How to forget a person completely?

Updated on society 2024-07-24
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    First, take your attention away from him.

    Don't look at his circle of friends, don't go to the party where he is, and don't deliberately understand what happened to him recently. In fact, no one is as normal as they imagined. When you don't have any contact with someone in your life, it's easy to forget about it.

    It's like our former junior high school classmates, high school classmates, and even our first love. Those who haven't kept in touch all the time, we now have a person who can recognize who is at a glance and call out his name. Even in the first love, what we remember is often only that feeling, not the person.

    Second, find something to enrich yourself and keep yourself busy.

    When I'm busy, I don't have the heart to think about some messy people and things. You can read more books to improve your self-cultivation. You can go to the gym and meet some new friends at the same time.

    You can also ask a few friends to go out on a trip to see the outside world, breathe fresh air, and change your mood. Don't always confine yourself to a small space and suppress yourself.

    Or, as the saying goes, the way to forget a relationship is to start a new one.

    Basically, this method is hard to come by. After all, it's a small chance that someone can show up so well, and even if there is such a person, you may not want to be with him. And it is very irresponsible to be with him if you don't like him.

    In short, it's hard to forget about someone, but once you've decided, there's a way. The most painful thing is not the process of forgetting, but the time when making a decision. Many people struggle with whether or not to forget.

    When you decide to forget about him, don't always think about how to forget, like I said, take your attention away and do something else. You will find that soon, this person seems to be less important in your heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is certainly not easy to completely forget about a person. The reason why you want to forget this person is that you probably had a deep relationship with him before, but for some reason your relationship may not be the same as before, and it may even hurt you, so you want to forget him.

    In your mind, there should be a lot of images of you and him. When you think of this person, these images will constantly and consciously come to your mind. Because of your later relationship, you will feel a lot of pain every time you think of him.

    That's why you find a way to forget about him completely. But you will find that the more you try to forget him, the more you will be impressed with him. At the end of the day, you find that you can't forget him at all.

    At this time, I think what you need is for you to face your past with him correctly. Only by tearing that wound open vigorously will the pain stop after the pain has passed. You should not focus on him, you should face this fact with a calm mind, knowing that this fact already exists objectively.

    Collect all the things around you that are related to him, hide them, or put them in a place where you can't see them, because you will think of him whenever you see them, and it will not help you forget him.

    You can also spend your energy and time in one area, such as work or study, and when your time is spent in these areas, you can think about that person without flawlessness. Keeping yourself busy is a great way to forget about a person. If you can keep doing this, for a year, two years, three years, then that person will become less and less in our impression.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In our daily lives, we meet a lot of people. But not everyone needs to be remembered all the time; On the contrary, some people should be forgotten as soon as possible, otherwise it will cause great harm to our body and mind, and it will also affect our daily life. So, how quickly do we forget someone?

    First, stop thinking. Many people like to reminisce over and over again when things have passed, especially those who have just fallen out of love. But these have no meaning, the past has passed, no matter how much you miss it, it will be sent back, but it will make you more and more nostalgic, more and more sad, and you will never be able to forget.

    We need to forget those things as if they were ordinary little things, and try to let go.

    Then, clean up everything that has to do with that person. In the past, the two must have given each other a lot of gifts as a souvenir. However, there is no need for a memorial now.

    When I see those gifts, I always think of the bits and pieces of the past and each other, and then the memories reappear in front of me again, vividly, so how can people forget it. The role of gifts is to commemorate, and since they are no longer needed, then those gifts have become "waste", and there is no need to keep them, but they are harmful to themselves.

    Second, try to keep yourself busy. Many people like to think about the most important things in their minds as soon as they have free time. Although we want to forget about each other, but our minds must be all about each other, so we can't let ourselves be idle.

    In TV dramas and movies, there are often scenes where you spend all your energy on work after falling out of love, which is indeed a good method. When we're busy, our minds are all about other things, but what about each other?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's almost impossible to completely forget someone, you want to forget that he must have done something bad to you, and you have had good memories before. If you want to make yourself less miserable, you can choose to find someone again, maybe your better memories will make you gradually forget the other person, but no, because someone else or someone who hurt you to make yourself more sad, that will only be more unworthy, isn't it?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    Approach life with a happy mood and a happy attitude. You will say that I tried, but I suffered too much, how can I be happy? This may be related to the influence of genetics and personal childhood experiences, according to experts, different people look at the same thing in different ways, some people look at the positive side, some people look at the negative side.

    It's not easy to have a good mood every day, and it's still possible to be happy often, which you need to reverse yourself.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello! It is not so easy to forget someone, in fact, what we need is not to forget that person, but to get out of that relationship and start a new life.

    First of all, choose to disconnect and delete all the information so that you no longer have any connection with the other party. The process is sure to be long and painful, and you can find something for yourself to do to divert your focus and attention.

    Secondly, we will emotionally go through the process of non-acceptance, entanglement, and repetition, and slowly begin to understand that everything that happens is a foregone conclusion and cannot be changed. It's a natural process that takes time.

    Third, taking care of your diet and daily life, but also taking care of your body and mind, and paying attention to what you have will make you more fulfilled than paying attention to what you have lost. Talk to your friends and do things that make you happy.

    Finally, go back to the present, think about what we need to do, what kind of life we want to live in the future, and then work hard.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Forget. A heart-wrenching question. To say that you are completely forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be linked to the past, you will not be able to forget the past.

    Don't run away, it's useless to regret it. Is that right? Isn't there a saying that says?

    You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in a lifetime. That's love! Heh, forget?

    That's impossible, it's unrealistic, it's better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to have no time to miss than to forget. Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better. Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possible, maybe there is your sweetheart inside...

    When you have to come into contact with him [her], try to be as normal as if he [she] is an ordinary friend...Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to be empathetic...Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "tomorrow is another day."

    I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person". Put aside all selfish distractions. Cherish what you have now.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forgetting someone who has rubbed shoulders with you doesn't take time because it's not remembered at all.

    Forget that it takes a day for someone to smile at you, because that smile may bring you a good mood for the day.

    It takes about half a year to forget someone you've played with, because happy memories aren't deep, and you only think about them occasionally.

    Forget about the person you meet on your travels, at least until your next trip, because travel is all about chance.

    Forget a friend who left you for a lifetime because friends have relied on each other.

    It will take a lifetime to forget someone who once loved you, because his existence proves your own meaning.

    What about forgetting someone you've loved?

    Practice tells us that 3 years is not enough.

    My gut tells me that one lifetime is not enough.

    The facts tell me that there is no need to forget ...... at all

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't try to forget something or someone, it's counterproductive—not only can't you forget it, but you keep remembering it and adding to your troubles. People should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery, the original mood, why should they be so persistent? Let go of your baggage, relax your mind, and live happily in the present minute, maybe in the near future you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lovers at the next intersection of life.

    People are always wonderful, when you have loved someone with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, forget the bad completely, let the good be buried in the depths of memory, don't think too much, live every day of the present to the fullest and happy, and face the people and things in the future happily. Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him.

    Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but you can't remember anything!You may even wonder if the story of the past belongs to you. It's really about fate between people.

    Since you propose to break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate can only go so far. In that case, why can't you let go?To be a man, you should always be able to afford to take it and put it down!

    No matter to people or things, if you just can afford to take it but can't let it go, it is not a good thing for yourself or others, I hope you can understand the truth.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, the more you want to forget, the deeper you remember, don't always think about how to forget him, just let it be.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Unless there is no love, it can't be.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you love another person with all your heart, it will become weaker and weaker with time and distance, but it seems to be more difficult to forget everything, but if you love someone again, you don't care.

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