What are the consequences of parents raising poor boys because of their own misconceptions?

It will cause boys to feel inferior in the process of getting along with girls, and they will feel that they can't give this girl the life she wants, and they will be reluctant to spend money in some places where they should spend, giving people a feeling of stinginess.

It is very likely that the boy will be very unconfident, and he will be more timid in the face of many things, and at the same time he will be very indifferent to spending money, and he will also have no opinions.

It will cause the child to be unconfident and dare not buy anything he wants, which will lead to the child being stingy and calculating. Unable to get material satisfaction, he often feels inferior in front of his peers.

Not self-confident, although it is said that boys should be poor and girls should be rich, but it is also necessary to have a degree, if the boys are too poor to raise boys, it will lead to boys in the process of communicating with others to have unconfident performance.

1.Temperament is delighted.

Some parents always talk about things like "I don't have any money at home", "You see how much I've spent on you", "If we spend any more money, our family won't have anything to eat", and so on, trying to achieve the goal of being poor. As everyone knows, after hearing this kind of words, children will have a sense of self-blame for themselves, feel that it is their own problem to have a bad life at home, and when they socialize externally, they will also have a feeling of inferiority because of their poverty.

Over time, their temperament will become abrupt and extremely unconfident, and everyone will feel that they are inferior and will not be very successful in doing anything in the future.

2.Insecurity.

A child's sense of security comes from his parents, but if he is too poor and deprives them of material things, the child will feel that his parents are not able to take sufficient care of him, and he may fall into a homeless or unfed predicament at any time, and he will feel uneasy.

When they grow up, they will be afraid to spend money, keep everything tightly in their hands, and behave very "picky", in fact, this is caused by uneasiness.

3.Very low self-esteem.

Children who are overly poor generally have a very low self-esteem, they will feel that they do not have the same material conditions as others, and they dare not go out to some occasions with medium or slightly higher consumption.

When buying things, pay more attention to the ** of the item, and sometimes it seems that every penny has to be counted. Moreover, when facing some big scenes, they often feel nervous and afraid, for fear that they will be embarrassed if they don't do well, or they will lose their ugliness by their own clothes, which is also one of the problems of being too poor and retaining them to return to blindness.

Family background cannot be chosen, but the education method can be chosen, and when educating children, more attention should be paid to spiritual "wealth".

1. Inner inferiority: Just like the boy mentioned above, he has been raised poor since he was a child, and some netizens said that because of the poor support of his parents, this boy doesn't know how many things he has lost! Because the phenomenon of comparison is very serious now, especially when I was a student, it was more rampant, and the last time my little niece said to my brother:

Dad, can you drive me to school next time, because everyone else is driving! Hearing this, I was shocked to feel that such a young child knew how to compare? Children's self-esteem is fragile and sensitive, if their family is not as good as others, they will be very inferior, it is difficult to be confident, so while raising children poorly, we must not ignore the spiritual education of children, tell children that there is no shame in no money, as long as they rely on their own hands, there will be anything in the future!

2. No temperament: It is often said that self-confident people have the most temperament, but poor children have been instilled with the ideas of "poor family", "can't afford it" and "to be obedient" since childhood, how can they be confident? Why is it that, in general, those with wealthy families will be more temperamental?

Because in ordinary life, children know that they are worthy of excellent things, and they are naturally full of self-confidence temperament.

3. Spending money on tiptoe: thrift is naturally a good thing, but excessive thrift is no confidence, some people are used to being poor when they are young, even if they are now grown up and have the financial ability, they still dare not slip into high-end stores, it has become a habit, and it is so easy to change?

1.Lack of awareness of the concept of money.

Many children who are poorly raised will feel that money is omnipotent, because when they are young, they realize the importance of money, and when they grow up, they will feel that there is nothing that money can't solve, and this distorted view of money will make children become mercenary, and they will be full of infinite desire for money, but they forget that although money is important, the wealth of the spiritual world is more important.

2.Very unconfident in getting along with people.

Children who have been raised by poverty since childhood will be very inferior, especially in the face of those who have grown up in good living conditions, this lack of self-confidence will be even stronger, because they are very afraid that the other party will despise Hu Zhi because of their poor economic conditions, and get along with others with this attitude, often becoming very low-profile.

3.The heart is sensitive, fragile and insecure.

Because I was raised poor since I was a child, I have experienced too much embarrassment and embarrassment because of money, and if I don't have enough money or a lot of money when I grow up, I will be very insecure, and I am very afraid of being treated and ridiculed unequally because of money when I get along with people, and my heart is very sensitive and fragile. Pants erect celebration.

Children who are raised in poverty often have some characteristics and psychological problems. These issues may affect their growth and future development. First, they may lack self-confidence and self-esteem.

Children who are raised in poverty often face problems such as poor living conditions and material deprivation, and feel inferior and inadequate compared to their peers. When interacting with others or receiving evaluations, they may have negative emotions and lack self-confidence and self-esteem because of their origins. Second, they may study harder and work harder.

Because of the family's financial situation, Hong's realized that only by working hard to improve their abilities could they change the situation, so they studied and worked harder. This is also one of the reasons why many poor children are successful. Third, they may cherish money and material things more.

Having experienced a life of material scarcity, they have a deeper understanding of the value of money and material things, and cherish and save more. In the future, they may be more cautious in the use of money and material things, and pay more attention to frugality and financial planning. Finally, they may have a strong sense of family responsibility.

Due to the poor financial situation of their parents, children who are being raised in poverty may begin to take on some of the responsibilities of the family at a very young age, such as helping with household chores, caring for younger siblings, etc. This experience may also make them more valuing their family and affection, and have a stronger sense of family responsibility.

Poor children are prone to the following psychological problems:1Inferiority complex:

Due to poor economic conditions, poor children may feel that they are inferior to other children, resulting in an inferiority complex. 2.Anxiety:

Due to the financial pressure of the family, poor children may feel the uncertainty of life and the uncertainty of the future, which can lead to anxiety. 3.Depression:

Poor children can feel powerless to change the status quo of the family, which can lead to depression. 4.Insecurity:

Due to poor economic conditions, poor children may feel that their lives and physical security cannot be guaranteed, resulting in insecurity. 5.Learning Difficulties:

Due to family financial difficulties, poor children may not be able to get good educational resources, which leads to learning difficulties, resulting in low self-esteem and anxiety. 6.Social difficulties:

Poor children may have poor social skills and emotional interactions due to poor family conditions, which may affect their social skills and emotional interactions.

1.Lack of awareness of the concept of money.

Many children who are poorly raised will feel that money is omnipotent, because when they are young, they realize the importance of money, and when they grow up, they will feel that there is nothing that money can't solve, and this distorted view of money will make children become mercenary, and they will be full of infinite desire for money, but they forget that although money is important, the wealth of the spiritual world is more important.

2.Very unconfident in getting along with people.

Children who have been raised by poverty since childhood will be very inferior, especially in the face of those who have grown up in good living conditions, this lack of self-confidence will be even stronger, because they are very afraid that the other party will despise Hu Zhi because of their poor economic conditions, and get along with others with this attitude, often becoming very low-profile.

3.The heart is sensitive, fragile and insecure.

Because I was raised poor since I was a child, I have experienced too much embarrassment and embarrassment because of money, and if I don't have enough money or a lot of money when I grow up, I will be very insecure, and I am very afraid of being treated and ridiculed unequally because of money when I get along with people, and my heart is very sensitive and fragile. Pants erect celebration.

1. Too sensible and slightly inferior.

It is said that the children of poor families are in charge of the family early, but the price of being in charge of the family early is to bear the social pressure too early. Many children from poor families will show a sensible side from an early age, know how to take the initiative not to ask their parents for things, know how not to cause trouble outside, and hide when they encounter things, although this can help their families reduce pressure, but for the growth of children, this will make children lose courage in retreating again and again, and develop an inferiority complex and cowardly character.

2. Fear of socialization and pleasing personality.

The second characteristic of poor children is their fear of socializing. Social networking requires content and capital, everyone plays games together, eats snacks together, watches programs together or goes out together, and these contents actually require a certain amount of money. This money may not need a lot, but children from poor families often get a zero in terms of pocket money.

Therefore, poor children either avoid fear of socialization and develop social fear when they grow up, or try to fit into the group with a flattering low profile, which is an incorrect interpersonal experience for children.

3. Lack of security and no ideas.

At the same time, poor children are also prone to insecurity, which is on the one hand due to the fact that parents are not at home with their children for a long time, resulting in children having no one to rely on; On the other hand, it is also the child's premature rotation to realize the importance of money and the fear of having no money in his hands, and he is often at a disadvantage in social life.

It's not terrible to be poor, it's terrible to "cry poor" with your children

In fact, "poverty" itself is not a terrible thing for education. Many outstanding talents come from the background of poverty, and even draw strength from the poor life, the real terrible thing is "poor support", is to cry poor with children.

Parents' lack of investment in their children's education, whether it is the lack of education funds or the lack of energy investment, will lead to the lack of material and spiritual resources.