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Regarding people who deliberately look for trouble, their psychology is very simple, because they like to be lively, they like to see other people's unhappy expressions, that is to satisfy their vanity, it is recommended that you turn a deaf ear to the group, because if you are angry, they tend to be happy, and what others say about you is just someone else's opinion.
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That's because the other person's own emotions may not be good and need to be released, so they can only find something to do, which is sometimes understandable.
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It's just that some people are bored after work, and they want to find someone to chat, and they ignore him, so he tries his best to say, but people are unhappy, so it's boring, I wish everyone to cherish time, come on,
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There are all kinds of things in the world, and there are all kinds of people and all kinds of natures. In particular, some young people are energetic and have nowhere to vent. If they don't have the right hobbies and someone to guide them right, they may send all this energy to the evil path, the kind of situation you are talking about, and there is nothing to do.
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There are all kinds of people in this society. Some people like it because of jealousy or some other reason, and they have nothing to do. Just ignore it, and if you violate your own principles, then what should you do?
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There are many wonders in the world, some people can't manage their emotions well and become slaves to their emotions, and a mature person will manage their emotions and be the master of their emotions.
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Answer: People who have nothing to do are people who have nothing to do, who are bored every day, and how to pass the time if they don't have anything to do.
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A person who has nothing to do is a person who has nothing to do and has no sense of responsibility!
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The world, what? There is nothing to do when you are full. There's the kind of people you said who have nothing to do.
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For this person, there are only three ways to deal with it:
The first is to avoid and ignore it. The so-called "avoidance" here is "we can't afford to provoke, we can afford to hide". If there is really no way to avoid it, then just treat him as an air and transparent person, and no matter how he "does", you will ignore it.
The second is a face-to-face "hard bar". If he is looking for something when he has nothing to do, the "thing he is looking for" is related to you and harms your vital interests, then give him a "bar" back in person! And it's better to let him not get off the stage in public.
If this happens a few times, it may be able to make him remember more and be more restrained in the future.
The third is "to give back to the other in the way of others". Usually those who like to have nothing to do are like this, because they only "enjoy" the "fun" of finding things that have nothing to do, but they have never suffered the loss of being "nothing to do" by (others)! Therefore, another way to deal with this kind of person is to "treat others the way they do".
If he has nothing to do with you, you can also have nothing to do with him. You can even make an appointment with a few friends and deliberately put on a "good show" to show him, so that he can really suffer some "hardships" that he has nothing to do. So that he will be honest in the future! ~~
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For some people who have nothing to do and can ignore them, such people may be particularly empty. That's why they're going to behave like this.
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For people who have nothing to do, for this kind of person, we just don't have to pay attention to him, and then everything is reasonable, and when he finds this matter, we treat it as irrelevant, and we don't have to pay attention to it.
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The first person who has nothing to do, we had better stay away from him, and stay away, such people will not develop much.
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Just don't bother with him, such a person, if you don't bother with him, you won't be interested in looking for you.
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1. Dodge and evade;
Second, face it, and ask him directly. I guess you've met a bunch of people who make trouble and love to get ahead. At the same time, it also reflects that you are more timid and cowardly. What do you think?
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In the face of such people in my life, I will definitely ask the people around me for help, because I feel that they must be unreasonable, which will affect my life very much, and I will find someone to help me negotiate well.
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If it is a colleague, you must find an opportunity to be tough, so that he can't get off the stage. If it's a stranger, bear with it, more things are better than less, and it's not every day to meet.
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: To deal with someone who has nothing to do, first of all, you should occupy the place early.
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The most effective way to meet this kind of person is to hide as far as you can, and not to provoke him.
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You don't need these people to affect your emotions, you can not pay attention to him, as long as he does not affect you.
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Call the police directly and see what the police say.
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For people who have nothing to do, it is best not to take care of it, otherwise the more troublesome it will be.
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Try to have as little contact with him as possible, this kind of person can't afford to hide.
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At work, it is really the most infuriating thing to meet the kind of person who targets himself everywhere and has nothing to do. For those who target themselves everywhere, sometimes they are helpless and don't know what to do. It doesn't matter, it's too infuriating to learn these 3 methods to deal with those who have nothing to do!
Workplace 1Ignore Treat those who have nothing to do, and the best way to do it without getting upset is to ignore it. The more he looks for trouble, the more you should not be able to see it.
The more you talk to him, the more he feels that his goal has been achieved, and the more energetic he will become. The more you ignore him and ignore him, the more frustrated he will feel and he will sulk at himself. This is the best way to fix him, let him sulk on his own.
2.Counterattack. Don't always be submissive, the more you give in, the more others will gain an inch.
When you meet those who have nothing to do, you must not be intimidated, and you must learn to fight back. When looking for something again, go back to the past directly, and it is best to be reasonable and evidence-based, so that the other party is speechless. Of course, this trick should not be tried by the leader, it is risky.
When you meet a leader, even if he has nothing to do, you can't act too much.
3.Strength. Enhance your strength, build your own network, and let yourself climb on the head of this person who has nothing to do, so that he will not dare to target himself again.
When you reach a certain position, those who have targeted you will only come to you, and it will be very happy to rectify them at this time. However, when we reach a certain level, we don't need to worry about it anymore, after all, the realm is the same.
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Of course there is, and the most are colleagues, <>
1. Don't expect your colleagues to help you when they bully you.
Many colleagues are actually human spirits, one set of people in front of others, one set of people after another, see people talking about people, talk nonsense, see you quarrel on the surface of your indignation, in fact, they are all watching jokes, watching a lively mentality, the more fierce the noise, the more gossip they have after dinner. If you are a person who impulsively can't control his emotions, it is easy to have an accident, on the surface you ask for help, but in fact you are being used as a gun, and you regret it in the end.
2. When a colleague deliberately finds fault and troubles you, don't go to your leader to complain.
Don't go to the leader to complain because you have some reason, expect his support and let him support you. This will only backfire, because the leader will feel that you are not tough enough, you can't fight back, and you have to find others to support you, and you will definitely not be allowed to be a leader in the future, because you can't suppress others, can't hold up the scene, and can't even fight your colleagues. In addition, most of the smart leaders are not very good at standing on the sidelines, he also has nothing to do with himself, he will only say some words to comfort you, and will not uphold justice for you, but will think you are very annoying, and may even sell you, you know, believe me!
3. Learn to observe words and looks, and the enemy of the enemy is a friend.
You have to learn to observe the personnel form of the company. Who he has more contradictions with and who has a conflict of interest, and then you unite with his opponent, and you must remember that the enemy of the enemy is an ally, 4, no matter how arrogant the other party is, you must fight back.
How to fight back? The voice is louder than him, the confidence is more than him, he finds the door and wants him to go back in disgrace, don't swallow your anger, the more you instigate others, the more you will only get worse, the people who deliberately find fault are actually testing your bottom line, you think he is not afraid, as long as you are tough, he is also very afraid, this is a psychological game, there is a first time, there is a second time, you have to strangle him in the cradle, 5, do not self-condemn when you have conflicts with colleagues.
Some people will feel that they are not wrong, find a reason for themselves to admit it, and then they will have to get by, so that you will give everyone an image that you are very weak, and you will not be able to hide from those "bad people" when you want to.
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Looking for grass seeds in the cracks of the stones, I have nothing to do.
Go out of the yamen and scold the street for nothing to do.
It's okay to eat and eat and eat your teeth.
The drummers rushed to the market and had nothing to do.
Drink cold water, pick between your teeth, have nothing to do, and be poor to save face.
It's okay to come to the mouse and tease the cat.
There is nothing to find in the eggs, and there is nothing to look for.
It's too good for a dumb person to fall in love.
It's okay for the monk to live in a thatched hut.
The monk is fine sitting in the cave.
Cucumbers on dead branches are impossible, no one has ever seen what they don't have.
Spending money to buy a dead horse is worth the loss, and doing stupid things.
It's useless for a bald person to pick up a comb, useless, useless.
The Spring Festival couplets of the next year are useless, useless, useless, useless.
Gossip, it's not self-deprecating, it's boring, it's boring, it's boring, it's nothing.
It's not a good thing for a wolf cub to break into the sheepfold, it's not a good thing.
It's not a good thing for a jackal to invite a guest of a rabbit.
Holding candles to keep warm doesn't help, and it doesn't help.
Diarrhea and taking tonic medicine are useless and useless.
Stomach pain points, eyes and nonsense are useless, and the directors are not helpful.
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For this person, the way to deal with it is nothing more than the first three ways:
The first is to avoid and ignore it. The so-called "avoidance" here is "we can't afford to provoke, we can afford to hide". If there is really no way to avoid it, then just treat him as an air and transparent person, and no matter how he "does", you will ignore it.
The second is a face-to-face "hard bar". If he is looking for something when he has nothing to do, the "thing he is looking for" is related to you and harms your vital interests, then give him a "bar" back in person! And it's best to let him not come to the stage in public.
If this kind of situation happens a few times, it may be able to make him remember more and converge a little more in the future.
The third is "to give back to the other in the way of others". Usually those who like to have nothing to do are like this, because they only "enjoy" the "fun" of finding things that have nothing to do, but they have never suffered the loss of being "nothing to do" by (others)! Therefore, another way to deal with this kind of person is to "treat others the way they do".
If he has nothing to do with you, you can also have nothing to do with him. You can even make an appointment with a few friends and deliberately put on a "good show" to show him, so that he can really suffer some "hardships" that he has nothing to do. So that he will be honest in the future! ~~
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This kind of person who has nothing to do, you can recognize it at a glance, you will often watch them lose their temper, don't think that the object of their tantrum is not you, you will relax your vigilance, this kind of person who has nothing to do, if you provoke someone casually, the object of your temper immediately is you, for this kind of person is the easiest person to find trouble, this kind of person who has nothing to do, if he is in a bad mood, maybe a little thing will provoke others, this kind of person who has nothing to do, be cautious about this kind of person.
This kind of person who has nothing to do, that is, what we usually call those people who have pink eye, this kind of person who has nothing to do, if these people often have pink eye, they can't see others getting some small benefits, and even deliberately give others some small strategies, this kind of person who has nothing to do, when they meet someone with this characteristic, it is better to protect themselves, this kind of person who has nothing to do, don't let yourself have too much intersection with them.
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If you have nothing to do, then it is equivalent to the nosy you just said, this matter has nothing to do with you, and you want to intervene in it.
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