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If someone mentions it, you should say yes, my mother-in-law is very kind to us and often buys us all kinds of things.
In the future, when your mother-in-law knows this, she will think, not only does my daughter-in-law not complain that I exaggerate outside, but she can also play a round for the elders so kindly, she will think of her own shortcomings and biases in her heart, do you think she will find a chance to make up for you!
If you are dissatisfied and correct everywhere, your mother-in-law may hear about it, and a new misunderstanding may arise in the same way, and a small thing will become a small pimple, but for this little thing, do you think it is worth it?
If you are more good at doing things, and occasionally buy something for your little brother and daughter-in-law, your mother-in-law sees it, what do you think of her? I will secretly sigh at your generosity, and I will remember your goodness, and you will be the one who will praise you outside in the future! Even if you don't talk about it with a good face, how can you not know it in your heart.
People's hearts are warm, treat them in a warm way, how can the other party not give back to you in a warm way! Just take care of yourself.
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So what, without waiting for her to tell someone, you first go and say what she bought for you and what is delicious, and every day you take the meat and say that she bought it for your son.
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What's there to be angry about?
After a long time, you will see people's hearts, and it will be good for you to laugh when you hear this.
Use your righteousness to influence the people around you. Over time, everyone has their own opinion of you.
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If you want to continue to live, you must tolerate this, but if you have children, you must make it clear to your children, we still need to be honest. Get along with others, it is difficult to get along without sincerity, and if there is deception, it will hurt. As long as the lie is beneficial to the liar and hurts the deceived, it is really terrible for a long time, because the person who is not sincere to others for self-gain, ignores, and ignores the thinking and behavior that hurts people is rooted in the type of person who is not good in character and bad heart.
First of all, you should solemnly raise this issue with your husband, if he loves you, he will definitely seriously consider your proposal and communicate with his parents.
The best way is to tell your husband all your views on your family and their deception and lying, if you change it, it would be the best, if you have already said it, they will still be full of deception and lie in the future and do not treat your daughter-in-law as their own family, then give up decisively! The key is your husband, if he loves you enough and spoils you, his parents-in-law will not dare to deal with you with panic when he sees his son's face. Ask your husband if he wants to do it.
When the lie is exposed, I have a showdown with them directly, why lie to you? Why deceive you? Since they are already a family, it is too unreasonable to treat their daughter-in-law and wife like this, and they should reflect on it.
Strong people are qualified to speak, to stand up, and not to be afraid of their in-laws and husbands. Why are many married daughters, and the dowries that their parents buy are becoming more and more grand, because they are afraid that their daughters will be bullied in their in-laws' house if there is less dowry. This kind of thinking existed in ancient times, let alone in modern times.
Everything has a cause and effect. Let's see why, if there's something you shouldn't ask or know, don't worry about it. If you think you have to know, find a time to talk to your husband.
With strong economic ability, they are full of lies, your mother-in-law, you are a junior, you can't say it, but your husband has to clean up fiercely, record what they say, and if you don't admit it, you can take it out and let your husband listen.
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I think that if we find out that our mother-in-law is full of lies after getting married, we should communicate with our partner in time and discuss better countermeasures together in order to have a better life.
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Try not to live with your mother-in-law, otherwise there will be more and more conflicts, and you can choose to move out with your husband to live with two people to reduce the chance of meeting your mother-in-law.
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I don't think I need to worry too much about her. Because you are married to a husband and not a mother-in-law, as long as the two husbands and wives have a good relationship and understand each other, no one will affect your life.
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I should react to this matter with my husband, and I can also tell my father-in-law.
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When the mother-in-law feels that her words cannot be provoked, no matter how dissatisfied she is, don't be angry with the other party's words. If it is always like this, there will be a hundred new lies, do not return them to the other side with the same nasty words.
Then slowly adapt to the new environment, and don't feel that your mother-in-law is old-fashioned. You should keep a certain distance from your mother-in-law.
If it's a lie, it's wise not to confront it head-on. And the relationship between two women and a man who is very important to each other, if the mother-in-law is wrong, so as to achieve a carefree state of happiness, it can easily lead to unnecessary misunderstandings with the mother-in-law, or even complaining, asking the mother-in-law to help hold the baby.
But if you do this often, not only will it make your mother-in-law feel disrespectful, because doing so will not only make you feel disrespectful, but also treat it as your own mother. Since I'm with my mother-in-law,.
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Then I'm going to record it and I'll show it later.
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After all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is here, too ugly and not good, you can reduce the face-to-face communication with her as much as possible, there is really no way to communicate with your husband, of course, the best solution is not to live with her, your own small family is good, and it is best to keep a certain distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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For such a mother-in-law, we must stay away, don't offend her, and say more words of appreciation to make her happy, only in this way will it not hurt the feelings between you and your husband, otherwise the consequences will be very serious.
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I think the best way is to avoid contact with your mother-in-law as much as possible, and it is best not to live together, otherwise it will definitely have conflicts all day long, which will have a great impact on your mood and life.
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When you meet a super hypocritical mother-in-law, you have to be calm. Stay away from her. said that he didn't understand the reason, and hoped that his mother-in-law would forgive! Tell me anything. I'm going to do it beautifully! You don't have a relationship with a villain! The prime minister can ship in his belly!
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the focus of family conflicts, is it too much for you to describe your mother-in-law like this? Since we become a family, we should live in harmony, respect each other, tolerate and understand each other, truly compare our hearts with each other, empathize, improve our temperament, and build a harmonious family.
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Mother-in-law, it's better for you to take care of him less, don't live together, and there will be fewer contradictions.
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