant to have children, but compared with women in developed countries, their fertility rates are indeed relatively low, because women pay more attention to career and personal space, so the consequence is that the phenomenon of social aging is becoming more and more serious!

But. Are these women's responsibilities?

No! Not at all.

The actual situation is not as complicated as you think, in fact, it is very simple: the social responsibility of women is getting heavier and heavier, resulting in women having no conditions to have children!

Hehe! Look at the people around us, who are not working hard for real life, for food, house and all kinds of life necessities, if you want to enjoy a little better, then you have to work harder, both men and women!

Under these conditions, who still has the heart to have children!

So now having children has become the preserve of the rich!

Because having a child conflicts with the interests of highly educated women themselves. Career, health, and appearance, these three important things will have a negative impact on having children.

Health and appearance, the impact on all people is not much different, so it is not considered for the time being. It cannot be denied that the higher the education, the higher the income, and most of the work is based on the work of going to work on time, of course, the greater the impact on their career.

Suppose that within the family, giving birth to a child is rewarded, then being in society, having a child is punished. When the reward is much lower than the punishment, then not having children is a rational choice, and the higher the education, the more rational it is.

Another point is that society is very concerned about money. Men don't want to get married, and women don't want to have children. Anxiety and insecurity can cause people to give up long-term investments and focus more on short-term gains.

The higher the horizon, the more knowledgeable women have, and they want to pursue a better standard of living, and the income is difficult to ensure that having children will not affect the standard of living.

For most people, having children has become a negative asset, and the concept of raising children to prevent old age is no longer popular.

To sum up, workers in the workplace who have high education and are not in good family conditions do not want to have children, or will postpone having children.

The awakening of modern women's self-consciousness, the more educated women will be. In addition, now the undergraduate degree in social studies is not considered a high degree, and under normal circumstances, they are 22 years old when they graduate, and then they are basically over 28 years old when they go to graduate school. It is also an objective reality that most of the people who have been working for a few years have stabilized and missed the best age for childbearing.

Any phenomenon cannot be a unilateral cause, and it must be the best choice for itself under the action of comprehensive synergy. A lot of what we see is the appearance of things.

To be precise, the more educated people are, the more reluctant they are to have children, not just women.

People with high education have a considerable degree of requirements for their quality of life, and they know very well how much impact they will have on their lives once they have children.

People with low educational qualifications have low requirements for their quality of life, and they are more inclined to instinct when giving birth, and they are not very clear about what they will pay.

For example, a father with a low education gets up early every day to make money by transporting goods and working hard to squeeze himself, and finally falls ill and is destitute, and a family collapses. And all this is because he has a second child, and the expenses of supporting two children make him unable to rest for a moment.

And his education is low, so he is not thoughtful, and before giving birth to a second child, he failed to fully estimate his ability to bear.

Parents with high education will not wait until the second child is born before they begin to worry about the lack of money, they have done a full assessment before doing a thing, and from the beginning, they will not have a second child, or even a direct dink, not a single child.

To sum up: people with low educational qualifications don't know that they can't afford to give birth because they don't think about it;

Highly educated people, because they are thoughtful, know that they can't afford to give birth;

And judging from the results, the higher the education, the less likely they are to have children.

For women, having a baby can create a gap of several years at work. This is absolutely unavoidable. Unless the child is born and throws it away.

A few years of work gap is enough to make people forget what to do in a familiar job, and it is almost impossible to return to the previous state. Women with higher education care more about work and independence, but having children can make both of them go away.

Therefore, highly educated women are more reluctant to have children.

The reasons are manifold:

The higher the education, the higher the opportunity cost for a woman to have a child. Suppose you graduate at the age of 25, 25 and 35 years old is the most important period for your career, having a child, taking care of a child requires a lot of time and energy, which has a great adverse effect on your career.

The marriage rate is low, and the marriage is late. Ditto, late graduation, late entry into society, low marriage rate, and late, also affect the birth of children.

Rationally realize that giving birth to children suffers. Having a child is a loss for an individual, and the cost of having a child is far greater than the benefit. Including the time, energy, money, and house that are paid.

1 or 2 people can live in a one-room house, and a 3-room house is generally needed to give birth to a child. In the current situation of high housing prices in large cities, the cost of housing is high or even out of reach.

There is no need to give birth, you can support yourself. You don't need to rely on children to support your old age, and you don't need to have children to maintain a relationship with a man.

Social pressures disappear. Having a child is such a difficult thing, and the individual's rational choice is not to have children, especially after the invention of the contraceptive pill, after sex and fertility are completely separated. So there is social pressure to have children, and now there is almost no social pressure.

Now whoever dares to say "give birth" will immediately become a rat crossing the street, and everyone shouts and beats it. There are many highly educated women in big cities, and the influence of traditional social circles is almost zero.

I think it's not just highly educated women who don't want to have children, although I'm not 985 211, I personally think that my current situation is already very good, my husband, in-laws are very good to me, and the two babies are also great, but I have to admit that because of the baby, it has affected my work, and my life can be said to be an all-round impact, and the job is unstable, of course, there are also my personal reasons, but I have to say that during the interview, because of the child, the child is relatively small, this matter has been rejected many times, not to mention life, go to work, take care of the baby after work, of course, my husband will also help But it's still very tiring The time that belongs to me is basically only after the child sleeps Even the party with friends is very reduced Not to mention the figure Pregnancy Breast milk The changes brought about after staying up late cannot be ignored At present, I am forcing myself to lose fat and shape The above is just a part of the many results Many friends around me feel difficult just looking at or thinking about it Not to mention that I have to experience it myself I am all good There is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Contradiction in children's education There are many families without children before the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very bad Not to mention after having children To put it simply, after having children, your quality of life may decline in all aspects, so more and more people are reluctant to have children.

Nowadays, more and more girls have a higher pursuit of their studies, not only to become college students, but even to become the mainstay of graduate students. In addition, there are many female students who will choose to take the exam and become a "frightening" female doctor in society. Although they have become giants academically, they are not recognized in real life!

Rather than looking for a lover, they love themselves more. Nowadays, more and more girls will become unmarried, in addition to the influence of their parents' marriage, education has also become an important influencing factor, the higher the education of girls will become unmarried.

They will see marriage and childbirth as a secular cage, a very cumbersome matter, why should they repeat the same mistakes as thousands of women, not so much betting their happiness on others, but in their own hands.

Even if they are eager to fall in love and find a vital person, then they will choose to get married at best, and have children, which is a waste of time and damage to intelligence, should be avoided!

The phenomenon of "mean reversion" occurs in the child's genetics. We can often see cases of highly educated parents spitting out their own scumbag children on the Internet, obviously parents with the highest IQ, why do they cultivate smart and clever children who don't show off their limbs? It's not even as good as other ordinary parents!

This is because when genes are inherited, there is a phenomenon called "mean reversion". It is that the child's genetics not only do not inherit the advantages of the parents, but choose the shortcomings of the parents, so the situation is like a big joke between the genes and the parents, but it is precisely with this phenomenon that all children can have a fair growth environment. Then, highly educated girls will also worry about this, if they give birth to a child that disappoints them, why can't they avoid it as much as possible?

Marriage is restricted everywhere, and there is no chance of having children. When it comes to highly educated girls, many people will unconsciously have the illusion that they are picky. Because they are so good, even if they find an ordinary person, they will not be blessed!

Therefore, many boys will avoid it.

But in fact, the dilemma encountered by highly educated girls is the moral kidnapping of society, others think that they should be like this, but they themselves are tormented because they cannot escape.

And it makes it more difficult for them to get married, the more they can't find it, the more anxious they are, the more anxious they are, the more they can't find it, the vicious circle is really speechless. In this way, getting married has become a problem, let alone having children, there is no chance at all!