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The ten manifestations of a woman's good cultivation are:
2. Elegant conversation: Educated people will listen carefully to each other's speeches and never interrupt others' conversations casually.
3. Kind attitude: When a cultivated person talks to others or even subordinates, he always looks into the eyes of the other party and maintains a high degree of concentration.
4. Calm tone: In dealing with people, be calm and convince people.
5. Conversation skills: respect other people's views and different views from oneself, patiently state one's own opinions, analyze things, and explain reason.
6. Never be proud: No matter how brilliant your life is, you will not turn your experience into a reason for pride.
7. Keep promises: Honesty is the consciousness of a cultivated person, even if he encounters some special difficulties, he will not break his word.
8. Caring for others: Whether the other party is a woman, a child or an elderly person, a cultivated person always shows concern and gives the greatest care and convenience.
9. Be generous-minded: Cultivated people are often open-minded when getting along with others, and will not have opinions with colleagues about work, or even cut off contacts.
10. Be compassionate: When others encounter some kind of misfortune, they will always do their best to give sympathy and support.
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It can be seen from the performance that women are not listened to when they speak, whether they dislike the poor and love the rich, look down on others, whether they like to laugh at others, and whether they like to talk about the strengths and weaknesses of others everywhere.
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See whether a woman can handle the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, see if a woman will have a special inferiority complex, and see if a woman will always think very highly of herself and always look down on others.
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They themselves will exude this temperament, they are particularly educated, they will make a good contribution to speaking, doing things and human feelings, and they are also very elegant in terms of dinner.
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Whether a woman is cultivated or not, and from what details can it be seen?
1. The most uncultivated woman always loses no time in making all kinds of noises to indicate her existence - of course, unconsciously, consciously doing it, which is even more hateful.
2. A woman's cultivation can be seen from the voice of her voice, and there are many people with a rough voice and a loud voice, but it is not necessarily a loud voice and no one else.
So, don't make excuses for your loud voice, no matter how loud your voice is, you can completely control it. When two people talk and a third person hears it, it is actually the impoliteness of the two.
3. When you are eating at the table, the woman opposite grabs a handful of toilet paper and blows her nose with a "sting" sound, how do you feel?
In fact, makeup, touch-ups, blowing nose, spitting, and picking feet are all very private things, and you can go to the bathroom to do it, or you can do it alone behind closed doors and in the bedroom.
4. There is a great intersection between uncultivated and uneducated. But many uneducated women are very cultivated, which comes from the upbringing of their family upbringing.
A woman who has no cultivation does not pay attention to her posture of sitting, lying and walking.
I sometimes look at women who walk like crabs on the outside, for fear that their toes will be crushed by the car.
5. In fact, it is very simple, from the posture of a woman washing her face, you can also see a woman's cultivation.
Cultivating is gentle rinsing and massage. Wipe the water from your face with a towel. And those who are not cultivated, most of them rub, rub, and rub vigorously.
6. Uncultivated women don't think about others at all.
Trampling on tables and chairs in public facilities, littering toilet paper, and falling loudly at the door. Either that or just don't close the door.
7. Look at the way a woman bends down to pick up things, you will understand what cultivation is, elegant, safe and not easy to get hurt; If you are not cultivated, you will be grinning and squatting with your knees open, similar to ( ).
8. Cultivation is written on the face.
Eyebrow tattoos, eyeliner, plastic surgery, makeup, and dressing up can all show a woman's cultivation. Is it decent? Or is it vulgar? I'm afraid the young man has the most vision.
9. Treat people and things, it is very clear that a woman's cultivation can be seen, she will look into your eyes to speak, and listen to your language attentively, capture your expression, decent and accurate, without losing proportion, and express appropriately.
10. Self-cultivation is from the inside out.
You can see what kind of hobbies and interests she has. knows the degree of her cultivation. Do you like to drink tea, like to read, listen to **, and be good at catering, or do you nest on the sofa, sleep lazy, brush Tik Tok, and live a boring life?
From a woman's eyes, looking at her cultivation, it is the best.
Some women have a flower outside, go home to tofu scum, and the house is so dirty and messy that it exhausts the garbage heap! This is also the most uncultivated category.
11. Look at a woman's cultivation from her aesthetics. If you look at the scenery she photographed, everything is clear.
Author: Ashang Aoko.
**Originated from the Internet.
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Speech and behavior, whether the dress is appropriate, the way and way of doing things, living habits, grooming, time concept, outlook on life, values, morality.
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From the aspects of this woman's speech and behavior, morality, interpersonal communication, dealing with people, and attitude towards people at the bottom of society.
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From the woman's speech and behavior, way of speaking, behavior habits, walking posture, table manners, dining etiquette, etc., you can see whether she is cultivated, and cultivated women perform particularly well on this surface.
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Tutoring, speaking, manners, treating people, and doing things. It can be seen from these aspects.
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A well-cultivated woman is more polite, things are like people, people are grouped, those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black, and women with self-cultivation will never talk nonsense behind their backs, and they will not be limited by their status.
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The attitude towards the elderly, the attitude towards strangers, and the education of children can tell whether a woman is educated or not. First of all, a woman who does not respect the elderly must be uneducated, and secondly, the attitude towards strangers directly determines the quality and pattern of this person. Another well-bred woman is sure to raise children of good character.
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See if she will say bad things about others behind her back, see if she will always be self-centered, and see if she will start using chopsticks when everyone is not together.
Some girls are not lazy with themselves, but they are lazy with their dormitories. All kinds of things are clean and tidy, but the hygiene of the dormitory never takes the initiative. Especially when you are sweeping the floor there, and people sit there and play with their mobile phones as a matter of course, you can have the illusion that the hygiene of the bedroom has nothing to do with her, and she deserves to come.
For me, I think girls with a clean and tidy appearance are very exquisite. The clothes have no creases and are ironed. There is no dirt on the shoes, no pilling or threading on the clothes, and no stains that cannot be washed off. >>>More
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Judging whether a woman is doing well or not, don't listen to what she says, just look at these small details.
The first point is to see if you have taken you to meet your parents, you can see whether this person likes it, your second point is whether you have the sincerity to do something for you, and the third point is whether you have more care and love with you, so you can see it.