Should I forget about him or stay with him

Updated on psychology 2024-07-31
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you still love him, don't care so much, even his shortcomings love together, no one is perfect, if you don't love him, then break up, you don't have a setback, you won't grow up, and you will see a rainbow after experiencing wind and rain. If you are reluctant, then give yourself a period of time to figure out your affairs, and then decide whether you should break up, but I personally think that you should give up, and you will have to give up, isn't it, good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Give him up. Such a man can give you happiness for a moment.

    But his personality and temper are very difficult to change, or even impossible to change.

    Don't be soft-hearted and forget about him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Give up on him. If you don't feel like you should give up, then you won't be asking this question here.

    Don't be a stupid woman, you must know how to withdraw in time and leave the seemingly beautiful place where there will be no happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Just looking at what you said about his shortcomings, it's enough for me to forget that there are a lot of people in the world Remind you that no one is perfect.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Without him, what is there to be nostalgic for such a man!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you love her, give him a chance!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forget? You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't forget, her life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, There should be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma and dilute everything unpleasant, let's wait for the person who can heal the pain for you as soon as possible, okay?

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

    No plagiarism. Heavy personally!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think you should go back to him, because you have to know that he was at fault in the first place, that he did something sorry for you. That's why you left, and after you decided to leave, he didn't keep in touch with you or look for you again. Therefore, he may not recognize his mistakes, and he is not worth looking for.

    It's hard to forget someone, but with the right approach, forgetting someone is as easy as eating and drinking. Although there may be some unaccustomed to it at first, as long as you work hard to restrain yourself, your psychological quality will mature a lot. Therefore, the first thing that needs to be done to forget a person is to get used to it.

    Maybe during the meal, you will remember the scene of two people having fun together. Maybe when you go shopping, you will remember the scene where he carefully selects clothes for you. But you have to remember that you slowly get used to doing these things alone, cry when you want to cry, and you can forget about him in less than a month.

    Don't deliberately forget on the way to forget, because everyone is like this, and the more you want to forget someone, the more you can't forget. So what we should do is to accept reality, recognize reality, and adapt to reality. Then cheer up, improve yourself, and make yourself good enough to have more choices in the face of later life, rather than being chosen.

    People make mistakes, but more people know that they are wrong, but they never accept it and do not change, such people are not worthy of being cherished. There is also a kind of person who is willing to accept the consequences of his mistakes and should be borne, and such a person is worthy of forgiveness. Therefore, learn to judge whether a person deserves to be forgiven from what he has done.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to have a problem in your heart. If there is no one to help you resolve the conflict, you will always remember the harm that this incident caused you, and then you will break out together when you encounter problems, and there will always be a gap in your heart. It is recommended not to look for it, if you are separated, you will be separated, and there are more suitable ones waiting for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't go back, since you left him because of his mistakes, and you go back now and give him another chance. The next time he makes a mistake, he'll feel like you'll forgive him. Can you stand this life?

    Even if he doesn't make mistakes, that thing is a thorn in your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Although I know it's hard to forget, but he has done something sorry for you, there is no need to forgive if the matter is serious, you can consider it if it is not serious, and he didn't keep you You don't need to think about him, he is just the one who hurt you, you should be happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe you haven't met a better one. I also couldn't forget my ex-boyfriend for a while, but then I met someone better and I forgot about it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You spend time forgetting someone, and you're actually remembering someone. Downplaying the past feelings, when he is not so important, he will naturally forget. Find a new relationship to move on. Maybe time is the best antidote.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since he did something sorry for you, you left him again, and he didn't look back for you, then you don't go to him again. After all, it was his fault in the first place, he didn't keep you, and if you go back to him, you will give him a second chance to hurt you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It means that you are unwilling to do something. It's not about this person, it's just what happened between you, if this matter is solved and you feel comfortable, you will naturally forget about him, what's so good. The relationship that can break up is not good enough.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You shouldn't go, since you've both agreed to break up, maybe he already has a new girlfriend, so if you go to him now to reconcile, it's equivalent to slapping yourself in the face, so don't go.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As for a person, don't always try to forget a person after separation, because the harder you try, the more you may not be able to do it, after all, emotional things are like this, and he forgets them when you don't pay attention.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It still takes time to work it out.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The place is not important, if you can put your other (her) down, the place is naturally not there.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, whether you are in a good or bad mood, you want this person to accompany you, and the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, there is no requirement that the relationship is to pay for the Jiyu clan, not just to fight and want to ruin the film.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't think about how much you used to love each other. Think of her as the person you hate the most.

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