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Your mother has learned that Buddhism is very rational, first of all, you must learn to be a good person, do a good job, not be a good person, do a good job, you are qualified to talk about being a good person, it is difficult to do a good job, it is even more difficult to be a good person, only on the basis of doing a good job can you talk about being a good person. If you study Buddhism and have a mess in your work and life, then it is not Buddhism at all, and you must learn to be smart, wise and capable, able to deal with all kinds of situations, and solve all kinds of affairs. Master Taixu said that only the Buddha is relied upon, and the achievement lies in the personality.

The circle of people is the Buddha, which is the true reality of the name.

As long as you truly study the Buddhist scriptures, accumulate virtue and do good, honor your parents, and do no evil, such "addiction" will be beneficial and harmless. If a student of Buddhism leads to superstition, she should be persuaded not to go astray when studying Buddhism.

The purpose of Buddhist culture is——Do not do all evil, do all good, and pursue self-purification。If we do not deviate from this purpose, we will do good.

But if you deviate from the purpose of the Buddha and engage in superstition, it will not be good. It is true that there are a few people who cannot distinguish the difference between Buddhist culture and superstition.

What is Buddhism like, why does my mother believe it, why don't I believe it, whether it is good or not to believe it, whether the Buddha is right, whether what I do is really out of filial piety or not, life is only a hundred years, where will you go?

It is recommended that you also read more Buddhist scriptures, and have common topics in order to have good communication with your mother. It is recommended that you learn about the Pure Land Method, the Pure Land Method is the most suitable for people now, why? Because the most special and the simplest, so simple.

It's as simple as simply reciting the six-character name of "Nan no Amitabha"! It can reduce a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings and friction.

It's a bit too much, but it's also a good thing, so it's better to be okay! My family, my mother also believes in Buddhism, and she goes to morning classes almost every day, and when she comes back, she still recites scriptures at home, but our family's practice is that it doesn't matter!

Oh my God, I'm in the same situation as you, I'm so troubled now, what should I do!! My mother is also extremely superstitious, she doesn't have the wisdom to understand those concepts, she can only twist them all into superficial rituals to blindly follow, and start to preach to the family around me, asking people to eat vegan, I can't stand it, every month she gives her money to release life to write what ancestors rank, not enough money to come back and ask me, and complain that I don't earn enough, I'm going crazy.

Why not think about the benefits of your mom. This is not superstition. Maybe he has something that he doesn't do as well.

You can encourage him to listen to Master Pure Space more and gradually he will understand the truth. Naturally, the bad behavior will be changed. Besides, you're a family.

It's good for you to release her

Learning Buddhism itself is a good thing, but now Chinese just lack faith. But there should be a degree. You shouldn't let your beliefs affect other normal lives.

A true student of Buddhism should focus on inner practice, not on various rituals, let alone on other people's problems. You might as well find out for yourself what true Buddhism is (Buddhism without superstition) and then advise your mother not to pay too much attention to the form, let alone interfere with the normal life of the family.

The existence of any religion is justified. Buddhism, on the other hand, is the wisest of religions. The blessings of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas to us are real, and you can slowly get in touch with Buddhism to understand it, which is the wisest choice.

Buddhism speaks of enlightenment, the highest wisdom.

For thousands of years, China's poetry, architectural art, medicine, painting, opera, tea culture, Zen and so on have taken root in the Chinese nation, and Buddhism has become the most dazzling pearl in Chinese culture. Most of the Chinese ancestors believed in Buddhism. ......What we can't accept is the part that is distorted by superstition.

Have the opportunity to read Buddhist scriptures. Only by reading Buddhist scriptures can you know what Buddhism is.

Don't be nonsense, you haven't known it yet, Buddhism is not a religion, it's a myth for future generations. Your family's behavior is superstition.

Family members have their own beliefs, and the reason why you are distressed is simply that they do not conform to your worldview, so you should not interfere and do not be distressed about it.

Buddhism is experience, wisdom, and perception. The mountains and rivers are flowing water, and the people of the lower riba are different from each other. The blind do not see the sun and the moon, but are not in themselves.

The Buddha talks about cultivating the mind, clinging to the appearance, and being greedy; In fact, it is far away.

Because what you are seeing now is the modification of the feudal rulers after thousands of years, so you can't accept learning to filter information, life only seeks the three words truth, goodness and beauty.

First of all, I think you can make it clear to your mother: do you want a layman, or you want a family.

Because her current behavior has seriously affected the family relationship and the normal functioning of the family, which is a very serious problem.

Secondly, in terms of family view, I prefer the European and American ones: they can't live together, they can be separated.

Everyone's patience is limited, beyond that limit, it is suffering, and according to your description, you have reached the point where you are not together.

Thirdly, if a layman's behavior is to the point of destroying the basic family structure of his followers, it is likely that this person is not very good. In addition, the thing about the outing, you can clearly say it, this is a family outing, only family members are allowed to participate, we can not organize, but we must not tolerate outsiders coming in. If your mother wants to treat such an outsider as a "family member", then it is indeed to the point where divorce is necessary, because your mother has lost even the most basic family values.

Last but not least:Buddhism pursues a relatively peaceful attitude rather than irritabilityYour mother's conversionIt's not like normal BuddhismThere should be a phenomenon.

I suggest you consider itSeek some help from the relevant departments of the state for religious affairs, maybe it's a cult. Some people are sent to prison for a few years and then they are honest.

The Buddha told Ananda. Wise man. Choose from the law.

Good is right and wrong. Hence the name Homo sapiens. He who is good.

Good for the Dharma realm. There are also four categories. The so-called good boundary.

Deal with the law well. Good karma. Good is not the law.

Benevolence is capable of knowing what it is. That's why it's called Homo sapiens. (Qianlong Tripitaka "Buddha Says Four Qualities of the Law Sutra").

Explain all the Buddhas' profound and wonderful laws. There is no difference between understanding the Dharma and the Dharma of the world. The worldly Dharma enters the Dharma.

The Dharma enters the worldly Dharma. The Dharma is not chaotic in the world. The Dharma of the world does not destroy the Dharma.

The true Dharma realm is indestructible. The three generations of peace and equality are correct. I don't give up bodhichitta.

Reluctance to educate the hearts of sentient beings. Increase compassion. I want to save all living beings.

The bodhisattva is reciting. I don't fulfill sentient beings. Who should be the achievement.

I don't subdue sentient beings. Whoever should be subdued. I am not silent beings, who should be silent.

I don't please all beings, and whoever makes them happy. I am not pure, and all beings should be pure. The bodhisattva's repetition is recitation.

I thought I had a deep understanding of this. Seeing all sentient beings suffering greatly and being in danger of the path. Bound by all afflictions.

If the patient is severe, he is often suffering. Love is bound in the prison of life and death. Always never leave the king of hell, hungry ghosts, beasts, and Yamas.

It cannot be extinguished forever. Do not leave the three obstacles. Always in the dark of foolishness.

I don't see the truth. There is no liberation from infinite birth and death. The eight tribulations of reincarnation.

Foolishness is diseased and dirty. I did not trouble the sea in immeasurable depth. Misguided views do not see the right way.

The bodhisattva made such observations. If sentient beings are immature. and to give up enlightenment.

It should not be. I should educate sentient beings first. Cultivating bodhisattva practice in immeasurable eons.

The immature are ripe. Those who have not been subdued are subdued by fatwa. Those who have not yet been granted the fatwa are saved.

It is when the Bodhisattva lives on this trip. The heavens, the world's demons, the Buddhas, the Brahmins, the heavens, the gods, the goddesses, etc. Seeing this, the Bodhisattva rejoiced and admired.

If there are sentient beings. Respectful offerings, respectful prayers. Even what I have seen and heard is true.

Determine the end of the three bodhisattvas. It is the sixth goodness of the Bodhisattva Mahasattva. ——Gongdelin Bodhisattva (Qianlong Tripitaka Sutra "Dafang Guang Buddha Huayan Sutra Sixty Volumes" Volume 11 and Volume 20).

For example, a flock of birds, gathering at night, flying with them, don't know if they die, and the same is true for obedient departure, only Buddha Bodhi is the true place to return to the battle, according to the scriptures, I will briefly say that the wise man should think (Qianlong Tripitaka "Buddha Says Impermanence Sutra").

It's not that I'm in the devil, but I'm going astray, and I'm meeting a leader who is not as good as the law. You need to find a better teacher (preferably a monk) to correct your mother and even the layman your mother knows in order to get on the right path.

You should learn the Buddha to maintain positive energy, do what you want to do, look at Master Nan Huaijin's teachings, learn the method of raising mantras and chanting, your problem will be solved, this is the brine tofu one thing down one thing, you learn better than her she will be affected by your mantra holding power change,

A normal practitioner can work normally and go home, but now it's not normal to see this, is the layman a man or a woman? Again, there seems to be no further evidence that there is a problem with the layman.

Your mom is always angry, and there's something wrong with that, and what they're learning is not the Dharma.

You need to dig deeper and look at the surface and not explain the specific reason.

Your mother was deceived by the evil master, which was inspired by her karma from her past life. You can't convince her. The occurrence of this kind of thing is also a catastrophe that you and your father should have in this life. The sufferings of sentient beings are varied, and the bitter fruits are not exhausted, and this calamity will not be eliminated!

If what you say is true, it seems that the layman is not a true practitioner.

A true practitioner will not be contaminated with any red dust disputes, let alone disturb other people's families, and this layman also knows that it is because he causes other people's family conflicts.

Please advise your mother to learn Buddhism with the precepts as the teacher, the Buddhist scriptures as the teacher, and not according to the law. This is the teaching of the Buddha.

I don't know if you also study Buddhism, but I suggest that you can recite a sutra to resolve your mother's current state, the Peacock Ming King Sutra, may your mother be able to truly change, there is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

Studying Buddhism has learned to go mad, but not to learn love, this is about teaching, and it is difficult to save the minced meat.

If you don't become a demon, you can't become a Buddha! Is it a believing Buddha or a believing demon!

No matter what you teach, you are learning on the basis of your own nature and life

Your mother is right to study Buddhism, but your mother can definitely say that it is obvious! Why? Because your mother is now very superstitious about this layman, that is, because as long as this layman says what he says, it is right!

This is a very dangerous phenomenon, and there are very many people who study Buddhism, who only believe in the laymen or monks they follow, and the people in the family do not listen to the words at all, and some even ignore their own families, do not look after the children, do not take care of the family, and wholeheartedly follow the monks or lay gatherings that they believe in, and go out to do this and that, causing disharmony in the family, and thinking that only they are right! In this matter, I can clearly say that your mother has found the wrong master! Buddhists should have their own wisdom, be clear about their purpose in learning Buddhism, and not follow some people who are not really able to promote Buddhism, so the best way now is to let your mother find a master who really understands Buddhism and guide her to the right path of believing in Buddhism!

Think about it, what qualifications does a person who can't even get along with his own family have to study Buddhism and practice Buddhism? In this regard, I have my book "Don't go astray as a student of Buddhism", but I can't give it to you, so I can only tell you this. Then she found a way to find a few more laymen for her who could guide her, so as to distract this layman from influencing her.

Can you tell me what your mother learned? What happened to her after she met the layman? You have to tell me truthfully and in detail so that I can help you analyze.

The purpose of Buddhism is to do so."All repentance seeps into evil, all good is pursued, and self-purification is based on balanceAs long as it does not deviate from this purpose, it will be beneficial and unharmed.

Buddhism was originally an education. It is to analyze the true meaning of life and bury filial piety, and get rid of life and death without royal manuscript education. It has been made superstitious and commercialized by some people, including you and your family, who have completely misunderstood Buddhism!

I understand your distress very well, and from your description, it is indeed a bit superstitious. The difference between superstitious wisdom and belief is that superstition only knows what it is, or (it doesn't know what it is, but it is deceived and then deceived people) and it is not aware of the reason for it. It is also good to have faith, but you must be wise and faithful.

Zhixin is to read the right books, find the right team of teachers, and experience the true wisdom of the Dharma through one's own practical practice. In this way, we will not be deceived and will be deceived again.

The solution to your troubles is that you know what they are, and you can believe in them. As long as you "understand" (those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear), can they transform their troubles, and these small troubles are just floating clouds for your immeasurable mind, and they will naturally float through the clouds.

This is not believing in Buddhism, believing in Buddhism should tell her to read the Buddhist scriptures well, there is no basis for Buddhist scriptures, talking nonsense about the Dharma, leading others to slander, slandering the Dharma with her body.