The two of us were divided. Did I make the right decision

How do you know the result if you don't try, if you can't let go, then try once, and don't give up twice. Until death.

In fact, I advise you, seeing flowers in the fog is the most beautiful, your current situation is similar to seeing flowers in the fog, because you don't understand at all, just like it on the surface, you like her beauty. After really getting to know her, it is better for you to make a careful decision, because at that time you should be rational, and the decision at that time should be correct.

Don't be captivated by beautiful appearances, a woman's beauty can't live.

I feel that you and my first love are almost the same, I am 27 years old and now I just have a second girlfriend, I should say that I am incompetent, men in addition to being rich or have the ability to worry about money (whether they are handsome or not handsome is not the main thing), the former first love girlfriend deceived me for more than half a year, because my ability is not as good as the friends around him (the boss makes hundreds of thousands of dollars a year from doing business, and the friends around him are all snobbish and self-righteous), and finally followed the person who can help her do business. What does this mean? We are not suitable, there were some similarities with yours at the beginning, I sent messages to her and she rarely replied, basically I took the initiative to find her.

I feel like you're unrequited, maybe she's just seeing you as a confidant of the opposite sex, not a boyfriend, maybe she's meeting a better man than you locally, she's measuring the differences between you, thinking about what kind of future she needs. I feel that you are very similar to me, you have a sense of responsibility and know how to love people, but such a man in the real society is not necessarily popular, to put it bluntly, as long as you have money, you don't have to worry about having a wife. Nowadays, women are unrealistic a lot, they want a house, a car, and a lot of things, but in fact, some of them don't deserve to have these things (if you want to find a big money, you have to have capital, and a big money loves to find beautiful women).

Dude, I may not be entirely right, I suggest you calm down, it took me a year to think about it after I broke up with my first girlfriend, divert your thoughts, keep yourself busy, calm down and think about whether you are suitable? If it's not suitable, just be an ordinary friend, at least you haven't been in love, and no one has hurt anyone. Long-distance relationships are hard to come by, unless you trust each other unwaveringly!

Good luck buddy! Everyone has a past, let time fade it!

By the way, this afternoon my girlfriend came to my house to meet my parents for the first time, and hopefully this is a good start.

Are you over 18? If it's full, chase it! I gave up because I was too young, and I still think about her.

However, I also advise you to think about it seriously, after all, you have to be right about yourself, and you have to be right about your parents, so that a family will be harmonious, and you will be happier when you are small, no regrets!

Friend, may you solve your troubles soon

Your decision is right, this kind of woman is unreasonable, it will be very troublesome after marriage, you have to think about it yourself. Of course, the four-year relationship is not easy, but if you are always troubled, you should choose to give up. No, then there is no end to it. Support you.

Our 4 years of love have been spent in quarrels.

Absolutely no marriage!

Honestly, I want to talk to you about the concept of love again.

You can meet a lot of people in your life who you love or love you, or you love her and she loves you, you don't have to be so stubborn to marry the person you are now.

Right. Try to change yourself for the sake of the other person. It is important that the red envelope is appropriate, or it is important to make the wife's heart comfortable. Grasp the key points.

Love or not? This question is the most important thing, don't love, let go of yourself early, let go of each other, love, then cede one step to each other, complex and simplistic.

My girlfriend's family and I didn't agree at first. Later, after the efforts of both of us, we agreed. Then they started arguing over various things.

Quarreling is a way of understanding. After we quarreled, we got to know each other better. Now there is no fighting.

In your case, the quarrel lasted for 4 years. It shows that the two of you have a temper that is not in harmony. You can break up at this point.

I didn't get married and quarrel so often. After getting married, those things are guaranteed to make you quarrel every day.

As for the issue of the bride price, the woman generally feels that she has to be face-saving enough to pull the style, and she is in front of relatives and friends once in her life. So she asks for a high point. Economic problems are not taken into account later. It's irrational.

Wrong. You're here to complain that you can't change her.

She's complaining somewhere, too, but it can't change you.

Don't always try to get the other person to change.

But many people can't make a difference.

And this is where the differences and contradictions are most irreconcilable.

I have no right to talk about whether your decision was right or not. But the world is big, and being together is fate, so you have to cherish it. It's been 4 years, so why care about this time. Everyone should be considerate of each other and not be rash.

You are very realistic, but women like romance, what you care about is the life after marriage, but what she wants is that she can only get married once, so I hope you pay enough attention to it. When you say that you break up at such a time, it will hurt him and will strengthen the idea that you don't really love him. Let's talk about it, don't give up so easily...

Since you love each other and can't be together, then I wish him happiness, there is only one parent in the world, and a boyfriend can be found again, parents are also good for you, for your sake, no parent will push their children into the fire pit, so don't blame your parents.

You should let go now, because time is precious, don't drag it out any longer, and cut through the mess quickly and without delaying each other! Find each other, if you can't forget him, then forget him through time, put him in the deepest part of your heart! Let him be the best memory!

I wish you to find your own happy ...... soon

True love is to be tested, and I wish you can find out who is your true love.

If you can't get married, why do you want to torture each other together? Time is the best medicine, or it is better to separate.

People always know how to cherish after losing! If you don't love her (him) and are afraid of hurting her, (he) it's right to break up! Since you can't let go, don't let go easily!

In such a realistic society, although love is vulnerable! But it's precious! No one can say anything about feelings!

If you do your best to save your feelings, you will find how precious love is! Don't be discouraged even if you are discouraged and envious, because you did your best!

How to say it, if you still like him, then you express your feelings to him again, if the other party still refuses, then I don't think there is any need to put down his body and only look at him to hide, the world is so big, why bother to burn the tomato like an unrequited love of a flower! Love has also been loved, if people still refuse, don't think about it, divert your attention, after all, a girl's youth is limited, don't wait.

The first pair (lia) already contains our meaning, and we add it to the semantic repetition.

Since they broke up, there must be contradictions. However, there is no contradiction between people, everyone has their own unique ideas and concepts, and we are all adapting to society to varying degrees when we communicate with people.

Since you have a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it means that you are still emotionally attracted, maybe after experiencing a breakup, there will be some obstacles in your thinking, I hope that a conflict will not affect the future relationship, and communicate more with each other.

People are always like this, they always keep silent when they need to speak, and they can't hold back when they need to be patient, people always start from their own interests, so the mentality determines everything.

It's better to start by changing yourself than to change others.

The relationship is relatively light, and it may not be emotional, but it's just a little improvised, anyway, I feel that you and your boyfriend should have any opinions on you, you just pay attention.

She's testing you, and in this case you can't say yes, no, you can't, you can say that you two won't be separated together, because you're a good fit.

Tempting you, do as I say, you answer: No, at least you have been my girlfriend, I'm very happy, and it's really inappropriate for us to separate, so I don't have any regrets.

He doesn't like you, and if he starts with you and then breaks up, it hurts you more.

He has intentions for you or is tempting you.

It shows that the relationship between you is very good! Maybe you're one.

is love, maybe there is friendship between you, no matter what kind of feelings, from a boy's mouth can say such words, it means that you are very important in his heart, of course, except for the kind of boy who likes to flam in front of girls, such a boy may like to talk about girls, not necessarily the truth, want to know whether what the boy says is sincere, it is necessary to understand through time, don't always listen to what the other party's mouth is saying, more understanding of what he is actually doing is the most important thing.

When a boy tells you that we don't distinguish between you and me, the meaning is different in different environments. In addition, you have to understand it in the context of your usual relationship. If you two are usually very aggressive, then he means to treat you as a buddy.

If you usually get along well and are not very aggressive people, then he is in love with you. If you usually have a normal relationship, then he may just be polite about something.

When a boy says that the two of us are not separated from you and me, it means that he has fully accepted you, and from now on he will never leave you and take care of each other for life.

It means that you have entered his heart, and you have not taken him to heart.