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You have seen all the problems clearly, and all the contradictions still need to be solved by you in the end, because you are a manly man, a good man, and a person who has been brilliant!
All experiences are wealth, all you need now is to summarize the past, then plan for the future, and then implement it step by step.
Woe doesn't go alone last night", buddy, it's all in the past, isn't it? Everything can be done all over again – from now on, as long as you're willing to keep trying!
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Now you are in a low state, and you still have a wrong understanding, these beautiful things, are not managed by others themselves? Have you seen all the hard work behind it, the ups and downs?
It's just envy of external vanity, which is what you are bothering about now, flashy, the most disruptive and very illusory thing to deceive yourself.
The content of life is plain, it's good, it's hard, it's better, so that people can understand the preciousness they can get and know how to cherish it. If you lose your beauty at the age of 60, then the blow is even bigger than now, it may be your father's state, he can't regulate himself, he can't get out of the bad cycle, he doesn't want to deceive you, but he can't treat himself in the right way.
You've made a similar mindset mistake, think about it, if that's the case?
The correct concept and attitude are very powerful, supportive, affirmative, encouraging, and joyful, even if they are not going well, healthy and correct thoughts and self-reflection bring wisdom to themselves, not troubles.
Can you choose a new attitude towards yourself? Don't complain! Life is fair to you, but it's up to you to have the smart heart to understand what everything means to you! It's not about beating you, it's about getting you up after you fall.
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Bitterer than you. There are more people than you are sad. Their choice is to continue the struggle outside. Instead of complaining like you post here to know!
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You are not the happiest person in the world, and in the same way, you are not the most miserable person in the world. Thank you.
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The root of human suffering and disappointment is often to care too much about oneself. Forget yourself and serve the public in order to achieve ultimate happiness.
Like a dew drop under the sun, although it is crystal clear, it is always worried that it will be evaporated and dissipated into nothingness, so it suffers from gains and losses, depression and does not feel happy. In his short life, he is always shrouded in feelings of depression, pain, and disappointment. Why not let yourself be in the middle of the ocean?
Forget yourself and blend into the sea, no longer a dewdrop, but a part of the vast sea. When the dew melts into the sea, life is sublimated, and the bliss of life is here.
Paying attention to one's own pain and helplessness all the time is easy for people to lose their happiness and go to extremes. Forget about yourself, pay attention to others, help others, let your life merge into the immeasurable and boundless sentient beings, serve them, be anxious about what others are anxious about, and think about what others think. Instead, you will get real happiness and a sunny life.
So, when you are depressed and in pain, go and help others and use your own strength to help others solve problems. Care for others, be grateful to others, help others, and magnify "others" to the infinite toiling masses and all sentient beings. You will be amazed to find that your own problems are solved.
Your own pain is no longer pain. Dissolve ourselves into the world, and each of us will sublimate from the dew to the sea, and life will gain eternal brilliance and brilliant sunshine. All the gloom is gone, and all the pain is gone.
I think that the morning glow, the dewdrops, and the comet are short-lived, impotent, and miserable, and I think that the sun, the sea, and the universe are splendid, happy, and eternal.
When you encounter pain, despair, depression, frustration, or helplessness, help others, and after a long time, your own problems will be solved. Some people say that I have nothing and can't help others. I don't want to help people.
However, when you truly dissolve yourself into the common life, you will find that you are a valuable person. No matter how good you are, there is always someone better than you. No matter how painful you are, there will always be someone who suffers more than you, and there is always someone who is worse off than you.
As far as you can see, you can always help some people. In the beginning, you can make a plan for yourself to do a few good things every day. Slowly, it became a habit to help others.
Over time, you will find that you have become sunny and energetic, and you have seen through the things you couldn't see through before, and you have figured out the things you couldn't think of, and the things that made you desperate have become nothing more than that.
Friend, maybe you're having a hard time. But as long as you give yourself and integrate yourself into the sea. You will discover the meaning and value of life, and you will also get real happiness.
I wish you happiness. The following TCM prescription can regulate mood and relieve depression, anxiety and depression.
Try drinking some barley and jujube tea, which can regulate your mood and relieve depression. If you have the conditions, you can grasp traditional Chinese medicine, sweet wheat and jujube soup, soak in water to drink, boil medicine and drink it.
It should be read as wèi, and when "legacy" is used as "to give, send", it is read wèi; And the original meaning of yí is "lost".
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