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If it's really not happy. I need to communicate with my family. Talk to that guy too.
It's better for everyone to talk about it.
Since it was introduced by his parents, the boy should also be good. Right? If he is not good, tell his parents that it is your lifelong happiness.
Again. Are you unhappy because you were forced to get engaged or because this guy is not good?
Let's try to get to know the boy first, okay? To tell him the truth, you can't marry him for a while, and ask him to give you time.
It's fair to everyone, and you all get to know each other again. If he has a good character and treats you well, don't be stubborn because of rebellion.
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I think anyone who has experienced a hurt will advise you to get married It's better to find a suitable person I'd rather he love you more so that you won't suffer from gains and losses It is said that marriage is to find someone who loves each other and loves deeply That's because you haven't experienced loss After being hurt once, you will understand that many things are not as beautiful as we imagine Society is too realistic and too complicated The deeper the love, the deeper the hurt It is better to get married and live a peaceful life Find a person with the right personality conditions Good for you Slowly you will know that this is happiness If this person doesn't have anything to do with you, give it up, and if it's good in all respects, but lacks shortcomings, and the emotional foundation, try to slowly appreciate the goodness of this person.
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I know a woman right now, who is in a similar situation to you, but she's married and has a child, but she's never been happy, because she doesn't love that man, and she's going to leave that house in a year to find someone she loves, and someone who loves her, so what do you do, you should know it, you can't fool around life, or you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
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Live together first, run in, if you can't find the feeling, don't force yourself, people only have that life.
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Long pain is better than short pain, in the future, you have to use your life to face the person you don't like, get married and leave, it's not fair to you to him, be brave, you will find your true love.
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Life is a life!
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I think liking each other is the first element of marriage. Whether it is a man or a woman, they all want to find someone to be with the person they love, and they all hope that the person they love happens to love them, and they can stay with the person they love for a lifetime, and stay with them for a lifetime of happiness and sweetness.
But everyone can meet someone they like, and they happen to like themselves, and the people they love also happen to love themselves. A lot of times, it's the people you like, the people you don't like, and the people who like you don't like them.
Fate always likes to play tricks on people, and it will make many people feel like failure. At the right time, they met the man who was holding the wrong Megafiber. No one wants to be with someone they don't love. People who don't love together.
What's it like to be with someone you don't love? These 4 feelings are only present when you are with someone you don't love, and sometimes, they are especially noticeable.
1. Feeling tired.
When you are with the person you love, you will feel very relaxed, always feel that time flies quickly, and there will be a sense of happiness, sweetness, and special satisfaction in your heart.
And with someone I don't love, I always feel tired, I feel that the other person doesn't understand me, doesn't understand me, doesn't understand me, and I feel like no matter how hard I try, I can't do it. didn't walk into each other's hearts, and always felt that there was a gap between the distance between the two people.
Many times, I felt exhausted and had no strength. It's not that the body is tired, but the heart is too tired. All the sadness and hardship are felt by yourself.
2.Feeling lonely.
When you're with the people you love, you feel a sense of security and groundedness. No matter where you are on the planet, you will never feel alone. You can always feel the warm love and each other's presence.
And when you're with someone you don't love, you feel lonely. Even if they are next to each other, they can't feel each other's existence. Your heart is still very bleak, empty, and there is nothing to fill your heart.
Many times, not only lonely, but also very helpless, will become negative and depressed, have no positive attitude, feel that the world is very big, and they are too small, they will feel a lot of emotion.
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Although many people are more realistic in marriage and relationship, thinking that they can't find someone they like, then they often choose to find a suitable person to marry, but for me, I will not do this.
First of all, if I choose a person I don't like, but I feel that I am suitable for myself to marry, then I will have a sense of guilt in my heart, because I have not really loved each other, but I choose to marry with each other, this practice is very irresponsible to the other party, it is difficult to really bring each other happiness and joy if I don't love each other, this will affect the other party's life, maybe many people think that feelings can be cultivated slowly, but if you live with a person you don't like for a long time, If the relationship is not cultivated as originally envisaged, then it will only waste the precious youth and energy between each other, which is a harm to both parties.
And from another point of view, choosing a person I don't like, but the right person to marry will make my life a sense of frustration, after all, whether a person is happy or not, the key is whether he is successful in his career, whether he can meet a person who really loves each other, if you find a person you don't like, then your emotional life is always imperfect, you can't get happiness and joy in this marriage, and you will have an irreparable regret in your life. Therefore, for a life event such as marriage, we should try our best to find a person we really like, and the other party also likes us to marry, so that we can make each other feel real joy and happiness in the future marriage.
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Personally, I would not choose someone I don't like to marry, because if I choose someone I don't like to marry, then I will never really be down-to-earth in my life, and I will not really feel the beauty and sweetness of love.
First of all, when you choose a person you don't like to marry, then the two people will be more embarrassed in the process of getting along in daily life, especially for people like me who are more straightforward, I will not disguise my emotions, then in this case, I and the other party are married and live together, for me and the other party, such a marriage is a kind of torment and torture, it is doomed to the marriage between us, it is impossible to last too long, it is likely because of the estrangement and contradiction between us, And in the end, it led to the breakup of the two people and the breakdown of the orange pickpocket's marriage, rather than choosing not to start such a relationship and marriage in the first place, so from this point of view, I am sure that this rock will not choose a person he doesn't like to marry.
And choose to marry a person you don't like, although some people believe that feelings can be cultivated slowly, but there is a lot of uncertainty, even if it is a fluke, two people can have feelings in the future marriage, but it will also make one of the parties have a big regret in the bottom of their hearts, and once two people in the future marriage process can not change each other, for each other's imprint and circle change, then such a marriage is actually in name only, so in line with their own responsibility, The attitude of being responsible for others, we must be cautious about marriage, we can only choose to marry with the person we like the most, and we should still learn to refuse the person we don't like.
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Hello friend, generally speaking, this situation is because the other party has other "advantages" that attract you, so that you and him are trapped in marriage, such as material conditions.
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If I make such a choice, I consider a lot of factors to make sure that I am making the right decision. First, I'll look at the person's moral character. I would not marry someone who has no morals, because I don't think such a marriage will last.
Secondly, I will consider the person's family background to determine if he has the responsibility and ability to take care of our family without Jane Lee.
I will also consider the person's future prospects to see if he is capable enough to support our family. In addition, I will also consider the person's personality to see if he can get along with me and if he can tolerate my shortcomings.
When I have considered all the above factors, if I find that this person is a suitable person, even if I don't like him, but if he meets all my requirements, I will consider marrying him. However, before making a final decision, I also consider other factors, such as whether our relationship is really withering, or whether the person really loves me.
In short, if I am thinking about marrying someone I don't like but are suitable, I will carefully consider all the factors and carefully consider the decision. If everything fits, I might choose to marry him.
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No, no. Because the relationship is maintained by both parties. If you are reluctant to be together, then it is irresponsible for the rest of your life, and you will regret it for the rest of your life.
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Marriage is the happiness of two people, it is two people who are attracted to each other, like each other and care about each other, not a unilateral like, it takes two people to like each other to form a family, if two people don't like each other, there is no need to be combined, it will be endless pain.
Why can't people who don't like get married?
Marrying someone you don't like, not everyone can really be willing and live a good life in the future.
Even if some people have such thoughts at the beginning, and later find that the other party is not very good and it is very tiring to get along, they will still give up such thoughts, and are unwilling to accommodate themselves, to cater to each other in various ways, and let themselves be wronged.
When the personalities of two people are not so suitable, they are relatively strong, they don't know how to get along well, they live under the same roof, who cooks, who pretends to wash dishes, who mops the floor, and such trivial things will also make each other quarrel.
will feel that why should they let the other party go, and they will feel that the other party should be kind to themselves first.
And then no one convinces anyone, and feels that being with each other is simply a mistake, and he shouldn't be like this.
Out of such a lack of reason, it is only very discordant to get along with each other, and if you don't agree with each other, you will want to divorce, and you feel that it will be better to leave each other, live alone, and find a new one, and you don't need to be reluctant all the time.
As a result, soon after getting married, many people often choose to divorce, feeling that they have completed the task of marriage anyway, and it is not good to have tried marriage anyway, so there is really no need to trap themselves in it all the time.
Anyway, even if you leave, you can support yourself and live a decent life.
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I wouldn't marry someone I don't like, marriage is an important decision in life and should be made on the basis of love, not because of family pressure or other external factors.
It can be a painful experience to marry someone you don't like, as you have to be with someone you don't like every day, which can leave you feeling frustrated, angry, and hopeless. You may express your displeasure with the other person, but you don't get any changes, which can make you feel more miserable. In addition, if there is no basic trust and understanding between you, you may be in constant fear that all your efforts will be in vain, which may make you feel extremely lonely.
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What is the experience of marrying someone you don't like", the topic has been on the hot search, in real life, although most of the marriages are the result of mutual affection, but there are also some marriages that are not based on mutual affection for various reasons. But it doesn't mean that a marriage with two feelings will be happy, and a marriage that is not happy with each other will not be happy, and happiness is relative. I don't choose to marry someone I don't like.
The first is because there is no emotional foundation. In the eyes of many people, the premise of marriage is to choose a person you like, if you marry someone you don't like, there is no emotional foundation; Second, it is prone to contradictions. Although it is normal for there to be some conflicts between husband and wife in marriage, a marriage with an emotional foundation is definitely less than a marriage without an emotional foundation, so it is best not to marry someone you don't like; Finally, marriages are prone to breakdown.
If a person can marry someone he likes, his marriage is relatively stable, and if he marries someone he doesn't like, the possibility of marriage breakdown is very high.
1. There is no emotional foundation. Marriage needs an emotional foundation, for everyone, marriage is not a child's play, it needs to be taken seriously, so marrying someone you don't like is completely unemotional, and such a marriage is very unstable.
Second, it is easy to produce contradictions. If you can marry someone you like, once there is a conflict in your life, it will be resolved quickly, but if you marry a person you don't like, not only is it easy to have a conflict, but once the contradiction arises, it is also difficult to resolve, which is a great hidden danger for marriage.
3. Marriages are prone to breakdown. Although it is said that it is not a marriage with someone you like, it must be perfect, but in comparison, a marriage with someone you like is indeed more stable and long-lasting than a marriage with someone you don't like, and marrying someone you don't like, the possibility of marriage breakdown is very high.
Hello, it will be uncomfortable. If you don't like it, without him in your heart, it will definitely be uncomfortable to get married, and you don't want to pay too much for him, if you don't like it, you can choose to let go, I hope mine will help you.
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