How can I not hate the girl I used to like

When you look at all the injustices you encounter with a resolute attitude, and learn to forget, ignore, wait, and change, then the whole process of getting rid of troubles and pains becomes a process of growth, positive, calm, and serene ......

I think sometimes people are miserable because their memory is too good, falling out of love, and failing. I can't get out of that shadow.

When I was younger, my parents always talked about me"Well, the scar forgot the pain", contains critical and derogatory connotations, but"Well, the scar forgot the pain"Isn't it a way for all of us to protect ourselves and comfort ourselves. In fact, one of the important reasons why people can live a long and healthy life is self-regulation, which allows people to get rid of unpleasant things or memories that may affect their mood and health. Reflecting on the problem of memory, people generally forget most things, but only remember some things selectively or subconsciously, and being able to maintain this forgetting mechanism is the key to a person's success and happiness.

The great Indian thinker Osho has a wonderful description of forgetting when he says that when you are healthy, you don't know anything about your body – the body is forgotten, and when the body is sick, you can't forget it. If it weren't for a headache, would you have forgotten that you had a head? When you have a headache, you can't forget your head.

When the shoe squeezes the foot, that is, when it does not fit; When the shoe fits, you forget that the shoe exists. In a sense, health is forgetting, and illness is thinking – it becomes a sign of obsession in the mind, a constant tension.

In life, the best way to help others fight yourself is to directly remember those words that make everyone unhappy, the more you are"Nostalgia"The more you mutilate yourself, the more the person who doesn't want you to be happy will be proud. In this sense,"Retaliation"The best thing others can do is to ignore their malice, or at least to forget about it when it's already in place. The faster you put it down, the more you get.

Because you can forget things that you shouldn't and don't have to remember in time, and never care about temporary gains and losses, you can make yourself more bold and open-minded.

We need to be forgetful in life, we need a kind of relief from ourselves, don't use our strong memory to repair our fragile mind, give ourselves an excuse, be forgetful, then life may be happier!

Love and hate are inherently inseparable, it depends on your state of mind. Since you once liked it, then don't regret your efforts, if you don't regret it, you won't hate her. Emotional things can't be forced, since things have passed, let it pass, be a little chic.

When your heart is broad-minded, you will start a new life under the blue sky and white clouds.

I sympathize with you, in fact, love is a difficult thing to figure out, I want to ask, do you really hate her? Abhor? However, I want to ask you a question, are you still paying attention to her right now?

Want to know everything about her? That means you still love her now, and want to use love to cover up this love, if that's the case, then, there are two choices, start again, or find another one, otherwise, then only use time to govern, if there is no above problem, then it means Hehe, this is easy to do, anyway, no, how to talk about losing, laugh it off!

I wonder if LZ has ever seen My Girl ? If not, it is recommended to go and see it! Isn't that Youlin with Gongchan in the end, Jungwoo still didn't get Youlin, he finally blessed them, because love can't be forced, so don't hate her, she will know one day how wrong it is to lose you, so you have to be good to your current girlfriend, you can't lose her!

Try to keep your heart calm, and think more about how she doesn't deserve to be like this.

This involves your mind, emotional intelligence, attitude towards life, and so on.

How can feelings about a person be changed by a few words from someone you don't know online.

Then I don't care how I really feel, there's nothing wrong or right.

Time passes slowly, just let it be.

You are the master of your emotions.

It's impossible, but if you don't get love, you will have hate, this is the law of nature.

No matter how hard you try, you can only pretend that you don't hate her on the surface, but in fact, you hate her in your heart.

I think it's harder to be friends with a woman you've ever loved, and to be like a regular friend, than to confess to her.

-…Time will dilute all ......

Actually, I don't think there's any need to find a way not to hate her.

Hate is hate. When you figure it out, you'll naturally forgive her.

It's not that I miss her, I don't look at her, heaven and earth are -... with me and KayanTime will dilute all ......

40 don't be confused, hehe, time is the best emotional medicine! Now, the girls who have had grievances have been forgotten and have no deep memories.

...I'm just like you.

I'll tell you .

This shows that you are still in love with her.

It's true. Chase her back.

Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.

Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.