He s been hurt emotionally, so he s always defensive?

First, you need to forgive him. If a boy is deeply hurt by feelings, then he will consciously guard against all girls. You too.

What you have to do is to stay with him all the time, use your sincerity to soothe his wounds, believe me, although it will take a long time, but the effect is good. One day he will know that you are different from the girl who hurt him, and there will come a time when he will no longer be on your guard.

The second is to ask his good brother to talk to him. He should look forward and not stay in the past. Not every girl will hurt him.

Not every relationship has a good outcome, it will always hurt, just hurt it, don't care too much. He should be more attentive to his brother's words, and if someone enlightens him, he will think clearly and quickly.

Third, it's time for you to talk to him yourself. He was insecure.

Target. You go and give him a sense of security, tell him that you won't hurt him, and hope that he won't be so defensive of you, and you'll be sad. It doesn't matter if you can't be together in the end, you won't get to the point of hurting each other, and you'll definitely get together and break up.

That way, I think he'll feel a little bit safer.

He's very defensive about feelings, and this thing couldn't be more normal. It is very understandable that a person who has been deeply hurt in a relationship and no longer accepts a new relationship easily. The deeper the love, the deeper the wound, this sentence must be true.

He doesn't want to get hurt again, so he's careful, but that doesn't mean he won't accept a new relationship. It's just that he needs to come out of the pain of the past, and he needs someone who can really make him open up.

You like him, but I don't know how much you like him. If you really like her, I believe that as long as you work hard enough, it is not impossible for him to open up. It's just that it's not going to be easy.

Companionship is the most affectionate confession, and the deep pain in his heart is not something that can be solved in a day or two. I think if you want him to accept you, you can spend more time with him on a normal day. When he is happy, you laugh with him, and when she is sad, you comfort him.

The bits and pieces of daily life will always leave a little mark on his heart. Drip stone wear, slowly one day he will know your good, he will know that there is a person who really likes him. He will slowly learn that you are a person who deserves to open up again, but only if you really like him.

If you don't have true feelings, I'm afraid you can't easily impress him, after all, he has been injured, and he won't let another person into his world easily.

Feelings hurt, but they can also make people happy. But you can't give up on a relationship for fear of getting hurt, it's very unwise. Love needs to be cultivated well, not in a day or two. Chase, open his heart.

For the current post-90s, in fact, it is very common for things like love. If we want to find a boyfriend or girlfriend in college, they will more or less have ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends, they will all experience love, and they will also understand the difficulties and benefits of falling in love.

We met a man who had been physically and mentally hurt by feelings in a relationship. We have to treat them the right way, if we don't treat them the right way. We're going to lose this person, so it's not easy to date someone else. <>

First of all, we have to talk about our daily life, we must be very optimistic every day in life, and we can't let ourselves be in a bad mood. If we are in a bad mood, it will arouse the boy's bad mood.

We all know that when people are in a bad mood, they think of something sad or sad. I keep them optimistic every day just to keep these things from popping up in their minds again.

Next we're going to get their friends. The mouth learns something about his previous love story. When we get along with him, we try to avoid the unhappy and unpleasant things that he has experienced before.

Then it's about making yourself good enough to keep the other person's heart in you and not thinking of anything else sad. Remember, be sure to speed up your time with her and get him into your relationship as soon as possible.

Get out of the last relationship as quickly and completely as possible. Let your lives not be disturbed by the sad emotions of the past.

People are like that, and only when they let him go into another state can they forget what they had experienced.

It can be seen that you have not been completely injured, and if you are completely injured, you will know how to be heartless. Why do you have no heart and lungs, it's just that you meet a scumbag, why bother to make your future life lose its color. Originally, we had the right to choose happiness. Look at the opening point.

It's been less than half a year since I was divided, and I think of that person who is disgusting, and I have forgotten what he looks like, and there is nothing I can't forget.

It doesn't have to be like this, if you hurt the other party, do you have a good conscience?

Find another suitable one, after a long time, you will forget about it after seeing too many things.

Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of the well rope! Very insecure. Such a man needs a woman to be stronger inside. If you really love her, take more time to enlighten him and guide him out of the shadows, otherwise get out of the shadows.

Such a person is very affectionate, and I am quite similar to your boyfriend, for every paragraph.

Feelings are very serious, and when they are together, they don't want to separate, but they often ignore each other's feelings. My previous girlfriend left me, just because I didn't tell her anything, no matter how big the grievance is, I don't want to say it, in fact, we are not malicious harm, we just want to keep the pain to ourselves, good things will be shared together, for your boyfriend, as long as you treat him well, don't blame him for being weird, then you will be very happy, bless you!

I've been deceived by you too much.

deceived to the point of numbness, and became suspicious Zhi is a normal person dao

Thinking, if I don't become suspicious, I will answer that I am an abnormal person, people say that a fool will be deceived a lot, and he will slowly become smart, what did you learn from the society, Huang Xin, you are this wisdom, IQ also came to tell me that you are suspicious, you are not my girlfriend, you will die there, and I have a half-dime relationship? As soon as I talk about it, my brain is on fire.

If you love him, treat him well, men are vulnerable. You'd better be his mom and his daughter, and you'd better be your girlfriend.

As long as he loves you enough, he will give you a sense of security, I don't think he loves you very much, your situation reminds me of my ex-boyfriend, he was also dumped by his girlfriend who has been punished for six or seven years, and it will be very tiring to be with this kind of person.

Time will change everything, and it takes time to let go of a deep relationship after five years of love.

As long as you are good to him, you will be fine after a while, from another point of view, doesn't this just show that he is very infatuated? Isn't that what you need?

It's hard for him to fall in love with someone else, his heart is full of memories, and other women are not important to him.

Men who can't forget their past feelings will eventually leave you.

will not easily open the door of love, and be on guard for fear of being hurt

He doesn't trust a person easily.

If you treat him well, he will be good to you, my husband was dumped very much, he knew that his ex-girlfriend stepped on two boats, and he didn't let go, and finally dumped him, and now we are not okay too.

I don't know, my boyfriend too, but he loves me a lot now.

Exchange sincerity for truth, there will always be someone who opens the door of his heart.

He probably won't take it too seriously unless you give him hope of getting married

Men are different from women, they know what to do even if they are injured. Nothing to care about.

You can communicate and talk to him well.

Love is just a part of life.

Dear, talk more and let him get out of the knot.

I will cherish this hard-won fate.

The writing is okay, but I don't know what you want online? I want to take a while for so many words, right? There's time you can use to apologize and make amends.

And your mother calls you ** because she cares about you and misses you, but you feel annoyed, from this point of view, you really have to review yourself, not your simple unreasonable trouble.

Okay, don't talk about it, those who understand don't need to say much, why bother to say it if you don't understand, I wish you happiness in the end.

I'll give you an analysis, from these perspectives, he is still reluctant to break up with you, you can try to lower your posture to redeem, but don't dwell hard, because if a man doesn't like a woman, it's useless to keep it, those who believe in providence are fake, if you really love, you should grasp it well, not to believe in what providence, I just want to say, if you really love him, go and keep him.

If you still really love him, if you are willing to change something for him, you must find him, such a man is very good and rare, and it is not easy to do so much. Remember, don't miss the last train, don't miss someone who loves you dearly. So, try to change yourself, don't be too willful, and love and cherish such a good man.

Agree with your boyfriend, the best I can give you is not what you want! As for you, let's live a good life after introspection, don't toss!

If you don't love him, say that, and if you love him very much, don't say such sad things.

He is really a very infatuated person, if I can have such a boyfriend, I will definitely cherish him, love him, will not make him sad, my boyfriend is similar to you, once I broke up with him, he cried for a whole afternoon, I listened, and cried, I feel that there can be a man crying for you, he really loves you, he can tolerate any lack of you, can endure everything that you have, proves that this man really cares about you, really loves you, of course, this is also what I think, Finally, I also hope that your girlfriend can return to you as soon as possible, and be able to grow old with you and live happily...

Do you want us to help you say how hateful you are?

Only when you lose it do you know how to cherish it In the future, you will never meet such a good man again.

Then you go to find him, he loves you so much, it's not easy to find someone who loves you so much, you have to grasp it well, you must find him, in fact, I'm the same as you, but now I'm married to him, and I'm very happy. I hope you all have a happy life.

Many things are very realistic, I have always lived in fantasy, when my own ideas are different from others, I am very disappointed, and the growth of people must be brave to face the reality and live in the present.

You identify your shortcomings and move on to your next relationship. If there is still him next time, you must cherish it and don't miss it.

Forget it, you.,It's useless to write so much.,Pure fragmentation is to show that you are self-inflicted.,,You're making a mistake.。。 So it's useless to regret it!

What you can't get is always in turmoil, and what you love is always fearless... I don't know how to cherish... There will be no happiness of love...

Only when you lose it do you know how to cherish it. The price of youth. Cheap love can't stop the flush of time.

Only when you lose do you know how to cherish, those who understand don't need to say much, why bother to say it if you don't understand, and finally wish you happiness.

If you don't cherish it yourself, who can blame you? It's hurt people like this, and you're still in the mood to write it on the Internet.

Recognize yourself clearly, and you will manage the next relationship well.

The lie will come true after telling it many times, so you have to think about it yourself.

- - You brought it on yourself. Your happiness just slipped away.

Everything is fate, it depends on the will of God, if you still love him, go back to him

What's the point of cherishing it after losing it.

It's up to you, you know that your girlfriend is very sensitive, you have to care more about her, be sincere to her, don't lie, the most important thing is to give your girlfriend a sense of security and take care of her.

Don't be in a hurry at this time, if your girlfriend's last relationship is too unforgettable, then you can only help your girlfriend get out of this relationship through some small care of yourself in the flat factory, and take care of him meticulously.

You can coax her, you can't say anything about your last relationship, you just have to be good to her. If your girlfriend's last relationship is too unforgettable, then you can only take care of it by yourself in the flat factory.

She was hurt in her heart in the last relationship, and at this time, as her current boyfriend, she has to heal well, and she must use practical actions to influence her and give her a sense of security.

I think that since he has become your girlfriend, it is better to talk to him seriously about this issue, let him try to accept you, and of course, make him feel safe in your behavior.

You can coax her, you can't say anything in the last relationship, you just have to be nice to her. But people's last relationship was very hurt, why can they still fall in love with you before they come out?

Your instincts are right. Usually flamboyant men are unreliable. There is no need to know him any more. Waste of time.