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Between lovers, it is inevitable when quarreling, sincere apologies are selfless giving, and do not need anything in return, if the two still want to return to the previous strong and sweet love, it is important to learn to apologize.
I want you to apologize to me! "If you get to the point where you ask someone for an apology, then you have to think, is this apology worth it? This kind of apology is like a beautiful plastic product, shiny, and even very useful, but if you look at it from a distance, it will eventually become garbage.
So, what kind of apology is successful?
1. Show your regrets.
It's simple, "I feel terrible." "I didn't sleep well last night. ”
2. Promise not to commit it again in the future.
From now on, I will consult with you in everything; I won't repeat the same mistakes. ”
3. You are fully responsible.
Explain to yourself simply, don't justify yourself, don't be too verbose, you can say: "I was under a lot of pressure at the time, which affected my judgment, but it was all excuses, and it was still my fault. ”
4. Don't expect anything from the other person.
Apologizing and being forgiven are two things that are not necessarily related, and apologizing is like you leaving a gift at the door, and hoping that the other person likes it, and expecting to be forgiven is to let the other party express gratitude for the gift you gave.
5. Express with body language.
Put your arms down, look into the other person's eyes, and put your upper body close to him (her), you are not trying to protect yourself, you are not asking for anything, don't think about yourself, you are going to give, give him (her) comfort, feel safe, heal the harm you have caused him (her), apologizing is a kind of giving.
6. Resonate with the other party.
I probably can't imagine the hurt and distress you've been under, it must be bad, right? ”
7. Let the other party vent.
This is the most crucial step in the whole apology process, if you do something wrong, then everything is over, when the hurt person says, "yes, it's all your fault, you're a stupid, you look like a retarded person!" "Normally, you might want to refute, scold back, or even go even more so than he or her, but you can't!
Take a deep breath and you have to let him out, which is a necessary stage of your reconciliation.
A sincere apology is selfless and does not require anything in return.
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Summary. It's not that troublesome, just admit your mistakes. Be honest, and it's better not to do it again.
Actually, the average man won't care too much, if he really wants to be good to you, he can tolerate you a lot, and he will coax him when he goes back, the man is so coaxing, a few good words, soft words, a small guarantee, it's OK.
I'm sorry, I broke your heart, please forgive me, I will love you and love you for the rest of my life.
I was wrong! went to jump into the sea and was beaten back by the waves, which means that the queen mother has forgiven me, do you still blame me?
I'm a, but trust me, I didn't mean to. Can you forgive me? My dear.
If you make your boyfriend angry, how can you get it back.
Okay , wait a minute and I'll sort out the answers.
It's not that troublesome, just admit your mistakes. Be honest, and it's better not to do it again. Actually, the average male rolling song person will not care too much, if he really wants to be good to you, he can tolerate you a lot, and when he goes back, Dayuan Zheng coaxes him, the man is so coaxing, a few good words, soft words, a small guarantee, it's OK.
Coquettish, coquettish.
Thank you. You're welcome to wish you happiness.
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Sometimes there is a conflict between couples, there must always be a person who bows his head first, and he should take the initiative to apologize after making the man angry.
1. Husband, I know you hate me and are disappointed in me, but I really want you to be good and don't want you to worry about me.
2. I see! It's my fault, it's none of your business! Your heart is bitterer than mine!
I'm learning to change. Maybe I'll still make mistakes, but there will be fewer mistakes and things will get better! The wife will work hard to reduce the occurrence of this situation, and strive to be a good wife who is loved by everyone and sees flowers blooming.
3. Husband, you are the love of my life, I like you and will always love me, let's not let each other get hurt again, okay? Forgive me for my mistakes, after this lesson I will love you more and love you, people who love you all your life dare not face your gaze, I know it's wrong, you have a lot, forgive me, okay?
4. The person who loves you deeply is repenting, if it is my carelessness that caused this mistake, I hope you can forgive me! If you can't forgive, I can't forgive myself! Don't tell me, you're really angry.
Actually, I know because you care about me! And all I can tell you is: I'm sorry!
5. I know your current job is really tricky, I'm sorry I shouldn't always wronged you with those boring things, everything will go well, I will wait for you obediently.
1) It's all my nonsense, I'm sorry, I won't talk nonsense anymore, please forgive me!
c) I know. You must be angry. Because I see: your hair is blowing up.
4) Although we often quarrel, and what we say to you is angry words, I still love you very much in my heart.
5) A little woman, but I like you very much. In the future, Mengzheng will never make you angry again, miss you, miss you, and can't wait to gnaw you!
6) I am no longer angry with you, and an open-minded and respectable person like me will definitely forgive you for still being angry with me!
7) Maybe it's because I don't know too much, maybe it's my fault, maybe everything has been slowly missed, but I still look forward to your understanding and care!
8) Maybe it's fate, we don't want to hurt the person we don't want to hurt the most, but it still happened, believe me, because I love you, let's cherish each other!
9) Don't be angry, I'll guess a riddle for you, okay? You owe me five dollars, but you pay me back ten. Can't guess it, can you? The answer is ......I owe (apologies)!
10) Under the starry sky, I am waiting for you, the starry sky is the eye of my hope, illuminating the road ahead for you, waiting for the sky that belongs to you and me, I want to say to you: I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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Summary. Hello, it's a pleasure to serve you Boyfriend is angry is very simple to coax, as long as you don't put on a show, appropriate coquettishness, all say that the boy will be like a child in front of the person he loves, then it's very simple, touch his head, say something soft, apologize, as long as the two people can communicate calmly, there is nothing that can't be solved. And know where his bottom line is, as long as the things that make him angry don't touch his bottom line, most of them can be solved in a relaxed and ambiguous environment, but if the impact of this matter on him is very serious, it may lead to a crack in your relationship, then you have to be ready to apologize seriously.
In fact, you don't have to be so serious, the relationship needs two people to maintain and communicate more.
Hello, it's a pleasure to serve you Boyfriend is angry is very simple to coax, as long as you don't put on a show, appropriate coquettishness, all say that the boy will be like a child in front of the person he loves, then it's very simple, touch his head, say something soft, apologize, as long as the two people can communicate calmly, there is nothing that can not be solved. And know where his bottom line is, as long as the things that make him angry don't touch his bottom line, most of them can be solved in a relaxed and ambiguous environment, but if this matter has a very serious impact on him and may lead to a rift in your relationship, then you have to be ready to apologize seriously. In fact, you don't have to be so serious, the relationship needs two people to maintain and communicate more.
Kiss can use these words:1I just want to say:
I don't mean to be angry with you, just because I love you, I don't want to say more, I just hope that you will forgive me. 2.Although the lips and teeth are interdependent, there are times when they bump; Although the mountains and rivers depend on each other, there are times when they collide; Although you and I depend on each other, there are times of quarrels.
At this time, at that time, quietly hope that my apologies will be sent to the time of the return of the calendar, and your anger counts down. I'm sorry from the bottom of my heart, and I ask you to forgive me.
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