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The groom should accompany the bride back to his parents' home, and his family should prepare a "homecoming wine", relatives and friends should give gifts to the newlyweds, and give a speech to wish the bride and groom happiness and grow old together. There is also the custom of "teasing the groom" in some places among the Qiang people. That is, at the banquet of the return wine, the mother's family should use four-foot-long chopsticks for the groom, and also add a few chopstick pendants made of potatoes to the back of the chopsticks, and ask the groom to use this kind of chopsticks, and use a few oil lamps to clip the dishes made of diced meat and beans.
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Oh, you can't kiss her on the mouth until you're married.
I tried. As a result, we still didn't get married, so we kissed. You can have sex, but you can't kiss your mouth. It's as simple as that.
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The wedding of the Yi people retains many ancient customs, such as splashing water, smearing the face, fasting before the bride, and so on. In the Yi nationality, if the two parties have the same mind, the marriage can be held with the consent of the woman's parents, and on the day of the wedding, the tablet of the Yi family god of happiness should be enshrined, and when the bride is married, the bride's brother or younger brother should pour water on the groom.
What is the main area where the Yi people are located?
The Yi nationality is the sixth largest ethnic minority in China, mainly distributed between the plateaus and coastal hills of Yunnan, Sichuan, Guizhou and Guizhou provinces, and gathered in Chuxiong, Honghe, Liangshan and other regions.
In January 1979, the Xichang area, where the Yi people live in high concentration, was merged into Liangshan Yi Autonomous Prefecture, which is the largest Yi inhabited area in the country.
After the founding of the People's Republic of China, in accordance with the common will of the broad masses of the Yi people, the character "Yi" of Ding Yi was used as the unified ethnic name, and the ancestors of the Yi nationality were the ancient Qiang people.
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My hometown is in Dali Prefecture, Yunnan, and I am a girl of the Yi nationality, so I will talk about our interesting marriage customs.
1.Marriage proposal: In the traditional Yi culture, the marriage proposal is not carried out by the man, but by the woman's family or the patriarch to ask the man if he intends to marry the woman.
2.Avoidance: In Yi culture, there are many avoidances related to marriage, such as not being able to get married in the eighth month of the lunar calendar and the lunar month, and not being able to get married during funerals.
3.Walking marriage: In the traditional culture of the Yi people, many men and women will choose to get married, that is, live together for a period of time before getting married to get to know each other.
5.Carry the bride: When the bride arrives at the door of the new house, her sisters will carry the bride and block the bride at the door, and the groom will sing and answer questions next to him, and the correct answer will allow the bride to enter the door.
6.Banquet: In the traditional wedding of the Yi nationality, there are usually three banquets, which are the banquet before the wedding, the banquet on the wedding day and the banquet after the wedding. Each feast has different rituals and rules.
<> some of the wedding customs of our Yi wedding, it is also an indispensable and important part of the Yi wedding, which is very interesting.
1.Dowry items: In the traditional Yi culture, the woman's dowry is often composed of some practical items, such as pots and pans, textile utensils, etc., which are usually handmade by the woman herself, representing the woman's diligence and frugality.
2.Jewelry: At Yi weddings, the bride usually wears some unique ornaments, such as headdresses, earrings, necklaces, etc., which are usually handmade by the bride or her relatives, reflecting the exquisite skills of the traditional Yi handicrafts.
3.Bride price: In the traditional Yi culture, the bride price given by the man to the woman is usually some practical or commemorative items, such as blankets, handkerchiefs, pearls, etc., which represent the man's care and love for the woman.
4.Wedding car: At Yi weddings, the groom's wedding car is usually a tall carriage decorated with flowers and ribbons, symbolizing the groom's pride and handsomeness.
5.Folk performances: At Yi weddings, there are usually a variety of folk performances, such as singing and dancing, playing gongs and drums, playing monkeys, etc., which have strong local customs and are an important part of Yi traditional culture.
1. Choose an auspicious day (please date).
Choose the auspicious date for marriage on the invitation date of the ancient wedding custom "Six Rites". Generally, it is necessary to calculate the birth date of both men and women, and then determine the auspicious month and auspicious day in the year of the marriage, and then go back to determine whether the selected day is in conflict with the groom, bride, or other family members. >>>More
1. Send relatives and welcome relatives.
Sending off and greeting relatives is an indispensable process for every wedding. The groom needs to take the person to the woman's house early in the morning to pick up the bride through games such as finding wedding shoes, and at this time, the woman's family also needs to send several people to follow the bride all the way to the mother-in-law's house. >>>More
The man gives the bride price - and then the woman sends the dowry - the marriage, the wedding car picks up the bride - the wedding banquet - the cave room - the door, which is the more common wedding customs and processes in most regions at present, and the difference between the north and the south may be different in the wedding banquet time.
Parents meet, to the bride price "including what you said about the RV decoration home" varies from person to person, depending on whether the requirements are high, the price can not be said, almost have a house to save a little, decoration is a bottomless pit, see how to install. Probably the closet, bathroom, bedroom, closet, floor, balcony, the rest of the bought, the car also depends on what car you want, ordinary tens of thousands, good millions, "bride price can be more, that is, dry fold dry rolls, which means that the man does not care about all things, give the money to the woman to do it herself," set the date, the bride price, photography, registration, the wedding day is the same, but there are many sayings in the north, it is superstitious, but there are few people who do not obey the marriage, and the family has a house and a car of 100,000 almost,
Tea should be offered to the elders. Kneel and salute. There are red envelopes though.